Cooking for the family can be stressful but imagine your significant other rating your food in front of them. This is exactly what happened to one woman who posted on AITA . Her boyfriend, a culinary professional, gave her dishes a less-than-favorable score in front of her family. She confronts him but he says it was only constructive criticism. Is she overreacting or is he being insensitive? Read more to find out.
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️When constructive criticism goes too far
Cooking for loved ones is an act of love but what happens when it’s not appreciated? A 25-year-old woman seeks advice from the internet after her boyfriend, a professional chef, took his criticism too far. He started rating the meals she cooked for her family and giving her advice on how to improve her “score” in front of her family. The woman felt humiliated and embarrassed. She confronted her boyfriend, but he defended his actions, stating that he was only trying to help her improve. The woman is now wondering if she reacted too harshly. What would you do if you were in her shoes? Share your thoughts in the comments below.
Constructive criticism turned belittling, Gordon Ramsey approves
Boyfriend’s r**e behavior and red flags, NTA better off without.
Don’t put up with it, show him the door!
Commenter suggests rating boyfriend during s*x, others join in
Partner’s food rating system causing relationship issues
Boyfriend’s food rating system earns him a**hat status ♀️
Suggesting to rate the s*x back, with a touch of sarcasm
Dump him. He’s manipulative and played the victim.
Rating food isn’t criticism. Boyfriend needs to cook himself
Boyfriend rates food at restaurants too. NTA. Tell him to cook.
Boyfriend’s culinary school flex humiliates girlfriend in front of family
Communication breakdown: ignored cooking rating request leads to humiliation.
NTA commenter suggests rating boyfriend’s actions including s*x performance
Commenter sympathizes with OP’s situation, offers support to fellow victim.
Boyfriend’s inappropriate food rating system leaves girlfriend feeling humiliated
Don’t let him taste your food, he’s just an obnoxious a**hole
Commenter rates cruel boyfriend 3/10 on the boyfriend scale
❤️ Don’t let anyone humiliate you in front of family
You’re definitely not the a****e in this situation.
Don’t let him ruin your appetite Communicate and set boundaries
NTA stands up to belittling boyfriend with clever clapback.
Don’t ignore the red flags, prioritize your self-respect!
Food rating system? Boyfriend is definitely TA.
Stand up for yourself! ♀️ Don’t cook for him anymore.
Don’t let anyone make you feel small for being yourself
Spice up your relationship with star ratings ⭐
Controlling boyfriend humiliates girlfriend with food rating system ️
Respectful behavior is key even for a food critic.
Commenter calls out boyfriend’s r**e behavior with strong language
Commenter defends OP, calls out arrogant boyfriend.
Stand up for yourself! Shut down unsolicited criticism.
Cooking criticism turned cruel. NTA for drawing the line
Don’t let him rate you like a dish NTA
Spice up your s*x life with a food rating system ️
Dump him! Stand up for yourself and your cooking skills.
Stand up for yourself and set boundaries. You deserve respect
Communication is key! Have an honest conversation with him
Reconsider your relationship with an ego-boosting partner
Food and love don’t mix, BF gets a 3/10. ❤️
Standing up for yourself shouldn’t result in punishment.
Food rating system or relationship sabotage? NTA
Cooking should be fun, not stressful. Don’t let anyone rate your food without permission. NTA.
Defending Gordon Ramsay and calling out r**e boyfriend.
Supportive comment gets no replies.
Don’t let anyone put you down while trying to help ♀️
Dump his a**. Humiliation is not constructive ♀️
Give him a taste of his own medicine with *spicy* feedback
Cooking for your partner shouldn’t come with a grading system ️
Sassy comeback shuts down r**e comment about food rating system
No constructive criticism, just Gordon Ramsay-like judgement. #NotCool ♀️
Turn the tables on him with his own rating system
Rating your partner back with emojis might teach him humility
Savage breakup response with food rating system. NTA confirmed.
Petty revenge suggestion sparks in NTA comment section
Petty revenge ideas for food critic boyfriend
Boyfriend’s food rating system is a 0/10 for being r**e
Dump him! Short and to the point.
Supportive comment calls out toxic behavior with shock
Boyfriend’s food rating system makes him an arrogant d***w*d. NTA.
Former chef calls out condescending boyfriend’s food rating system
Your boyfriend’s food rating system is not only r**e but humiliating
Boyfriend’s food rating system is r**e. Commenter is NTA.
Food rating system is a no-go, NTA for setting boundaries
Curious why she’s still with him, any guesses?
Boyfriend’s food rating system is not constructive, he’s just an a**hole
Retroactive boyfriend ratings? Not the a**hole indeed!
Boyfriend rates girlfriend’s cooking like a student. NTA.
Last Updated on April 9, 2023 by Azka