Weddings are supposed to be a time of joy and celebration, but sometimes they can also bring out the worst in people. One bride-to-be (23F) is facing a dilemma as her big day approaches. She’s been busy finalizing RSVPs and chatting with her uni friend B (24F) about what to wear to her South Asian wedding. Little did she know that her friend’s choice of attire would lead to a major conflict.
Excitement Turns to Concern

Cultural Dress Code

The Sari Dilemma Begins ️

Bridal Color Rules

A Forbidden Choice

Refusing to Budge

The Bride’s Ultimatum

Clarification from the Bride

A Wedding Guest’s Unwillingness to Change
This bride-to-be is struggling with a difficult decision as her wedding day approaches. Her friend B has chosen a red and gold sari to wear, despite being told that red is the bridal color and should be avoided. B refuses to compromise, insisting that it won’t matter on the day and she won’t have another occasion to wear a sari. The bride is left wondering if she would be in the wrong for disinviting her friend over this dress color debacle. Let’s see what the internet has to say about this tricky situation…
Bridezilla alert! Guest wants to wear a wedding dress

Guest ignored dress code, bride not at fault. NTA
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Wedding guest disregards dress code, bride-to-be uninvites her. NTA.

Respect the dress code or don’t come. NTA

Bride-to-be’s friend ignores dress code, not much of a friend

Uninviting guest for dress color: NTA, bride’s day, her rules

Friend disregards bride’s wishes for her own selfish desires

Guest prioritizes Indian clothing over bride’s wedding dress

Guest wearing red to wedding is like wearing white. NTA

Respectful wedding attire is crucial, bride-to-be has every right.

Friend gives advice on cultural sensitivity for bride-to-be. NTA.

NTA. Red is the bridal color in a typical SA wedding. Basic research!

Guest wears red and gold sari to desi wedding, bride-to-be upset

Uninviting the disrespectful guest: NTA

Set boundaries for wedding attire with ultimatum. NTA

Bridezilla’s friend disrespects bridal colors, gets called out. NTA wins.

Cheering for the NTA commenter to dump entitled guest

Respect the dress code or don’t come

Disinvite the rude guest who won’t follow dress code

Respect the bride’s wishes or don’t attend the wedding

Bride-to-be stands her ground on wedding dress code
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Set wedding dress code or uninvite guest. NTA wins.

Bridezilla insists on wearing red, calls guest entitled for wanting same.

Respect the bride’s wishes or face the consequences

Cultural appropriation debate in wedding dress color choice.

Guest disregards bride’s culture, NTA for enforcing dress code
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Wearing red to a South Asian wedding: NTA or YTA?
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British guest causes drama by wearing red sari to wedding

Friendship on the line over wedding dress color clash

Friend disrespects bride-to-be’s wishes on wedding dress color

Guest wears wrong color dress, disinvites herself. NTA verdict.

Guest disregards wedding dress code, bride not the a**hole.

Polite bride-to-be sets dress code for wedding with ultimatum

Bridezilla alert! Guest told to change dress color or stay home
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Bride-to-be’s demand for dress color leads to NTA ruling.

Guest ignores dress code, bride-to-be not the a**hole for enforcing it

Bride-to-be stands her ground on wedding dress color

Setting dress code boundaries for wedding guests.
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No red dress rule broken, disinvite attention-seeking guest

Support for bride’s dress choice and advice on friendship.

Wedding dress code drama: Guest wears red sari, bride upset. NTA.
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Friend disregarded bride’s request, NTA for enforcing dress code

Bride-to-be stands her ground against disrespectful guest

Guest ignores dress code, bride uninvites her. NTA

Bride’s friend disregards dress code, gets excluded from photos.
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Uninviting rude guest who criticized dress – NTA

Respectful bride-to-be sets cultural boundaries, guest disrespects and ignores them.

Bride stands her ground on wedding dress code. NTA wins!

Wedding dress color drama averted with UK cultural sensitivity

Guest criticized for inappropriate sari choice at wedding

Wedding drama awaits as dramatic guest sparks anticipation

Guest wears white dress to wedding, bride disinvites her. NTA.

Guest’s red dress: cultural norm vs bride’s request. NTA.

Respect for culture and wedding attire is important

Wedding guest disregards dress code, bride-to-be not having it

Wedding guest crosses line with red dress, commenter agrees NTA.

Respect the bride’s request for dress code

Setting boundaries for wedding dress color, NTA handled it well

Wedding dress color debate: Red is for bride only. NTA.

Friend prioritizes cultural appropriation over bride’s happiness

Wedding guest disregards bride’s wishes, gets uninvited. NTA

Guest disregarded cultural sensitivity, NTA. Opportunity for cultural learning

Bridezilla meets her match with this salty NTA comment

Indian commenter finds humor in guest’s wedding dress faux pas

Guest called out for wearing same color as bride-to-be

Uninvite her, she’s not a true friend
