Ever had a casual hangout that spiraled out of control? This is the tale of a woman who found herself in such a predicament. She agreed to a simple evening with an acquaintance, only for it to turn into a marathon session of beers, tapas, and unexpected house visits. But there’s a twist! The acquaintance is blind and has mobility issues, adding an extra layer of complexity to the situation. Let’s dive into this rollercoaster of an evening and see how it unfolded…
A Simple Plan Gone Awry

The Unending Evening

An Unexpected House Guest

The Party Continues… At My Place!

Frustrations Mount

A Messy Situation

Damage Control

The Aftermath

The Cost of a Hangout

A Lesson Learned

The Decision

To Meet or Not to Meet: The Dilemma ♀️
So, what’s the verdict? Is our protagonist in the wrong for wanting to avoid future hangouts with her acquaintance, who seems to have a knack for turning casual evenings into chaotic affairs? And is she out of line for considering sending a cleaning bill for the mess left behind? It’s a tale of boundaries, obligations, and the unexpected challenges that can come with friendship. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this sticky situation…
NTA: Comment and replies discuss the challenges of dating a blind person

Setting boundaries is crucial. Don’t let anyone trample over them!

“NTA, but she needs help, not an enabler.”

NTA. Her behavior was abhorrent

NTA for getting annoyed with her drunk a**.

Commenter calls out entitled behavior of a self-centered alcoholic.
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NTA: Her handicap isn’t the issue. It’s her poor manners.

Kindness taken advantage of. Disabilities don’t excuse bad behavior.

Set boundaries and learn to say no for a smoother date

A bizarre and manipulative blind date encounter with bathroom troubles

“NTA. Dealing with drunk people sucks, especially if they’re blind.”

YTA for giving her alcohol when she was already messed up

Avoiding boundaries: A blind date gone wrong

Friend’s disability isn’t the issue, it’s their self-centeredness ♀️

NTA. Even blind people can be a**holes

A disastrous blind date that kept spiraling out of control

NTA. Disability doesn’t excuse selfish behavior.

Stand up for yourself, but choose your battles wisely.

NTA! Sending the bill might open her eyes

NTA: Boundaries crossed, send her the bill, learn to say no

Don’t feel guilty! Set boundaries and say goodbye to chaos!

Friend’s assholiness questioned, but helping her get drunk escalated chaos

Patient woman stands up against manipulative blind date

No need to be friends with an alcoholic

Politely decline future outings due to expensive cleaning bills.

ESH: A chaotic blind date with gin and regrettable decisions.

Unforgettable blind date with a pushy toxic drunkard

Setting boundaries: Limiting contact due to disrespect and alcohol.

NTA. Setting boundaries is important, even with someone with disabilities

Unapologetic vomit incident leaves commenter questioning relevance of eyesight
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Deal breaker: she doesn’t respect your time.

NTA, her disability isn’t the issue, she’s just an awful person

NTA. Ableism is not an excuse. Don’t be a complete AH.
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Grow a backbone, YTA!

Never again! This blind date was a total disaster!

NTA. Express your concern about her drinking habits.

Learning to say no and setting boundaries is important!

Choose friends who add value to your life

Don’t let her use you! Just say ‘No’ and move on.

NTA. Unpleasant and demanding blind date? Time for some distance!

Setting boundaries: Learning to say no and mean it.

Dog food sample: innocent or sinister? NTA for being cautious.

Cut off toxic friend, confront or ghost her for good.

NTA for recognizing dangerous situation with alcoholic blind date.

Entitled a**hole ruins blind date for everyone.

Refusing a self-centered person’s invitation? Here’s how to handle it

Engaging comment: NTA, it’s not about her disability, it’s who she is

NTA. Disability not the issue. It’s her manipulative personality.

“NTA. Set boundaries and be honest about not hanging out.”

Setting boundaries: NTA, don’t send the drycleaning bill

Unforgettable encounter: Not the a**hole

NTA. Sloppy, inconsiderate drunk with no respect for boundaries.

No need for explanations, just cut ties and move on!

A blind date gone wrong with a total friend.

Enabling an alcoholic? Time to rethink your actions.

NTA: Your ‘friend’ is taking advantage of your kindness.

Brits unite! The struggle of supervising a stranger’s toilet trip. NTA

Friend with blind bestie calls out person using disability advantage

NTA- Boundaries are important, don’t be a doormat.

NTA: A disastrous blind date with a rude and irresponsible person
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NTA: Run away from her, her actions were so wrong

One bad blind date: Never seeing her again

NTA. Disability isn’t the issue, it’s her behavior and drinking.

NTA. She’s using her disability to excuse her entitled attitude

Enabling and boundaries: A friendship on the rocks

Don’t force a date out of pity. NTA.

The perfect out. Send her the bill. NTA

Avoiding boundaries leads to chaos and enduring BS from assholes

Blind date chaos: Manipulative woman traps guy with disability excuse

A chaotic blind date gone wrong! YTA for losing control.

Don’t be a pushover! Stand up for yourself!

Drink responsibly! Don’t enable bad behavior.

Boundaries ignored, chaos unleashed. Whose fault? ESH.
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Getting her drunk on a blind date? Total a**hole move.
