In a world where acceptance should be the norm, one mother is taking a stand for her transgender son. After her 15-year-old son came out as FTM (Female to Male) transgender, she and her husband immediately offered their love and support. But when the grandparents refused to use the correct pronouns, this fierce momma bear laid down the law: No proper pronouns, no grandchild!
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In a heart-wrenching stand for her son’s identity, this mother is demanding respect from her own parents. After her son came out as FTM transgender, she expected the family to adapt and show support. But when her parents continued to use the incorrect pronouns, she issued an ultimatum: use the correct pronouns or lose contact with their grandchild. While some family members accuse her of being too harsh, she stands firm, believing she is doing what’s best for her son. But what does the internet have to say about this? Let’s find out…
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