Birthdays are meant to be a time of celebration, but sometimes they can turn into a real sh*tshow! Imagine planning the perfect adult party, only to have an uninvited guest assume they’re on the list. And if that wasn’t bad enough, they want to bring their 5-year-old kid to a booze-filled, smoke-filled, swear-fest! Talk about a party pooper! Let’s dive into this birthday drama and see how it all unfolds…
Birthday Party Drama: The Uninvited Guest

♀️ The Unwanted Guest: Mary Assumes She’s Invited ♀️

Awkward Situation: Mary Invites Herself

Plot Twist: Mary Wants to Bring Her 5-Year-Old Son

Adult Party Vibes: Drinking, Smoking, and Swearing

Frustration Builds: Wife Goes Against the Plan

♂️ Putting My Foot Down: No Kids Allowed

Wife’s Anger: ‘Not Going with the Flow’

AITA for Not Going with the Flow? ♂️

Update: Small Party with Social Distancing

Problem Solved: Mary Can’t Find a Sitter

Wife Takes Charge: Handling the Communication

Lesson Learned: Better Prepared for Next Time

Birthday Bash Gone Wrong: Uninvited Guest Brings 5-Year-Old to Adult Party
Well, well, well… looks like this birthday party turned into a real sh*tshow! The birthday boy didn’t want to invite a certain someone, but she showed up anyway. And if that wasn’t bad enough, she wanted to bring her 5-year-old kid to an adult party filled with booze, smokes, and swearing! The wife tried to be nice, but ended up going against the plan. The birthday boy put his foot down and said no kids allowed! In the end, the uninvited guest couldn’t find a sitter, so she didn’t show up. Lesson learned for next time! Now, let’s see what the internet has to say about this birthday drama…
Party, adults-only. Uninvited guest brings child. NTA.

Uninvited guest wants to change the vibe? NTA, enjoy birthday!

Adult party, adult conversations. NTA for banning kid.

NTA politely suggests calling Mary to clarify uninvited child’s attendance.
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Being upfront and honest is better than resentment later

Woman stands her ground against manipulative spouse at birthday party

One parent ruins the party, but throwing a party during pandemic?

You’re not the a**hole for banning uninvited child.
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Assertive response to uninvited guest bringing a child. NTA

Being NTA, commenter defends not inviting kids to adult party.
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Keeping a 5 year old at an adult party? Awkward

NTA for banning uninvited guest’s child from adult party
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Guest invites herself with child, both disinvited. Everyone sucks.

No kids allowed! Commenter stands up for adult-only party

Taking responsibility for uninvited child, advice for confronting guest.

Taking control of your party guestlist

Spouse prioritizes social comfort over partner’s birthday – NTA
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Parenting etiquette: Adults-only party? Don’t bring your kids. NTA.

Navigating social dynamics in party invitations can be tricky

Uninvited guests with a toddler ruined a party – NTA

No kids allowed at adult parties! NTA made the right call.

Covid goes out the window when the party starts ♀️

Yikes! Commenter calls out spineless behavior and gives tough love.

Not the a-hole for banning uninvited child from adult party

Don’t be a party pooper, let Mary join the flow!

NTA suggests wife not confront Mary about banned child at party.
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NTA. Enforce boundaries. Child won’t have fun. Have a good birthday

No kids allowed at adult party during COVID. NTA.

NTA OP’s wife disregards boundaries, manipulates and guilts. Red flags everywhere

Supportive comment questions wife’s priorities in birthday drama.

Child-free party drama: NTA reminds of similar incident

Owning your decision is tough, but Mary invited herself.

NTA stands firm on adult-only party, calls out uninvited guest’s rudeness.

“No more Mary” – Savage uninvited guest burn

Mixed feelings about Mary’s uninvited child at adult party. NTA.

Uninvited guest’s child drama: YTA for not being upfront

Stand your ground and tell your wife to fix this

NTA for banning uninvited child, and setting boundaries with Mary.

No kids at adult party, but wife’s excuse is weak

Petty revenge or justified boundary? No kids allowed at party.

You have the right to invite whoever you want! NTA

Child-free party: NTA for banning uninvited guest’s kid

Uninvited guest brings child to adult party, commenter supports host
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Set boundaries for your party, don’t let uninvited kids join.

Just leave and enjoy your own plans. No ultimatum needed.

Kid-free party during pandemic. NTA.

Wife’s fault: Uninvited child banned from adult party. NTA.
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Step up and make the tough call, NTA dad!

NTA advises to communicate and maintain boundaries with spouse

Be firm and save the party from cancelation. NTA

Disinvite Mary and her son to avoid birthday party drama.

Setting boundaries for events: NTA says no kids allowed!

Child-free party: NTA for setting boundaries.

Set boundaries like an adult, don’t change your party plans!

No obligation to censor yourselves. Mary needs to babysit.

Adult-only events are common, NTA for banning kids.

NTA. Bringing an uninvited child to an adult party is inappropriate

NTA. The wife should have said no to Mary’s child ♂️

Don’t let kids attend adult parties, it’s uncomfortable and unsafe.

Putting your foot down on party guest list

Parenting priorities debated in child-ban at adult party. ♀

Learn to say NO to uninvited guests, even your wife’s friends

Uninvited guest brings child to adult party, commenter supports host’s decision.

Set boundaries with uninvited guests to avoid party drama. NTA.

Protecting kids or overreacting? NTA stands firm.

No-kids birthday party drama: NTA bans uninvited kid.

Setting boundaries for your own party is not rude! ♀️

NTA stands up to uninvited guest, gives advice to wife

NTA comment: Mary is the AH and an idiot

NTA defends child-free adult parties, sparks agreement in comments

No kids allowed! NTA deserves a child-free birthday bash

NTA, but Mary might be upset about tipsy adults.
