Unexpected Mom of Three Faces Off with Infertile Sister: Who’s in the Wrong?

Imagine being a single mom of three kids, two of whom were unexpectedly placed in your care, and you’re pregnant with the third. Now, imagine your older sister, struggling with infertility for years, accusing you of ‘rubbing your kids in her face’. Sounds like a recipe for a family feud, doesn’t it? Let’s dive into this emotional rollercoaster of a story, where love, resentment, and the harsh realities of life collide.

Meet the Unexpected Mom

Expanding the Family ‍ ‍ ‍

The Surprise Pregnancy

Sisterly Love Turns Sour

A Family Dinner Gone Wrong

The Accusation

The Defense ️

The Counter Accusation ⚔️

The Harsh Retort ️

The Aftermath ️

A Family Feud Unfolds: Who’s the Villain Here?

So here we have a young woman who unexpectedly became a mom to two kids and is now pregnant with her third. Her older sister, struggling with infertility, feels that she’s flaunting her ability to have children. The family dinner turned into a battlefield of accusations, leading to the younger sister telling the older one that her ‘infertility baggage’ isn’t her problem. Was she too harsh, or was she simply standing her ground? Let’s see what the internet has to say about this emotionally charged situation…

“Why haven’t *you* adopted *ANY* children?” – Engaging and thought-provoking.

“NTA. Your sister is jealous and petty. Congrats on your three children!”

“NTA. If she really cared about children in foster care, she would become a foster parent herself. This is purely about her. What are you supposed to do, stop making fertility choices just because it makes her feel bad?” ‍♀️

Sister’s ignorance about foster system sparks heated NTA debate.

Fostering is about giving children a home, not filling gaps.

NTA: Sister’s jealousy turns mean. Commenter calls out offensive remark.

Sister blames OP for infertility, but OP is NTA

NTA. Your sister can consider fostering to adopt as well

“Infertile sister wants to ‘own’ a child, not foster. “

NTA, sister’s jealousy over your children is unfair and unwarranted

NTA; sister almost asked for one of your kids.

NTA defends against sister’s baggage with admirable restraint.

NTA: Don’t let her pain control your life. Stay strong!

NTA: Sister’s bitterness and mother’s enabling create family tension.

Mom picks sister’s feelings over fairness. NTA.

Sister’s infertility causes tension. NTA for sharing joy, but empathize.

Understanding the struggles of infertility and offering empathy

Adoptee calls out sister for not considering adoption. NTA!

NTA. Supporting sister’s infertility struggle, but not sacrificing own happiness.

NTA – Embracing childlessness and being a loving auntie

Infertile sister faces off with unexpected mom of three. NTA!

NTA, sister’s jealousy over your children, suggest adoption for her.

NTA- Sister’s cruel comments warrant a break.

NTA: Sister needs therapy, thinks children are possessions.

NTA. Sister and mom are wrong. Stand your ground!

Sister accuses me of rubbing kids in her face. NTA.

NTA: Adoption is a beautiful way to create a loving home

NTA. Keep shining bright and ignore the haters!

NTA. Sister projecting anger towards you for having kids.

Sister’s entitlement vs. mom’s silence: Who’s the real a**hole? 🤔

NTA. Foster care system has options. Not your problem, sis! 🙌

Infertility vs. Motherhood: A battle of blame and guilt 😲

Adopting a sibling? NTA! You’re a true superhero! 👏

NTA! Congrats on the pregnancy! She’s directing her anger at you 😠

NTA: Sister’s perspective on parenting and adoption criticized.

NTA. Loving mom adopts foster children, sister’s adoption options unaffected. 💛

Sibling rivalry over motherhood: NTA calls out sister’s insecurities. 😲

NTA. Foster care isn’t a source to ‘grow your family’ 💛

NTA for taking in kids. Sister’s comments are out of line 😲

NTA: Don’t let her infertility drama ruin your life! 😲

Infertile sister complains instead of adopting or volunteering with kids. 🙄

Accusations and nonsense: NTA needs space from her sister. 🤯

NTA. Infertility jealousy: not your problem. 😲

NTA. Sister lacks temperament for motherhood 😲

NTA, but technically a single mom of 2 with a fetus 🤰

Putting the children’s well-being first 💜

NTA: Sister wants to steal your baby. Cut contact. 😲

NTA shuts down infertile sister’s entitlement to biological children. 😲

NTA your sister and mom are. 😲

Audacious sister’s slim chance at pregnancy sparks adoption debate

NTA: Standing up for yourself like a boss! 💪

Sibling rivalry: NTA stands up to infertile sister’s cruelty. 😲

Foster care isn’t a trade, children deserve loving homes ❤️

Mom picks sister over me, but I won’t give in! 😲

Entitled sister blames others for infertility, refuses to adopt 🙄

Audacity of infertile sister’s struggle questioned. Adoption overlooked?

Sibling rivalry: NTA mom gives loving home, sister feels entitled

Sister’s infertility sparks conflict: NTA says kids aren’t entitlements.

Adopting over biological children: sister’s jealousy and unfairness. NTA

Sister’s entitlement causes family feud. You’re NTA, demand apology.

Sibling rivalry over infertility: projecting insecurities and enabling behavior.

Selfish view on adoption sparks heated debate. Child’s wellbeing first!

Grandma vs. Infertile Sister: No grandkids if she’s upset?

NTA. You’re an awesome human being for supporting reunification.

Sibling rivalry escalates: fostering vs. biological children. Who’s right?

NTA. You’re an angel for caring for multiple children.

NTA vs. Infertile Sister: Battle of Self-Centeredness!