BIL refers to himself as father of my child – AITA for kicking him out?

A same-sex couple’s decision to have a baby via IVF has caused a rift with family members. The couple used the wife’s brother-in-law’s sperm and the wife carried the baby to term. However, when the BIL referred to himself as the father of the child, the couple asked him to leave their home and cut all contact with him and his sister. The couple has faced criticism from family members for not allowing the BIL to have a relationship with the child, but they argue that he signed away his rights and verbally agreed to be just an uncle. The couple is struggling with the fallout and seeking advice on whether they were in the wrong. Read on for more details on this family drama.

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Who is the real father? AITA for kicking him out?

A woman and her wife welcomed a baby through IVF using the woman’s eggs and her brother-in-law’s sperm. However, a year later, the brother-in-law claimed he was the father and demanded a say in the child’s life. The woman kicked him out, causing a rift with her wife’s family. The woman is now wondering if she was in the wrong. Read on to find out more about this complicated family situation and share your thoughts in the comments below.

Commenter empathizes with OP and warns about legal consequences. Replies discuss legal rights and previous conversations.

NTA. His desire for a biological child doesn’t justify his behavior.

Ensure legal verification to avoid custody issues. NTA.

BIL’s insensitive joke questioned, possible struggle considered. NTA.

Clearing up the confusion about the biological relationship

Setting boundaries is important in all relationships

Importance of discussing expectations & boundaries.

Consulting an attorney and therapist is crucial for navigating this minefield

Toxic in-laws and a complicated family dynamic. NTA.

Protecting your child’s best interest – NTA.

Uncle vs. Father – A battle for the title ‍ ‍

Clear boundaries set, NTA. ‍

Support and humor in the comments – NTA

BIL as a father? NTA for kicking him out.

Claiming fatherhood without contribution? Definitely NTA ‍ ‍

Sperm donor turned father? NTA for setting boundaries. ‍

Uncle or father? The fine line in co-parenting ‍

Sperm donor tries to be a dad – NTA shuts him down

You’re not the a-hole! Your BIL should respect your boundaries.

Providing sperm doesn’t make you a father ‍♀️ #NTA

BIL and SIL are major AHs, and losing family seems right.

BIL overstepping boundaries with child – potential legal mess.

Surprising BIL thinks he’s father, but legally relinquished rights.

Legal advice recommended for NTA who used fertility clinic.

Clear boundaries were set, donor or father?

Protect your family first! Contact a lawyer ASAP

Clearing up family roles NTA for kicking him out

Cutting off toxic family member who claims to be father

Homophobia disguised as fatherhood – NTA for kicking him out ‍ ‍

Sperm donor or not, he owes child support

Uncle Daddy? OP is NTA

Family gene obsession leads to BIL claiming fatherhood – NTA.

Legal contract needed to clarify sperm donor’s role – NTA

Donor or not, he’s just an uncle now! NTA! ‍♀️

BIL claims to be father of child – NTA for kicking him out

Prepare for the drama: the real father reveal

Protecting your baby boy from unwanted legal claims – NTA

Donor tries to assert parental control – NTA shuts it down ‍♀️

Unusual family dynamics but NTA for kicking BIL out.

BIL signed away his rights, no baby for him

Uncle turned father? The comment and replies reveal more.

Protecting your family comes first. NTA

Chosen family is everything ❤️ Congrats to the new parents!

BIL learns not to mess with a mama bear

NTA, but beware of potential custody issues with MIL involvement

Commenter calls out the man’s behavior and supports OP. NTA

Uncle or Father? A family feud over parental titles.

Stand up for yourself and your child, NTA.

Heartbreaking situation with toxic in-laws – NTA for kicking out

Cutting out toxic people is necessary for self-care

Awkward family dynamics

Donor drama: NTA for kicking out BIL, but ironclad contract needed.

Hold Bil accountable for his actions. You’re NTA ‍

Donor’s inappropriate behavior, but good that adoptive process completed.

Sinister vibes detected, run away from this weirdo ASAP!

Setting surrogacy boundaries: NTA for standing up for family ❤️

Family drama over baby’s father; NTA for kicking him out.

Family drama and bloodline obsession – NTA for kicking out.

Regretful BIL sparks discussion about fatherhood ‍

Infertility is painful. BIL is a**hole times a million. NTA.

Family tree confusion leads to unexpected baby daddy drama

Donor complications and family drama – NTA for kicking out.

Asserting parenthood: Commenter shuts down BIL’s claims. ‍♀️

Contract signed, no father rights – NTA for kicking out.

In-laws obsessed with genetics, see wife as incubator – NTA

Couple takes precautions while using brother’s sperm – NTA