Imagine planning a surprise proposal for months, only to have it spoiled by your future mother-in-law! This is the story of a 24-year-old man, let’s call him ‘The Romantic Planner’, who had meticulously planned for the perfect proposal to his college sweetheart. But when the future mother-in-law couldn’t keep the secret, the surprise was ruined, and the drama unfolded.
The Romantic Planner’s Big Idea

The Ring Reveal

The Spoiler Alert!

The Ruined Surprise

The Confrontation

The Girlfriend’s Verdict ️

The Mother-in-Law’s Defense ️

The Uninvited Guest

The New Plan

The Final Word

The Surprise, The Spoiler, and The Stubbornness: A Proposal Drama!
In a twist of events, The Romantic Planner’s dream proposal turned into a family drama when his future mother-in-law spilled the beans. The surprise proposal was ruined, causing his girlfriend to be upset and disappointed. The mother-in-law faced the music when the couple decided to exclude her from the engagement party, leading to a heated confrontation. Now, the couple is planning a New Year’s Eve proposal, hoping this time, the secret stays safe. Will the future mother-in-law mend her ways, or will the drama continue? Let’s see what the internet has to say about this…
Solo proposal with a friend for the win!

“NTA. MIL ruined proposal surprise. Consider gf’s feelings & future issues.”

MIL ruins proposal plan. NTA, she’s to blame.

NTA. MIL spilled the beans, now you must adapt or accept.

NTA: Mom’s betrayal ruins proposal surprise. Privilege, not right.

Early signs of in-law drama. Gotta handle it wisely!

Engaging comment: Future mother-in-law excluded from proposal plan. Surprise vs luxury!

Surprise proposal ruined by MIL’s blabbing, causing disappointment and stress.

Future MIL ruins proposal plan, girlfriend takes her side.

“Touring” the engagement ring backfires, future MIL spills the beans!

Lesson learned: Keep proposals private to avoid meddling future in-laws!

Reconsider the proposal because GF’s mom ruined your joy

ESH: Trusting the mother-in-law backfired, resulting in a disastrous proposal!

Lesson learned: Include MIL in proposal without revealing the plan!

NTA for being upset about ruined proposal surprise. MIL is TA. Plan a new surprise and keep MIL on an information diet. Consider what’s more important to your GF: proposal in front of family or being surprised. My husband’s fake proposals kept me guessing!

“You’re fake” comment is confusing. NTA, explain ruined surprise to girlfriend.

MiL ruins surprise proposal, but love conquers all

NTA: MIL can’t keep a secret, ruins proposal surprise. Dress doesn’t matter.

Honesty is key for a successful relationship!

MIL ruins proposal, OP advises keeping her in the dark

YTA: Proposal plans ruined! Lesson learned – keep surprises secret!

Last person in town sees engagement ring!

Engaging: Getting too many people involved in a proposal? Soft YTA!

Sexist proposal plan ruined by meddling future mother-in-law. ESH!

Future mother-in-law ruins proposal plan. NTA, she’s the a**hole!

MIL ruins proposal, GF takes her side. Communication needed ASAP!

Engaging comment: Is the surprise really necessary for the proposal?

Mom ruins proposal surprise. NTA, daughter deserves better.

Traditional proposal etiquette: ask parents for blessing, not man

Tradition or not, Op did what the girlfriend asked

Not the a**hole. Intriguing story behind this comment.

Cautionary tale: Think twice before revealing proposal plans

Future MIL’s actions prompt a discussion on in-law management.

Careful planning needed to avoid angering future in-laws
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Give MIL the benefit of the doubt, avoid future conflicts.

NTA, glad you and your gf reached an agreement!

NTA: Consequences of actions revealed!

Future MIL’s silence is a blessing!
