Imagine planning a sweet, intimate gathering to celebrate your baby’s first birthday, only to have it turn into an unexpected battleground. That’s what happened to one couple when they decided to keep their baby’s party alcohol-free. The decision, which seemed innocent enough, led to a surprising family feud that left them questioning their party-hosting etiquette.
A Tale of Two Parties

The Unexpected Guest’s Reaction

The Accusation of Being Cheap

Caught Off Guard

The Dilemma: To Invite or Not to Invite?

The Unexpected Aftermath ️

A Possible Solution? ️

A Toast to Baby’s First Birthday… Or Not?
So, who knew a baby’s first birthday could lead to such drama? This couple found themselves in the middle of a family feud after deciding not to serve alcohol at their little one’s party. Their decision, which was based on personal preferences and current lifestyle, was seen as a major faux pas by some family members. Accusations of being cheap and neglecting guests were thrown around, leaving the couple questioning if they were in the wrong. They’re now considering a new approach for future gatherings – a BYOB (Bring Your Own Bottle) policy. Let’s see what the internet has to say about this unexpected party predicament…
Alcohol at a 1-year-old’s birthday? The debate gets heated!

NTA. No booze at a 1 year old party? Really?

Alcohol at kids’ parties: cultural differences and family drama

NTA comment: Alcohol at baby’s birthday party sparks unexpected feud.

“NTA. MIL is a *double* a**hole for blaming you.”

1-year-olds shouldn’t drink! Not the a**hole!
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NTA accommodates family with second party, but no alcohol?

No wine or gifts at the party? That’s pretty rude

NTA. In-laws want alcohol at party, gift them a flask

Sober party-goer stands their ground, receives support

NTA. Serve alcohol when convenient for both of you

NTA. Guest expects booze at party, but should bring own.

NTA. Social occasions should be handled sober.

Alcohol at a kid’s party? Some people need therapy

NTA French host doesn’t serve alcohol, people complain

Throw the party your way, alcohol isn’t necessary for kids’ birthdays

Family feud at baby’s party over alcohol – NTA wins!

NTA, but you can avoid this in the future by telling people it’s BYOB beforehand. It is nice to know whether or not there will be alcohol at an event. But I would never dream of complaining to a host if they didn’t serve booze. That’s so rude on their part.

No alcohol at a baby’s party? MIL and SIL have issues
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Baby’s first birthday without alcohol? NTA, but some were disappointed ♂️

“Adults getting upset over no alcohol at a baby’s party? NTA”

Guest criticizes hostess’s menu at baby’s birthday party. NTA

NTA for not serving alcohol at a baby’s first birthday

Debate over alcohol at baby parties sparks fiery discussion

NTA – No booze at baby’s party? They should’ve BYOB’d!

NTA – Unhappy guest ruins child-friendly party. People are confusing

Babies + drunk adults = recipe for disaster

No alcohol at kids’ parties? NTA sparks debate

MIL thought the party was cheap? Grocery bills increased. No alcohol served.

Family’s first birthday party without beer was surprisingly enjoyable

Expecting booze at a party doesn’t make you an alcoholic ♀️

NTA. Bringing alcohol to parties is common, but calling someone out for not having alcohol at a baby’s birthday party is ridiculous.

Husband supports OP, buys flowers to apologize for family’s behavior

NTA! No party, no alcohol, no obligation to bring anything.

Baby’s first birthday party turns into a booze-filled drama!

No booze at a kid’s party? NTA, just cake and punch!

Aunt’s visit sparks debate: Is common courtesy a thing of the past?

Party drama: Guest upset about no alcohol at baby’s birthday. NTA.

Relatable! Childhood memories of birthday parties ruined by drunk adults

“Wow. People really find the oddest things to get mad about!”

Serve what you want at the party, it’s your choice!

No alcohol at kid’s party? In-laws must be heavy drinkers! ♂️

Cheers to a sober outing! NTA for breaking tradition

NTA. Family complains about no free booze at baby’s party.

Gift or no gift? The eternal party dilemma

Family feud over serving alcohol at baby’s birthday party

Ungrateful guest complains about hosting, gets called out. NTA

No alcohol at a 1-year-old’s birthday party? Some people have priorities
