Ever wondered if that smirk from someone was more than just a smile? According to a TikTok video shared by a man with an M.S. in Psychology and a background as a cPTSD survivor and educator, narcissists often wear their emotions—or lack thereof—on their faces.
He describes narcissists as actors on the world’s stage, adept at playing their roles with four key facial expressions to watch out for.
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#1 – The Narcissistic Smirk
When a narcissist gets that sly grin after hurting you or eliciting a reaction, it’s not by accident. This smirk is their victory dance, a sign that they believe they’ve got you where they want you. It’s their way of saying, “Gotcha!”
One commenter shared a sad truth: “This is scarily accurate, one of the people I almost dated to-the-tee.”
#2 – The Evil Eye
Watch out for this one: the infamous “evil eye.” When their ego is threatened, narcissists will shoot a glare that could cut through steel. This piercing look is usually a precursor to a full-blown fit of narcissistic rage.
As one viewer shared, “My mum always used to look in a state of shock, I can’t explain it but it was a look she would give before becoming enraged.”
#3 – The Seen A Ghost Look
Ever catch a narcissist in a lie? Then you’ve likely seen the “seen a ghost” look. Their face drains of color, and they look as though they’ve just had the shock of their life. It’s a dead giveaway that they’ve been caught red-handed.
Paul, a commenter, pointed out, “Another clue is when they […] have a ‘I saw a ghost’ face. They have cheated and are afraid of you finding out.”
#4 – The Blank Look
Perhaps the most chilling of all, the blank look is when the mask slips, and you’re left staring into the void. This is the face of someone who’s been exposed, and it’s as if all emotion has drained away.
“Scarily true,” said one person, “especially that blank emotionless stare when you’re telling them you’re hurting.”
A Shared Experience
These expressions aren’t just theoretical—they’ve been observed by many people who’ve dealt with narcissists. Wayne, a self-proclaimed empath, noted, “Seen it in the workplace and from neighbors. I’m an empath, so I seem to attract them.”
This shows that these facial cues can be spotted in various situations, whether at work, home, or in social settings.
Victimhood Facade
Narcissists often turn the tables to play the victim when they’re confronted. Adele shared, “My husband 100%! I’m divorcing him now after putting me through 38 years of h**l, and now he is playing victim. He has been abusive too and denied it.”
This ability to manipulate makes understanding their expressions even more crucial.
Emotional Shock
One person commented on the unsettling shock that often precedes narcissistic rage, sharing, “you’re SPOT ON! He did all these, he would even show his teeth like he was fighting the urge to physically attack me.”
It’s a sign of their internal struggle to maintain control.
The Avoidant Gaze
When a narcissist knows they’ve been caught, they may avoid eye contact altogether. As Paul mentioned, “Another clue is when they avoid eye contact and they have a ‘I saw a ghost’ face.”
This is often the precursor to their cover being blown.
The Empty Stare
The blank, emotionless stare is perhaps the most unsettling. Patty described it as, “Omg. I have seen it all. The eyes turning black in fits of rage was scary. But nothing tops the void stare when no soul was in the body.”
This expression is a stark reminder of the emptiness behind the narcissist’s facade.
Oh, my gosh. I definitely learned a lot!
These facial expressions, as shared by the TikTok educator and confirmed by those who’ve experienced them firsthand, are more than just quirk – they’re windows into the mind of a narcissist.
Recognizing these signs might help you navigate tricky relationships with a bit more clarity. After all, the eyes – and the smirk – don’t lie.
Last Updated on August 29, 2024 by Rachel Backland
