Fiancé’s Hidden Desire for Children Shatters Relationship

Picture this: you’re a woman who has always been upfront about not wanting children. ‍♀️ You meet the love of your life online, and he shares your desire to remain child-free. Fast forward a few years, and you’re engaged! But then, at a family dinner, the topic of children comes up, and suddenly, your fiancé’s tune has changed. What do you do? ‍♀️ This is the story of one woman who found herself in this exact predicament, and how she navigated the emotional rollercoaster that followed.

First Date Honesty ️

No Kids, No Problem?

Love Connection

The Proposal

Family Dinner Drama ️

Awkward Conversation

Confusion Sets In

The Drive Home

Shocked and Hurt

The Argument

A Change of Mind?

The Big Reveal

The Backstory

Finding a Solution

Mental Health Improvement

Before the Fiancé

The Truth Comes Out ️

The Fallout

Name-Calling

Relationship in Jeopardy

Love Lost

Seeking Opinions

Mixed Messages

No Kids, No Exceptions

Not Even for a Moment ⏰

Profiles Aligned

Fiancé Flips the Script on Kids

Our heroine has always been crystal clear about not wanting children, even going as far as getting sterilized at 25. She met her fiancé online, and they bonded over their shared desire to remain child-free. But when the topic of children came up at a family dinner, her fiancé suddenly revealed he might actually want kids. They argued, and she revealed her sterilization, which led to him getting angry and calling her an AH. Now, their relationship hangs in the balance, and opinions are divided on whether she should’ve told him about her sterilization from the start. Let’s dive into the internet’s thoughts on this emotional dilemma…

Discussing views on having children is crucial in relationships. ❤️

Fiancé’s deception over wanting children shatters relationship, NTA

Fiancé ignores partner’s wishes on kids, relationship ends

Stand your ground and move on

Honesty is key, NTA. Sterilized to show certainty

Being upfront about not wanting kids is important. You’re NTA

Partner secretly hoped OP would change mind about kids

NTA. Fiancé lied about wanting kids, better to end it now.

Deceitful fiancé wants kids, breaks agreement. NTA, don’t marry him.

Empathetic reply to NTA comment. Positive and supportive

NTA sets boundaries, but some try to trap with pregnancy

Fiancé hid desire for children until now – NTA response

Partner wants kids despite knowing I don’t. NTA, dump him.

Double standards much?

Partner lied about wanting children, manipulative and controlling behavior. NTA

Partner’s deception and mother’s wishes ruin relationship

Woman shares heartbreaking experience of being lied to about having children

Partner kept a huge secret, you’re NTA for sterilization.

Communication is key, he should have asked about birth control

Partner lied about wanting kids, NTA for leaving

Not the a-hole for not wanting children. What was his plan?

Dump him! He lied and disrespected you. #NTA

Fiancé misrepresents himself and his intentions. NTA.

Avoid partners who hope you’ll change. NTA, leave ASAP.

Be upfront about infertility to avoid heartbreak later ❤️

Fiancé prioritizes his desire for kids over partner’s autonomy. ‍♀️

Birth control discussion missing before relationship shattering revelation

Dodging a bullet . NTA for standing your ground on kids

Partner lied about wanting kids, NTA for getting sterilized

Partner lied about wanting kids, NTA for leaving.

Surprising twist: OP sterilised, but didn’t tell fiancé.

Unambiguous childfree stance provokes fiancé’s breakup desire. NTA

Partner lied about wanting kids, NTA for standing firm!

Relationship ends due to man’s hidden desire for kids

Dodging a bullet: Hidden desire for children ruins relationship

NTA for not wanting kids, BF is AH for flipflopping

NTA. Lying and bullying to have a child is not cool

Partner wanted kids, lied to get OP invested. NTA

Partner trying to change your opinion on kids is disrespectful

Being honest about not wanting kids is crucial.

Fiancé’s deception about kids: NTAH for being honest.

Partner’s hidden desire for kids, NTA decides to leave.

Being honest about sterilization could have prevented heartbreak

Being child-free is a hot trend but people change their minds. NTA.

Insensitive fiancé treated her like a walking womb

Be direct about not wanting kids to avoid relationship shattering

Miscommunication about having kids ended the relationship. NTA

Forthright about no kids, partner lied. NTA, he’s the AH.

Ex is TA for lying about wanting children, good riddance

Fiancé ignores partner’s stance on kids, gets called out NTA

Crystal clear on no kids, he’s the a**hole for pressuring

Partner lied about wanting kids, disrespecting boundaries. NTA.

End the relationship now.
This is a dealbreaker.

Partner’s hidden desire for children shatters relationship. NTA.

End it today. No more to be said or done.

Dodging a bullet , men thinking they know what’s best is gross.

Partner disregarded no-children wish and expected change of mind

Assuming consent on kids can destroy relationships

Communication is key! ️ Asking about birth control is important.

Partner lied about wanting kids, gets mad when confronted. NTA

Kids: The dealbreaker in this relationship

When your partner wants kids but you don’t

Respecting childfree people is important for a happy relationship ✌

Condoms or raw dogging? The unasked question in NTA’s dilemma

NTA. You deserve better. Dump him and find someone else.

Partner assumed he could change your mind. You’re NTA

Dodged a bullet with this NTA. Disclose child-free stance early

ESH for not communicating about desire for children and contraception.

Being upfront about not wanting kids is important. NTA

Partner proposed knowing he wanted kids, got angry at you. NTA

NTA. Ex-fiancé’s hidden desire for kids ruins relationship

Lying fiancé wastes time and disregards partner’s wishes

Fiancé lied about wanting kids, disregarded partner’s wishes. NTA

Fiancé’s dishonesty and pressure leads to shattering breakup

Partner’s hidden desire for kids breaks relationship trust

Being upfront about children is crucial to avoid heartbreak

Being honest is key . Don’t let anyone manipulate you .

Medical history disclosure important for emergency, 99% NTA

Be clear about not wanting kids to filter out douchebags

Partner lied about wanting children, better to find out now.

Being child-free? Beware of baby-trappers ‍♀️

NTA’s fiancé tried to trap them into having kids. Run!

Partner’s hidden desire shattered relationship. NTA, he lied.

Marriage dealbreaker: hidden desire for children.