Hey there, Facebook fam! Have you ever felt like your parents were playing favorites? Or maybe they had some double standards that just didn’t sit right with you? Well, buckle up, because I’ve got a story that’s sure to get your blood boiling and have you questioning who’s in the wrong! Our protagonist, a 25-year-old woman, has had enough of her parents’ unfair treatment when it comes to sleepovers and relationships. With her wedding just around the corner, she decides to take matters into her own hands and give her parents a taste of their own medicine. But does this make her the a**hole? Keep reading to find out!
The Parental Rules

Growing Up with Double Standards

No Sleepovers Allowed

A Tomboy’s Tale ♀️

The Unfair Treatment Begins

Enter the Fiancé

Finally Allowed to Stay Over ️

Moving In Together

Mother-Daughter Bonding Time?

The Arrival of the Parents

The Unmarried Couple

Separate Rooms, Please!

The Same Rules Apply

Standing My Ground

The Argument Heats Up

Accusations and Departure ✈️

Grandma Weighs In

Clarifying the Situation

The Double Standard

The Power Shift

The Intention Behind It All

A Lesson to Be Learned?

The Final Decision

Am I the A**hole?

A Taste of Their Own Medicine
Our bride-to-be has had enough of her parents’ double standards when it comes to sleepovers and relationships. ♀️ When her parents come to visit to help with wedding planning, she decides to enforce the same rules they imposed on her growing up. Her unmarried parents are not allowed to share a bed in her house, just as she and her fiancé were never allowed to at her parents’ place. ️ This leads to a heated argument, with her parents accusing her of making things up and ultimately cutting their visit short. Now, even her grandmother is calling to scold her! So, who’s really in the wrong here? Let’s see what the internet has to say about this drama-filled situation…
Redditors show support for OP’s ‘Malicious Compliance’ with parents

Unmarried couple asserts independence from potential in-laws. NTA.

Asserting boundaries with grace

Taking control of her life, bride-to-be shows mom who’s boss

Stand your ground! NTA for calling out favoritism.
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Being petty but NTA with a touch of compliance

Standing up to parents’ double standards and winning.

Bride-to-be shuts down controlling parent. Invite withheld

Bride-to-be sets boundaries with parents and wins. NTA

Breaking gender norms: standing up to outdated thinking

Petty but satisfying. NTA, well done bride-to-be!

Sassy bride gets called YTA, but stands her ground

Fiery comment with no replies. Not appropriate for engagement.

Engaging response to a bride-to-be’s stand against parents.

Fair is fair. Stand up for your beliefs.
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User thinks bride-to-be is immature for standing up to parents

Standing up to unfairness with a petty dose of justice

Redditor acknowledges parents’ argument but avoids upsetting them intentionally

User calls out OP for being the a**hole.

Choosing to pay for school was OP’s petty vengeance

Parent commenter supports bride-to-be’s stance, calls out unfair treatment

Malicious compliance served hot and ready like Little Caesar’s pizza

User calls out petty drama and disengages from conversation

Bride-to-be shuts down hypocritical parents and unwanted guests. Genius move!

Engaging comment calling out hypocritical parents.

Being an a**hole can be justified. My house, my rules!
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Being difficult just for the sake of it is not helpful

Bride-to-be stands up to parents and is NTA, despite their behavior.

Brutal honesty: Commenter calls out OP on being TA

ESH, but a small explanation and apology could fix everything

Controlling who sleeps in your house, childish or justified?
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Mother’s sexist rules backfire on her, NTA stands up.

Unfair treatment from parents for being a responsible daughter.

Society’s double standard for dating: NTA for standing up.

Impressed dad finds daughter’s trolling funny. NTA.

Being the a**hole isn’t always wrong – hilarious story

Curious about the reason behind bed-sharing drama?

Supportive comment embraces pettiness and justifies NTA judgement.

User accuses bride-to-be of spiteful behavior. Blocked for honesty.
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Support for OP’s decision and humorous comparison to Mean Girls

Opinion on bride-to-be’s family drama: All parties at fault ♀️

Standing up to hypocrites feels glorious!

Gender double standards and immature behavior in family conflict. ♀️

Disapproving comment about opposite-sex sleepovers under parents’ roof.

A dissenting opinion warns OP of potential consequences

Curious commenter questions why adult BF stayed at GF’s parents’ house.

When being an a**hole is justified… or is it?

Paying back parents with their own coin. NTA wins!

Terrible mothers deny mistreatment, causing lasting trauma.

Daughter sets a boundary with her mother’s hypocritical rule

Parenting rule reversal gets a laugh

Standing up to parents like a boss, YANTA!
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Hero stands up to parents for mom’s honor.
