We all have that one friend who just doesn’t know when to stop, right? But what happens when this friend is not yours, but your partner’s best buddy? And what if his ‘jokes’ start crossing the line, not once, but twice? A woman found herself in this tricky situation when her boyfriend’s best friend, who we’ll call ‘S’, made some rather inappropriate comments. But the real drama began when ‘S’ tried to apologize…in a way that left her feeling even more upset.
The Unwanted House Guest

The First Strike

A Crass Comment

The Instagram Incident

The Girlfriend’s Visit

The Second Strike

The ‘Apology’

The Aftermath

The Guilt Trip

To Forgive or Not to Forgive? That’s the Question! ♀️
Caught in a whirlwind of guilt, resentment, and a whole lot of drama, our heroine is left wondering if she’s the one at fault. After all, she’s torn between her own feelings and the potential strain on her boyfriend’s friendship. But can she really forgive ‘S’ after he made such inappropriate comments, not once but twice? And let’s not forget his so-called ‘apology’ that only added fuel to the fire. Now, let’s dive into the internet’s take on this sticky situation…
NTA. Don’t let him guilt you. You’re not responsible for his anxiety

NTA. LOL, life must be so hard for S

NTA: Boyfriend’s friend is a misogynist and a total creeper

NTA, sorry for your loss. S is an AH, good on your boyfriend for supporting you. Maturity FTW!

NTA. Boyfriend’s friend behaved like a massive dick multiple times

♀️ Don’t waste your time on creepy dudes, you deserve better!

NTA for being mad at S’s gross behavior. He needs to learn not to provoke people to anger.

“I’m sorry you feel anxiety,” – Boyfriend’s dismissive apology. NTA!

NTA! Stand your ground and don’t let anyone guilt you.

The key components of a sincere apology and learning from mistakes.

NTA… Stand your ground and prioritize your own feelings.
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NTA. Don’t let his anxiety excuse his a**hole behavior. Stand strong!

NTA this dude sucks
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NTA and you deserve better Boyfriend’s support is questionable
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NTA. Don’t let his gross comments ruin your peace of mind!

NTA. Creepy friend, no shame. Don’t forgive, apology not genuine

Boyfriend blames and insults after harassment. NTA. Screw him!

Boyfriend’s friend crosses the line, girlfriend refuses to accept apology

Stay strong! Don’t let S manipulate you. Set your boundaries!

NTA. Unhealthy obsession? Time to create some boundaries!

NTA he’s trash

NTA- Return the favor. Cut toxic people out of your life

Don’t apologize, let him stew. You’re not responsible. NTA
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NTA. Boyfriend’s friend is a misogynistic freak who blames you.

Apologies don’t always guarantee forgiveness. It’s your choice!

NTA stands strong against manipulative boyfriend’s anxiety excuse. ♀️

NTA! Stand your ground against the creepy and manipulative friend
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NTA. Stay positive and don’t let negativity bring you down!

Boyfriend’s friend crossed the line, boyfriend should’ve taken action

NTA. Cut out toxic friends, live your best life!

NTA, he’s a creep and a jerk.

Clear verdict: NTA. Girlfriend holds grudge after friend’s mistake.

Insults, inappropriate remarks, and blaming? Nope, you’re NTA!
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NTA: Clumsy guy has a crush, BF agrees, just ignore him

NTA. Hilarious video teaches lesson, goodbye Helvetica!

NTA: Consequences, baybeee! S caused his own anxiety

NTA: Girlfriend stands up to disrespectful friend, receives gaslighting accusation.
