Picture this: it’s your wedding day, and instead of dancing the night away, you’re stuck chasing after your kids. This is exactly what happened to one bride, who had a disagreement with her husband about whether or not to include their children in the festivities. The groom wanted a kid-free wedding, while the bride insisted on having their children present. They eventually compromised, but things didn’t go as planned. Let’s dive into this wedding drama and see how it unfolded…
A Love Story Begins

Becoming a Family

Wedding Planning Begins

Cultural Differences

The Compromise

Parents to the Rescue?

Bride’s Struggle

Groom’s Response

Wedding Day Disaster

Bride’s Frustration

No Fun for the Bride

Groom’s Reaction

Parents’ Scolding ️

Bride’s Response

No Babysitter at the Wedding

Bride Left Out of Her Own Wedding Fun
So, who’s really at fault here? The groom, who insisted on a kid-free wedding and left the childcare responsibility to his wife? Or the bride, who wanted their children present but didn’t make proper arrangements to ensure she could enjoy her big day? One thing’s for sure, this wedding turned out to be a memorable one, but not for the reasons the couple had hoped. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
Husband’s controlling behavior ruins wife’s wedding day

Groom’s selfish behavior on wedding day causes concern among commenters. ♂️

Proposal for compromise dismissed, wife’s feelings not considered. ♂️

Commenter calls out groom for punishing bride on wedding day

Commenter calls out OP for refusing babysitter, deems them YTA

Commenter calls out OP for ruining wife’s special night.

Commenter calls out OP as YTA, others criticize bride’s decision.

Husband refuses to find a solution for their kids at wedding.

Bride’s brother calls OP an a**hole for excluding kids from wedding

Groomzilla won’t allow wife to hire sitter for wedding. YTA

Bride’s husband criticized for prioritizing being right over kindness

Questioning the motives behind a loveless marriage.
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Bride prioritizes her wedding over her partner’s comfort. YTA

Bride is called out for setting up her sister to fail as punishment for wanting her children at the wedding. Commenter gives a detailed breakdown of the situation and calls the bride the a**hole (YTA) for her dismissive behavior towards her sister’s cultural reasons and lack of support in finding a babysitter.

Husband’s failure to consider wife’s needs earns him YTA verdict

Commenter calls out OP for being selfish at own wedding

Bride excluded her own children from wedding, YTA according to commenters

Commenter calls out OP for being a terrible husband and father.

Commenter calls out OP and receives agreement from reply.

Groom’s selfishness ruins bride’s big day. YTA

Bride left on parenting duties at her own wedding

Commenter calls out selfish behavior of bride, sparks heated replies. ♂️
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Commenter sympathizes with bride, condemns groom and his parents.

Commenter calls out OP for being selfish at their own wedding

Parenting responsibilities can’t be dropped for an argument

Father refuses to get babysitter for own wedding, deemed YTA

A pointed question with no replies.

Father excludes his own children from his wedding. YTA.

Commenter calls out groom for neglecting wife and kids

Bride left alone and scolded – YTA strikes again

Suggested roster to spread the load.

Bride’s husband receives backlash for not allowing his own kids

Bride criticized for leaving kids with stranger but not at wedding

Questioning the motives behind a loveless marriage.

Commenter calls out groom for prioritizing party over union

OP is YTA for banning own child from wedding

Redditors agree: OP is the a**hole for ruining wedding day

Commenter calls out the groom for being selfish and inconsiderate

Commenter calls out rude and selfish parents at wedding

Commenter calls out groom for being controlling and ruining wedding.

Commenter shares positive experience of having baby at wedding, criticizes OP.

Commenter calls out OP for disrespecting partner’s culture and being selfish

Commenter calls out bigotry and abuse, deems OP YTA.

Commenter calls out unsupportive husband for not compromising on sitter.

Commenter calls out selfish behavior with strong language.

Commenter calls out OP for being the a**hole in relationship.

Commenter calls out selfish bride, says YTA.

Harsh YTA comment predicts doomed marriage

Commenter calls out OP for prioritizing parents over wife. YTA.

Commenter calls out OP for being a spiteful husband

Parenting priorities clash with wedding wishes
