A 25-year-old mechanic, who lost both his parents, was taken in by his older brother and his wife. His life took a devastating turn when he was diagnosed with Hodgkin’s lymphoma. Unable to work and undergoing chemotherapy, he was kicked out by his brother and left to fend for himself. Now, after two years, his brother wants to attend his wedding, but the mechanic is hesitant to forgive and forget.
Living with Big Bro
Paying the Price
Cancer Diagnosis
Seeking a Specialist
Brother’s Wife Turns Cold ❄️
Kicked Out
Friend to the Rescue
Relatives Disappoint
Brother’s One Hospital Visit
Fast Forward 2 Years ⏭️
Brother Wants to Attend Wedding
Brother’s Hurt Feelings
Wife’s Sudden Change of Heart ❤️
No Invitation
Criticism and Forgiveness
Brother’s Perspective
To Forgive or Not to Forgive?
After being disowned by his brother during his battle with cancer, this mechanic is now facing the dilemma of whether to invite him to his wedding. His brother claims to be hurt by the exclusion, while his wife, who once turned her back on him, now encourages reconciliation. The mechanic is torn between forgiving and forgetting, or standing his ground and keeping his brother away from his special day.
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