Picture this: you’re excitedly planning your dream wedding, and you’ve picked the perfect date. You even give your sister, who happens to be a photographer, plenty of notice to avoid scheduling anything on that day. But then, she books a wedding for the same date and asks you to move yours! Can you imagine the drama? Well, that’s exactly what happened to our bride-to-be, who’s now caught in a whirlwind of family conflict, heartbreak, and hurt feelings. Let’s dive into her story and see if she’s in the wrong for standing her ground…
The Long Engagement
Sister’s Wedding Plans
Photographer Sister’s Warning ⚠️
Planning Continues
The Unfortunate Booking
Family Drama Ensues
Cancel the Client?
Heartbreak and Hurt
Update: Standing Strong
Boundaries and Learning
The Photographer Dilemma
Family’s Side
Staying Strong
Heartbroken Bride-to-be
Wedding Date Wars: Sisterly Showdown!
Our bride-to-be (34f) got engaged in September 2022 and picked her wedding date for early summer 2024. She warned her photographer sister (27f) not to book anything on that date. But when her sister asked for a reminder of the date in October 2023, she revealed she had booked a wedding for that very day! The sister asked our bride-to-be to move her wedding, but she refused, causing a family drama explosion. Now, she’s being accused of not caring about her sister and is heartbroken that her sibling won’t be there on her big day. But she’s standing strong, refusing to move her date, and learning about setting boundaries. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
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