Friends of the bride or groom are supposed to be a blessing on their special day. All the attention is on the happy couple, which means the friends can take some time away from the spotlight and enjoy themselves. But what if one of those friends starts causing trouble? A bride recently reached out to the AITA subreddit on Reddit , sharing a tale from her wedding, and asking if she was in the wrong when she kicked out one of her bridesmaids.
The issue started when the said bridesmaid dropped the N-word during a conversation with a black friend of the bride. After getting called out on it and kicked out of the wedding party, she kept making a big deal out of apologizing and wanted some sort of retribution for all the flights she took to come to the wedding.
Check out the full story below. What would you have done in this situation? Let us know what you think, and if you’ve ever had to deal with a difficult bridesmaid or groomsman before, we’d love to hear from you as well.
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The bride kicked out a bridesmaid for using a racial slur and expects an apology
A bride had her bridesmaid kicked out the night before her wedding when she made a racial slur. This caused quite a stir, leading to the bridesmaid asking for an apology and reimbursement for her expenses. In an attempt to find a solution, the bride has turned to Reddit for advice on the situation . Read on below for comments and reactions.
There’s no for racism!

NTA – bride did the right thing!

Jane’s behavior crosses a line

African & Korean perspectives

NTA: Right thing done!

⚖️ NTA: “I don’t apologize to racists”

Bigoted bride caught red-handed

Bridesmaid demands apology

Bridesmaid gets kicked out

Bride stands up for a friend!

Exploring racism and cultural differences

Bride kicks out bridesmaid ♀️

A***le bridesmaid gets kicked out by brides

Jane NTA ♀️

Bride kicks out bridesmaid

Bride takes a stand

Bride kicks out racist bridesmaid

️️ NTA! Bride fights racism

NTA- Bride kicks racist bridesmaid out of wedding

A friendship ending over racism

Bride stands against racism!

NTA – Good For Calling Her Out!

No, not crossing that line ✋

Bride kicks out bridesmaid
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NTA –

Bride kicks out bridesmaid

Bride sends bridesmaid ✋ to the curb!

Bride kicks out bridesmaid

A “hero”

A bride does the right thing

Bridesmaid was kicked out for using N-word!
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Bride ✔️ right: NTA ♀️

Bride kicks out bridesmaid

NTA: Bridesmaid needs a reality check

♀️ NTA: Jane made a mistake

Bride kicks out bridesmaid

Bride kicks out bridesmaid No racism allowed!
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Bridesmaid displays ignorance
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Bride kicks out bridesmaid
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NTA: ✋ Racism won’t be tolerated

♀️ NTA: Bride kicks out bridesmaid.

Bride Kicks Out Bridesmaid ♀️

♀️ No apologies to racists! ♀️

Friend stands up for a racist comment!
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No one deserves racism

NTA –

♀️ NTA: No defense

Bride kicks out bridesmaid

Protecting friends & standing up against racism

Bride rightfully kicks out bridesmaid ✋

♀️ Big ‘I have a black friend’ ♀️

Bride kicks out bridesmaid

Lesson learned

Standing up for Nya!

♀️NTA: Bride kicks out bridesmaid!

Racism won’t fly

Friendship wins

Bride kicks out bridemaid

Bride kicks out bridesmaid

A stand against racism

Bride kicks out bridesmaid

The bride was right to kick out the bridesmaid ♀️

No red flags before the wedding?

Bride kicks out bridesmaid ♀️

Fighting racism with

Bride Kicks Out ♀️ Racist Bridesmaid

NTA! ♀️

Standing up for what’s right!

Last Updated on February 23, 2023 by Chifundo