Love, they say, is all about accepting your partner’s flaws. But what if those ‘flaws’ could potentially harm their health? Meet our health-conscious heroine (26F), who’s in a bit of a pickle. She’s madly in love with her girlfriend ‘Elle’ (28F), but she’s also deeply concerned about Elle’s increasingly sedentary lifestyle. As they plan their wedding, our protagonist finds herself questioning: Is it wrong to push your partner towards a healthier lifestyle? Let’s dive into this love-health conundrum. ️♀️
A Love Story Marinated in Health! ❤️
From Takeout to Homemade: The Food Transition!
The Sweet Side of Love!
Wedding Bells and Weighing Scales! ⚖️
The Weighty Issue! ♀️
The Couch Creep! ️
The Jogging Juxtaposition! ♀️
The Subtle Nudges! ♀️
The Heart-to-Heart! ️
The Silent Response!
The Clarification! ⚖️
The Food Factor!
The Sedentary Scare! ️
The Weighty Worries! ⚖️
The Final Question! ❓
The Love-Health Dilemma: A Concerned Girlfriend’s Struggle! ♀️
In a world where love and health often find themselves on opposite sides of the scale, our health-conscious protagonist is caught in the middle. She loves her girlfriend, Elle, dearly but can’t ignore the health implications of Elle’s increasingly sedentary lifestyle. As they plan their wedding, she’s torn between her concern for Elle’s health and the fear of coming off as judgmental. Despite her good intentions, she’s accused of fat-shaming by Elle’s step-sister. A love story tangled in health concerns, this tale leaves us pondering – who’s really in the wrong here? Let’s see what the internet has to say about this! ♀️
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“YTA, buddy. Just because you’re super into fitness doesn’t mean she has to be.”
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“YTA. This post made me so sad for your fiance. “
Sending her to the shops for exercise? YTA!
“YTA. Don’t deny that this is about weight and appearance!”
NTA: Love and concern for partner’s health misunderstood as fat shaming!
“YTA. You’re trying to control her weight. Get a different g/f.”
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YTA for obsessing over her weight. Let her be!
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YTA’s approach to partner’s health is super weird and judgmental.
“YTA. Worried about wedding photos, not her health. “
NTA. Care for her health, but respect her boundaries. ️♀️
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NTA, but tread lightly. Encourage healthy lifestyle without fat-shaming. Compromise!
“YTA. Not everyone needs to jog everyday for health. “
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Engaging comment discussing concerns about sedentary lifestyle and obesity!
YTA for being controlling and demeaning. Get a treadmill!
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“YTA, kinda. Hear me out. Sounds like you’re very into physical health, and I’m sure she is also. Planning for a wedding can be stressful, I’ve been there. It sounds to me as if she is a bit down about something. Have you considered, instead of jogging in place, sitting down with her and placing a hand on her knee and lovingly asking her if she’s OK, anything she would like to talk about? She might have a lot on her mind. Give that a try.”
Finding a shared activity can bring you both closer together!
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Apologize to your girlfriend! ♀️
Health-conscious woman gets called out for being controlling.
User accuses OP of being dishonest and judgmental. YTA.
Love her as she is or let her go.
You’re the a**hole! Own up to your mistakes!
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Calling out the hypocrisy with a touch of frustration
Accept her or call off the wedding!
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