Picture this: You’re a 27-year-old woman who loves to ski and game. You plan a ski trip with your boyfriend and his friends, even organizing a LAN party for everyone to enjoy. You’re excited, everything’s booked, and then… you’re suddenly disinvited because it’s now a ‘guy’s trip’. Welcome to the icy predicament of our Snow Queen. Let’s delve into her frosty tale and see if we can thaw out the truth. ❄️
The Perfect Plan: Ski Trip and LAN Party
From Excitement to Exclusion ➡️
The Reason: A Sudden ‘Guy’s Trip’
The Snow Queen’s Hurt and Confusion
The Boyfriend’s Dilemma: To Please or Not to Please? ♂️
More Than Just ‘The Girlfriend’
The Snow Queen’s Stand ️
The Narrative Shift: Villain or Victim? or
The Rift and the Repercussions ⚔️
The Aftermath: A Bitter End or a New Beginning? ️
The Icy Conclusion: Is Our Snow Queen the Villain or the Victim? ❄️
In a tale as frosty as a winter’s day, our Snow Queen finds herself disinvited from her own ski trip, leaving her feeling more like an outcast than a friend. Her boyfriend’s friends have turned the trip into a ‘guy’s trip’, leaving her out in the cold. Despite her efforts to stand up for herself, she’s painted as the villain, causing a rift in the friend group. As the snow settles, we’re left wondering: Is she the villain for wanting to join a trip she planned, or the victim of a frosty exclusion? Let’s see what the Internet has to say about this chilling situation… ❄️
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Dump these MFs already. Cancel everything and find better friends.
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NTA: Cancel everything, get your money back, cut off contact
NTA. Cancel and get your money back if you can
Boyfriend’s friends reflect his character. Dump him. NTA
NTA: Stand up for yourself and find better friends!
Cancel everything and let them book their own trip!
“NTA. Your boyfriend is an AH. Cancel everything and move on.”
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NTA. Incredibly rude and sexist friends. Seek revenge on reservations.
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Dump them all and find a better partner and friends!
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NTA. Unbook the trip and find better friends and boyfriend.
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NTA. Girl, cancel the whole trip and ditch the boyfriend!
Stand up for yourself and reconsider your relationship.
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Disinvite the a**holes and dump the dud boyfriend!
NTA! They’re not real friends. Dump the BF too.
NTA: Drama in friend group, partner cutting out friends. Be fabulous!
Dump the guy! NTA takes charge and cancels everything.
NTA. Stand up to those AHs and cancel everything!
Curious to know the update from the OP!
Cancel everything now! You’re not the a**hole.
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Supportive comment: Stand up for yourself and enjoy the trip!
NTA cancels reservations, leaves ‘guys only’ to figure it out
NTA fights back against unfair treatment. Stand up for yourself!
NTA: Cancel the bookings, enjoy a solo vacation
Choose your own adventure: go, cancel, or go anyways!
Plan your own trip and leave the drama behind!
NTA: Canceling reservations? Petty or justified?
NTA: Dump the bf, ditch the trip, find respect elsewhere.
NTA – Take charge, cancel or go without them. Adjust accordingly
Take charge! Unbook it and let them handle it.
