Imagine you’re a college student, just trying to have a good time at a party with your friends. You’re posting some funny snaps as an inside joke, and suddenly your brother-in-law shows up uninvited! That’s exactly what happened to one young woman who moved in with her sister and her husband after losing her campus housing. They agreed to treat her like an adult roommate, but sometimes, they can’t help but act like overbearing parents. Let’s dive into this wild story!
The Living Arrangement
The Agreement
The Party Begins
The SnapChat Jokes
Sister’s Concern
BIL Crashes the Party
His Demands
The Confrontation
The Standoff
Sister’s Reaction
Overprotective BIL or Just Plain Creepy?
So, this college student finds herself in a bizarre situation when her brother-in-law crashes her college party after seeing her SnapChat jokes. He demands her car key and insists she gets an Uber home. She calls him controlling and creepy, but her sister thinks he’s just looking out for her. What do you think? Let’s check out the top responses from the internet!
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“YTA. OMG you LITERALLY posted, in the middle of the night, that you needed help and wanted to go home, but then DIDN’T ANSWER OR ACKNOWLEDGE the very real concern that they are facing, already thinking the absolute worst because of your gross misunderstanding of the word ‘joke.’ Go apologize to them and thank them for caring enough to try and help you WHEN YOU ASKED FOR HELP. Jesus you are so inconsiderate, self absorbed, and spoiled. They did nothing wrong. You owe them a huge apology.” – Commenter
“You were the one acting selfish, he’s not the a**hole. YTA.”
OP gets called out for crying wolf and throwing tantrum
College student criticized for losing campus housing, being entitled.
Misunderstood inside joke leads to overprotective party crasher
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“YTA. Don’t drunk drive. Crying wolf is childish. “
“YTA, last time someone didn’t answer an ‘are you okay’ text from me it turned out they had passed away, if someone did this to me I would have been LIVID, and probably would have done the same as your brother in law. What you are being too selfish to realize is that they were probably worried for your safety. You were at a party, PUBLICLY said you didn’t enjoy it, and we’re more than likely drinking… why would anyone who cared for you ignore that? Why are you still upset now that you’re sober that your BIL didn’t want you to drive drunk? That seems like a damn good brother in law. You are acting childish, then asking to be treated like an adult. You need to look at scenarios from other people’s perspectives or you will push everyone you love away from your own selfishness.” – Thoughtful perspective
“YTA: Act like an adult. BIL was just concerned “
YTA gets called out for irresponsible behavior and lack of communication
Friends/family’s overprotectiveness can be annoying but it comes from love ❤️
“YTA. Your brother-in-law saved you from making a terrible mistake “
Overprotective brother crashes party : YTA owes apology
Caring friends checking up on you? YTA for being mad!
Caught red-handed or just a harmless misunderstanding?
BIL is creepy, but OP needs to stop joking for help. YTA
“YTA. Immature behavior leads to loss of student housing? “
♂️ College student learns a tough lesson about party etiquette.
Overprotective or just creepy? YTA’s caring gesture misunderstood.
OP misled BIL with drunken ‘inside joke’ texts at 1am
Overprotective sister defends her smart sibling from party accusations.
OP is called out for being unfair and ungrateful
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Overprotective BIL misunderstood, but genuinely cares about OP’s safety
YTA: Time to mature and leave the party crashing behind
Attention-seeking OP gets upset when someone actually helps
Grow up and appreciate your sister’s concern. YTA
