Imagine your own twin sister trying to upstage you at your engagement party. That’s what happened to this 28-year-old woman in this story , who has always had a strained relationship with her identical twin sister. Her twin showed up in a dress almost identical to hers and made a speech that was all about their twinship, taking digs at the bride-to-be throughout.
The bride lost it and screamed at her sister. Now, the bride’s family is divided and she’s wondering if she was the a**hole for reacting the way she did. Read on to find out how Reddit users judged this family feud.
Bride sets wedding boundary after fight with twin sister

Bridezilla alert! Bride’s tantrums leave fiancé as only mediator

Twin sisters with identical looks, but not personalities clash

Bride-to-be reveals therapy session discussing twin sister conflict.

Grateful for support after heated engagement party altercation.

Bride-to-be clarifies reason for therapy amid family drama

Bride-to-be opens up about grieving process and twin bond ❤️

Twin sister drama at engagement party

Twin sisters’ engagement party turns into a dramatic showdown.

Quick engagement for long-term couple’s small wedding plan

Twin sister’s constant need to compete causes family drama.

Twin sister’s controlling behavior caused childhood frustration and resentment.

Twin sister rivalry even extends to dating life

Twin sisters drift apart, bride-to-be shares her perspective.

Twin sister steals spotlight at engagement party with identical outfit.

No room for family drama in this wedding party ♀️

Sister’s speech turns sour at engagement party, causing rift

Bride’s explosive outburst at twin sister shocks engagement party.

Twin bride-to-be unleashes fury on sister at engagement party

Dealing with family drama at engagement party, AITA?

Fiancé prepares for potential twin drama at wedding venue

Twin sister drama at engagement party leads to wedding feud
An engaged woman is at odds with her twin sister after she showed up to her engagement party wearing a similar outfit and made a speech about their twin dynamic, singling out her sister’s relationship with her fiancé. The bride-to-be lashed out at her sister, calling her a “psychotic jealous c**t” and told her not to come to the wedding.
The feud has resulted in a family divide over the situation . The bride-to-be explains that their twin dynamic has been difficult due to her sister’s need to be better at everything, causing a rift in their relationship.
While some family members are calling her out for embarrassing her sister, the bride-to-be is standing her ground and refusing to invite her twin sister to the wedding until she apologizes for her behavior.
Will the twins reconcile before the wedding or will this feud continue to escalate? Read on to find out.
Twin sister made a pass at OP’s fiancé. NTA.
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NTA, live your best life and leave your sister’s misery behind

Twin sister tries to sabotage engagement, NTA for calling her out ♀️

Sister wore identical gown and gave self-indulgent speech. NTA.

Stand up for yourself, NTA!

Engaged twin stands up to toxic sister with support

Twin sister causing drama, but NTA and well-prepared for wedding

Standing up for yourself and setting boundaries. NTA!

Cutting out toxic family members.

Commenter defends the OP’s decision and suggests inviting only dad.

Dealing with toxic siblings, a relatable struggle
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Sibling rivalry turned toxic at engagement party. NTA for setting boundaries.
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Bride-to-be considers hiring a bouncer for wedding

Commenter supports OP, suggests disinviting sister from wedding.

Suggests going low contact with enablers to avoid twin’s toxicity
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Cutting ties with disrespectful twin sister, family enabling behavior

Commenter calls out toxic behavior in bride’s family
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Uninviting twin sister is reasonable, but AH is the mom

Sister’s job questioned, but NTA for bride-to-be’s outburst
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Commenter supports the bride-to-be’s reaction at the party

Commenter supports bride-to-be for calling out her twin sister

Sister stands up to toxic twin at engagement party!

Twin sister drama sparks Sidney Sheldon vibes

Commenter supports bride-to-be, calls sister an a**hole

Defending against abusive behavior

Supportive bridesmaid to the rescue! ♀️

Finding yourself is important. Keep toxic relationships out.

Bride disinvites sister from wedding, family divided.

Party drama: Bride-to-be defends herself against twin sister’s antics
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Supportive comment, wishing for a great wedding day

Family loyalty shouldn’t excuse toxic behavior

Bride-to-be stands up to toxic twin sister, receives validation.

Dealing with a twin’s jealousy? You are a true hero!

Sibling rivalry can be exhausting and toxic. Glad you’re taking care of yourself. #NTA

Sister tries to steal spotlight at engagement party

Wedding sabotage concerns raised, but bride-to-be is prepared.

Don’t invite toxic family members to your wedding

Commenter calls out inappropriate behavior with disgust.

Savage but funny comment wins this comment section

Set boundaries and don’t invite toxic family members to wedding ❌

Standing up to toxic behavior is never easy, but necessary.

Sister stands up for herself and sets boundaries with family

Commenter praises NTA response to insult with emoji

Bride-to-be draws the line, says no to toxic family members

Support for NTA who was insulted by her own twin.

Bride’s twin sister accused of one-upping with parent’s help

Stand your ground! Narcissism is not welcome at weddings.

Bride-to-be takes action against sister’s copying at engagement party

Context is key! NTA according to replies

Congrats on the engagement! Speaking truth to family, NTA

Wedding security may be necessary with crazy sister around

Family dynamics can be complicated . NTA for setting boundaries.
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Standing up to toxic family dynamics.
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Standing up to abusive siblings is important. #NotTheAsshole

Setting boundaries with family

Twin sister finally tells truth at engagement party

Insult game on point! Commenter is NTA.

Sister’s jealousy could ruin wedding. Uninvite her now ♀️

Last Updated on March 18, 2023 by Chifundo