Imagine being a pregnant woman with a high-risk pregnancy, and your husband decides to miss your important appointment for his sister’s hospital visit. That’s exactly what happened to one woman, whose husband (29m) chose to rush to his sister’s side instead of attending his wife’s (29f) crucial appointment. With a history of pregnancy complications and a 4-year-old autistic son, the wife was left to fend for herself. Let’s dive into the story and see if the husband was in the wrong.
High-Risk Pregnancy and Weekly Appointments

Anxiety and Past Losses

Always There for Her… Until Now ⏰

Autistic Son’s Struggles

Tantrums and Hiding

Sister’s Hospital Emergency

Wife Left Behind

Not So Serious After All

Dramatic Mom

Furious Wife

Calming Presence Missed

Priorities Questioned

Defending His Actions ️

What Ifs and Wife’s Anger

But Nothing Happened…

Husband’s Dilemma: Sister or Wife?
The husband is torn between his sister’s hospital scare and his pregnant wife’s crucial appointment. He chose to rush to his sister’s side, leaving his wife to deal with their autistic son and her high-risk pregnancy alone. The wife is furious, questioning his priorities and reliability. The husband defends his actions, saying he didn’t know his sister’s condition wasn’t serious. Now, the wife is still upset and constantly reminds him not to miss the next appointment. Is the husband really in the wrong, or was he just caught in an impossible situation? Let’s see what people have to say about this predicament.
NTA. Wife’s anxiety and mother’s drama cause tension in family

NTA for prioritizing sister’s serious motorcycle crash over pregnant wife’s appointment

Engaging caption: A tough situation where emotions run high

Prioritizing sister’s hospital scare over pregnant wife’s appointment. NAH.

Wife’s lack of concern for husband’s sister raises serious questions

NAH, except for your Mother. Difficult judgment call with consequences

Emergency with family member, NTA, excusable. Anxiety understandable.

NTA, wife needs to apologize. Sister’s injury justified visit

Choosing between a routine appointment and a potentially serious accident

NTA. Wife upset because emergency wasn’t as serious as thought

NTA: Wife in OB GYN’s office, she’d have told me to go

NTA prioritizes sister’s accident over routine pregnancy appointment

“Nah. It sucks you missed the appointment, but anxiety can be tough “

Empathy and understanding in a difficult situation.

NTA, wife should blame mother for not informing her properly
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Comment defends ditching wife’s appointment for sister’s emergency. NTA

NTA: Commenter shares personal experience and recommends therapy for wife.

Curious about the timeline? When did you find out it wasn’t serious?

Mother’s concern for daughter’s head injury sparks debate. NAH.

Navigating a tough choice between wife and sister

NTA. Wife inconvenienced, but sister’s injury could be serious

Understanding the struggles of a pregnant wife and empathy

NTA- Balancing priorities can be tough, especially during emergencies.

NTA, tough call but you made the right choice

Understanding the difficult choice and the absence of good options
