Meet our heroine, a 25-year-old woman battling an inoperable brain tumor, living under the same roof with her 61-year-old mother. Her life, already marred by severe headaches, fatigue, and mobility issues, takes a dramatic turn when she suspects her mother of exploiting her disability for personal gains. As the tension escalates, the mother-daughter bond is put to the ultimate test, leaving us all wondering: who’s the real villain in this story? ️♀️
Living with a Disability: The Struggle is Real

The Uninvited Guest: A Family Function Fiasco

The Accusations Begin: Selfish or Sidelined?

The Silent Treatment: Weeks Without Words

The Secret Function: Exclusion or Protection? ️♀️

The Miscommunication: Lost in Translation ️

The Deception Unveiled: Days Off and Disabled Badges

The Confrontation: Accusations and Denials

The Fallout: Exploitation or Misunderstanding?

The Aftermath: Silence Speaks Louder than Words

A Family Feud Fuelled by Disability: Who’s the Real Victim?
Our brave heroine, battling not just a life-altering condition, but also a mother who she believes is exploiting her disability for personal gains. From family functions to work leave and disabled parking badges, the mother’s actions raise eyebrows and spark outrage. The daughter’s confrontation leads to a bitter fallout, with accusations of selfishness and exploitation flying high. Now, they’re not speaking, and our heroine seeks the wisdom of the internet. Is she the victim of a heartless scheme or a misunderstanding? Let’s delve into the world’s reactions to this emotional rollercoaster.
NTA. Your mom is gaslighting you and emotionally manipulating you.

Mother’s mean behavior towards daughter sparks sympathy and agreement.

NTA, your mom is self-centered and manipulative. Explore other options.
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NTA! Stand up to your mom and her manipulative ways!

NTA. Your mother’s behavior is selfish and manipulative.

NTA, OP. Seek alternative care to escape gaslighting and projection. ♀️

NTA! Cut off toxic mom, confront boss, find support

NTA: Mother’s manipulation exposed. Holy sh*t, what a revelation! ♀️

NTA: Suggest therapy for mom’s heartless behavior towards your tumor.

Epilepsy advantage: NTA exploits condition for valet car service.

NTA! Your mom is TERRIBLE

NTA. Is she exploiting your disability for financial gain? ♀️

NTA: Protect your parking badge and stand up for yourself!

“NTA! Mom twists words, punishes you. Abuse of power. ♀️”
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Commenter finds relatable content, connects with fellow Redditors.

Mom’s manipulation: NTA painted as villain, herself as martyr. ♀️

Empathetic commenter supports OP against mother’s heartless behavior.

NTA: Family betrayal and trust issues.

Gold-star martyr mother with gaslighting feature? NTA. ♀️
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NTA. Can’t move in with fiancé, but can change executor.

Mother’s heartless treatment of disabled daughter sparks outrage

Woman accuses mother of exploiting her disability: NTA, heartless mother ♀️

“NTA! Family should support, not exploit, your disability. Stay strong!”

Cut ties with a textbook narcissist. Protect your well-being. ♀️

NTA: Escaping a toxic situation for your safety and sanity ♀️

Escape from your mom’s toxicity! Seek help and independence.

Escape the toxic cycle: Cut ties with your abusive mother.

NTA – Mom needs therapy to level-set

Finding a new place to live when family fails.

NTA. Some people can be unbelievably terrible.

Not the a**hole. Tell us more about the situation!

Mom accused of gaslighting disabled daughter. Supportive community offers comfort. ♀️
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NTA: Mom’s heartless behavior makes your life harder. Find support

Daughter accuses mom of being terrible, selfish, and manipulative.

Manipulative mother causing distress, find a new living spot ♀️

NTA – Outrageous! Time off and parking are beyond unfair!

NTA: Beware of mom’s financial control. Find new caregiver.

Empowered by support, OP plans to break free from exploitative mother.

NTA. Your mother is exploiting your illness for her benefit. Reach out to other family and friends for support.
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“NTA. Your mom is a HUGE A. Massive. And she could cause you to lose your parking badge. Is moving out an option? She is being abusive and this will likely get worse rather than better.”
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Gaslighting accusation sparks debate: NTA or misunderstood? ♀️

Supportive comment acknowledges OP’s struggles with mother’s behavior. ❤️

“Muchausen By Proxy But Already Has A Sick Child” – NTA ♀️
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NTA. Move out ASAP. Your mother is manipulative and abusive.

Supportive family is key! Hide that parking decal, stay strong!

Movie inspiration? NTA accuses mother of exploiting disability.
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Escaping a manipulative mother: NTA, keep your independence!

NTA. Is she a bit narcissistic? Let’s discuss! ♀️

NTA- Shocking! A narcissistic nightmare of a mother.

NTA. Mum with Munchausens? That’s a tough situation. ♀️

Family manipulation and gaslighting: NTA deserves better!

NTA seeks support to escape exploitative living arrangement.

Parents can be selfish too. ♀️

NTA: People can be crazy! ♀️

Mother’s selfish behavior and gaslighting: NTA, seek alternative care.

Mom’s gaslighting is concerning. NTA for standing up.

NTA, but your mother certainly is. ♀️

Using someone else’s disability parking placard can result in a ticket. NTA.

NTA: Mom’s manipulation exposed.

NTA. Mother’s harmful behavior needs intervention for your well-being.

NTA: Take control and secure your personal invitation next time!

Stealing a disabled badge? Not cool. NTA for sure!

Report her for misuse of your tag! NTA

Offering a new home: Come live with me, omg!

Supportive commenters rally behind OP, urging them to escape toxic mother.

Stealing disabled parking badge? Get out of there ASAP!

NTA. Stand up to your nasty mother and prioritize yourself.

Gaslighting accusation: escape the situation!

Seeking advice? Check out this helpful resource on domestic violence.

Gaslighting accusation sparks debate: NTA or misunderstood? ♀️

Not the a**hole! Let’s hear the whole story. ♀️

NTA, everyone needs a hug sometimes

Heartbreaking: Mother exploits daughter’s terminal illness for personal gain.

NTA. Mother exploiting disability? Coworker does same with son. Strange. ♀️

Gaslighting: Mother’s abuse or misunderstood? NTA ♀️
