Picture this: you’re a hardworking 24-year-old woman who’s just moved in with her 37-year-old boyfriend. Things are going well, except for one tiny issue… the laundry. He has a mountain of clothes that you’ve been trying to tackle for weeks, but it’s just too much. One day, you need to do your own laundry, so you take his clothes out of the dryer and put them on the bed without folding them. And that’s when the drama begins…
Laundry Drama Begins

Moving In and Bickering

Garbage Bags and Laundry Baskets

Laundry Overload

One Washer, One Dryer

Time for My Laundry! ⏰

Working Girl Problems

Laundry Meltdown

Rewash Everything?

Full-Time Work and Chores

Laundry Standoff ♀️

Laundry War: Fold or Face the Wrath!
Our protagonist finds herself in a laundry war with her boyfriend after moving in together. She’s been folding and hanging his clothes for weeks, but it’s just too much to handle. One day, she decides to take matters into her own hands and removes his clothes from the dryer to make room for her own, without folding them. This leads to an explosive argument with her boyfriend, who claims she’s not doing him any favors and that he’d never do that to her. She works full-time and does most of the cleaning and cooking, so she feels it’s not fair for him to expect her to fold all his clothes or wait days for him to do it. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this laundry standoff… ️♀️
Age difference raises red flags. Don’t enable his incompetence.

Boyfriend hogs dryer, gets mad when laundry moved. ♂️

Red alert! Commenter warns of emotionally abusive relationship. Run!

NTA. Don’t be his maid. Consider if this relationship is healthy.

Toxic boyfriend brings another woman home and she’s YTA?

NTA. You’re not his maid or mother

Partner’s meltdown over laundry exposes manipulation tactics. NTA

Red flag alert! Needy boyfriend assigns you mom’s duties. NTA

Dump him You deserve better

Age doesn’t define maturity. NTA, ditch him

Unfolded laundry causes meltdown, commenter calls partner an idiot.

Discussing responsibilities is key for a harmonious household.

37-year-old man throws fit over unfolded laundry

Dump him . He’s petty, manipulative, disorganized and lazy .

Set clear boundaries and don’t cave to his demands.

Roommate’s dryer habits = Boyfriend’s laundry meltdown. NTA wins.

Don’t let him make you do his housework

Partner expects maid service? NTA. Communication is key

Don’t be a house elf! Grab a sock and run!

Stand your ground! You’re not his mommy

Survivor shares story of emotional abuse and liberation.

Dump his butt and put his clothes back in garbage bags

Stop babying him! NTA, he is acting like a child

Set ground rules for household chores to avoid laundry meltdowns

Taking out ex’s clothes from washer: NTA and independent
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Dump the BF and his clothes ♀️

Stand your ground! Time for an adult conversation.

Boyfriend’s laundry meltdown exposes his manipulative behavior.

Dump him before it escalates: You deserve better.

NTA comment defends OP against expected accusations of abuse
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Air-dried laundry causes a heated debate about folding etiquette

Partner’s laundry meltdown is ridiculous, NTA for not folding clothes.
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Age gap, red flags, and childish behavior. NTA, let him move out

Folding clothes isn’t rocket science, NTA

Savage breakup advice from a no-nonsense commenter

Fold your clothes properly or you’re the a**hole? NTA!

Age gap relationships may not be built on mutual respect. NTA

NTA, stand your ground and let him fold his own laundry

Don’t let him steamroll you over laundry

Mature man at 37 knows how to do laundry

Don’t sort his clothes, let him pout in the streets #NTA

Run, don’t walk, away from this controlling ‘man-child’.

Age-gap relationship with laundry meltdown: NTA, kick him out

Don’t let him take you for granted! Stand up

A messy move-in leads to laundry meltdown. ESH

Grown man can’t handle unfolded laundry, but who’s really TA?

Possible compulsions or manipulation? NTA for unfolded laundry.

Lazy boyfriend throws a fit over laundry, red flag warning

Take a stand! Don’t apologize for his ridiculous behavior.

NTA! ♀️ You’re not his mother, he needs to man up!

Stand up for yourself! Don’t be his bang-maid

Setting the record straight on laundry etiquette.

Empowering response to gendered household chore expectations.

Don’t do his laundry and set boundaries

Harsh but true: age gap, no luggage, and abusive behavior

Age gap and ‘bangmaid’ comment. Get out, honey.

Share the load equally, no need to be a maid

Standing up for yourself and setting boundaries! NTA

Don’t let him manipulate you into being his Bangmaid™. NTA

Age gap, red flags, and verbal abuse. NTA, run girl!

NTA. Boyfriend needs to contribute and respect boundaries.
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NTA. Boyfriend’s laundry meltdown is a major red flag ❌. Consider his actions carefully

Age gap, gender, and chore conflict? NTA, stand firm.

Perfectionism-based procrastination doesn’t lead to good housekeeping.

Dump the loser . Age difference not working.
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OP’s boyfriend has a laundry meltdown, but her post history says leave ♀️

Age gap and laziness concerns raised, NTA, put foot down

Lazy boyfriend gets mad over unfolded laundry, NTA ♀️

Assertive NTA comment promotes equality and household responsibilities.

NTA. Let him fold his own laundry

NTA. Boyfriend can re-dry clothes. Women his age won’t tolerate.

Dump him! You deserve better than a controlling partner.

NTA. Red flags galore. Kick him out and find better.

You’re not his mother, NTA. He’s manipulating you, be careful!

Don’t freeze in fear, run away from the laundry tyrant!

Partner not maid. Red flag alert. Draw firm boundaries

Don’t be his maid, he needs to grow up ♀️
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Red flags everywhere: 37-year-old can’t do laundry, moved in garbage bags

Lazy boyfriend complains about unfolded laundry, NTA for sure
