Ever been caught in the crossfire of financial etiquette? Well, our birthday girl sure has! She’s been in a relationship with her boyfriend, ‘Dave’, for nearly 5 years. Most of their friends, including Dave, come from a wealthy background. However, our birthday girl isn’t so lucky. Despite their financial differences, they’ve always managed to find a balance… until ‘Jan’ came into the picture.
The ‘Dave’ Arrangement: A Financial Lifeline
A Group That Understands… Until Now
Enter ‘Jan’: The New Girl with a Twist
‘Jan’ Stirs the Pot: A Girls’ Day Out
The Unaffordable Affair: Birthday Girl Gets a Reality Check
A Shocking Revelation: ‘Jan’ Spills the Beans
The Birthday Dilemma: To Invite or Not to Invite
The Final Verdict: ‘Jan’ Gets the Boot
Birthday Girl’s Bold Move: No Room for Judgement at the Dinner Table!
Caught in a whirlwind of financial drama and hurtful comments, our birthday girl makes a tough decision. After learning about ‘Jan’s’ unkind remarks, she decides to uninvite her from her birthday dinner. Despite feeling guilty, she stands her ground, refusing to let judgement and insecurity ruin her special day. But the question remains, will this bold move mend the situation or ignite a bigger fire? Let’s see how the internet reacts to this birthday bombshell!
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“NTA. Jan’s nosy judgment is ruining your birthday celebration! “
NTA: May uninvites ‘friend’ who tried to isolate and gossip.
NTA. Uninviting a ‘friend’ who gossips about your finances? Good call!
NTA: Jan’s mean girl behavior backfires, group supports OP.
NTA. Friends should support each other financially and emotionally.
NTA – Stick to your bill-splitting arrangement and shut her down!
NTA strikes back at nosy friend, sparking agreement from others!
NTA. Boyfriend’s business is none of her business. No-go on nasty comments.
NTA. Setting boundaries and sending a powerful message to everyone!
Uninvited ‘friend’ ruins birthday celebration with passive-aggressive comments. NTA!
Resentful ‘friend’ gets a reality check and faces consequences!
Uninvited ‘Friend’ bashes commenter for not affording birthday dinner! NTA
NTA. Jan’s snap judgement caused unnecessary drama. Good riddance!
NTA: Splitting the bill fairly is important, but so is communication
NTA. Jan needs to mind her own business and stay out of it!
NTA uninvites judgmental friend from birthday dinner, drama ensues!
Cut out toxic friends and enjoy your drama-free birthday!
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Seems fair. Keep doing what you’re doing.
“New girl talks sh*t, boyfriend defends, uninvites her. Drama unfolds!”
NTA. Confusing money drama at the birthday party, who paid for what?
Supportive boyfriend and friends have your back!
NTA. Financial decisions are personal. Jan needs a reality check!
NTA insists on paying for friends, but uninvites ‘friend’ over money drama!
Splitting checks: annoying for servers, but fair for friends?
NTA: Setting boundaries and paying your fair share is important
NTA. Supportive boyfriend and friends. Can’t wait for an update!
Boyfriend pays for everything, haters can mind their own business!
NTA! Jan’s audacity is shocking. Your true friends have your back!
Jan needs to mind her own business! NTA
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OP sets the record straight, calls out Jan’s inappropriate comments!
NTA-Ppl should never assume or make negative comments regarding a relationship and how those in it handle situations. Jan learned that she isn’t the one to be able to do that and your bf backed you up. That’s a win in my book. No need to reply to Jan. If she didn’t get it, she does now.
NTA: Uninviting a mean girl from your birthday celebration.
Uninvited ‘friend’ over money drama! No party for her!
May’s silence spoke volumes as Jan badmouthed you. ♀️
NTA, keep an eye on her. Boyfriend might suffer consequences!
Toxic friend makes offensive joke, NTA for uninviting her.
Gender norms and jealousy spark interesting dinner conversation!
NTA-
Matt- ditch Jan.
OP- your man is a keeper
Uninvited ‘friend’ talks behind back, no need to respond. NTA.
NTA, but is she just repeating gossip?
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NTA, but please stop making your server split the bill
Jan is a monster, but May is the true friend! NTA
Call her out on her bs and make peace! Adulting 101
Counting heads: Was it 7 or 8 at the dinner?
NTA: You did the right thing!
NTA.. she sure is though
NTA: Drama over money, backstabbing and miscommunication.
Birthday drama! Uninviting ‘friend’ over money. Not the a**hole!
Uninvited ‘friend’ makes hurtful remarks, birthday girl strikes back!
NTA: Shutting down a judgmental ‘friend’ with financial independence!
Jan’s behavior is terrible! Matt deserves better!
Let the birthday girl have her special day without drama!
NTA: Uninviting ‘friend’ over money drama? Rude and tacky!
Friendship drama! NTA stands up to disrupter Jan.
Lucky to have friends who have your back!
NTA: Wealthy ‘friend’ uninvited for money drama. Birthday girl strikes back!
Friend uninvited over money drama, trying to save face
Financial judgment is a no-go, even for self-made millionaires!
New girl gets uninvited for being rude and judgmental!
NTA. Your friend should mind her own business. Happy birthday!
OP uninvites ‘friend’ over money drama, friends and SO support. NTA!
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Supportive comment: Defending the birthday girl’s uninviting decision!
Jan’s judgment was unnecessary and now she faces the consequences!
