When the pandemic hit, a 25-year-old woman bid farewell to her LA life and moved back home to Houston, bunking with her older sister. Little did she know, she was signing up for more than just a room. As her sister’s life got busier, our protagonist found herself stepping into a role she never auditioned for – a substitute husband, a second parent, and a plant-sitter. But when her sister’s plants took precedence over her health, she decided it was time for a confrontation.
The Big Move: From LA to Houston

The New Normal: Living with Sis

Pitching In: More Than Just Rent

The OCD Factor: Living Up to Her Standards

The Unexpected Role: From Sister to Substitute Husband

The Reality Check: More Than She Bargained For

The Last Straw: Plants Over Health

The Confrontation: A Sister’s Stand

The Dilemma: Sisterly Love or Unpaid Servitude?
Our protagonist, having traded her LA dreams for a Houston reality, finds herself in an unexpected role. From watering plants to walking dogs, she’s become the stand-in husband, the second parent, the housekeeper. But when her sister’s concern for her plants overshadows her health, she decides enough is enough. A confrontation ensues, leaving her questioning: Is she right to demand respect, or should she have been more attentive to her sister’s plant? Let’s dive into the internet’s top reactions to this family drama…
NTA. Sister takes advantage of OP as live-in nanny and maid

Where’s dad? Why not delegate? Divorce speculation ensues…

Teens’ chores: aunt’s responsibility or just lazy parenting?

“NTA. Sister’s running away to do good? “

NTA questions sister’s motives for moving in and leaving

ESH. OCD is not an adjective. ♀️

NTA. Sister expects free childcare without even asking.
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INFO: Are the kids really helpless or just playing dumb?

NTA. Taking care of kids isn’t a household chore.

ESH: Sister prioritized plants over OP’s health, but refused rent.

INFO: Why is dad absent? Teens can handle responsibilities independently.

Time to find a new place!

Desperate sister seeks help after being left with kids indefinitely

INFO: Why not take care of your uncle instead?

NTA – Sister unrealistic & a jerk. Communicate with niece/nephew better.

NTA- Upset about sister’s broken promises? Time to prioritize yourself!

Houseplant expert calls out the sister’s unnecessary worry and offers advice

NTA. Sibling rivalry turns into a battle of household responsibilities

NTA: Take charge and let their dad handle the situation! ✈️

Logical suggestion to delegate responsibility, NTA.

Move out and help her, but from your own place!

NTA! Abandonment issues and teenage rebellion – brace yourselves!

Putting health first: NTA prioritizes well-being over plants and pets

NTA. Living as a nanny rent-free? Time to move out!

Taking care of plants vs. mothering teenagers: A role confusion!

Why didn’t you go help your uncle instead of the single mother?

NTA leaves family without support, complains about plants

NTA: Woman’s role swap sparks family feud over caregiving responsibilities

NTA. Stand up for yourself and find your independence

ESH. OP feels used, sister overwhelmed with responsibilities and criticism

The difference between OCD and OCPD explained.
