We all have our secrets, but what happens when they’re exposed in the most unsettling way? One woman (23f) and her boyfriend (25m) went on a weekend trip, leaving their roommate (29m) to take care of their dog. Little did they know, their trust would be betrayed in a way that left them feeling sick.
Meet the Roommates

A Weekend Getaway

The Unexpected Intrusion

The Panty Drawer Raid

Caught on Camera

The Panty Obsession Continues

Feeling Violated

Addressing the Situation

Taking Action

The Confrontation Plan

The Big Question

The Reasoning

Clarification

No Preference

Pantygate: A Tale of Trust, Betrayal, and Underwear
Imagine leaving your home for a weekend trip, only to discover your roommate digging through your panty drawer and wearing your underwear! That’s exactly what happened to this woman and her boyfriend. Now, they’re left feeling violated and unsure of how to confront their roommate, Taylor. They don’t want to shame him for cross-dressing, but they can’t ignore the invasion of privacy. Should they make him pay for new underwear and a bedroom deadbolt? Let’s dive into the internet’s thoughts on this wild situation…
NTA. WTF. Roommate invaded OP’s room and wore their clothes.
Roommate needs to replace the clothes and find a new place to live.
NTA. Invasion of privacy and disrespect. No excuse for it.

Roommate caught on camera in panty raid. NTA’s stealthy revenge!

NTA but concerned about roommate’s behavior – is it sexual?

Glad you’re safe! Curious about the confrontation and next steps.

“NTA but this is creepy as f**k, I mean he barely waited for you to drive away before he went to town. That screams fetish to me & honestly I’m really surprised you still intend to live with this guy after he did that.”

Stealing underwear: a fetish or a serious sexual offense?

NTA. Privacy violation: crossed the line or just a fetish?

Roommate’s panty raid: NTA, but time to find a new place!
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NTA confronted by roommate’s panty raid, questioning trust and trauma

Commenter calls out inappropriate behavior with shock and disbelief

NTA. Give this creep an eviction notice. Rummaging through your underwear?

Privacy invasion and stolen underwear? Definitely not okay, NTA.

Report him to the police and kick him out! Your safety first!

NTA: Roommate should pay for new underwear, creepy and inappropriate.

NTA. Invasion of privacy. Boundaries crossed. Violation of trust.

Beware of this potential sexual predator roommate! Stay safe!

Taylor’s panty raid is abusive and unacceptable. Kick him out!

NTA- Roommate steals underwear, needs to replace it all.

NTA, but be cautious and prioritize your safety over underwear.

NTA: Roommate’s panty raid is a boundary-crossing fashion faux pas!

NTA: Roommate’s panty raid is crossing the line, but eviction isn’t an option

NTA. Taylor’s panty raid was creepy as hell
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Roommate steals underwear, giving off creepy vibes. Yikes on trikes!

Consequences for panty raid: Explosive situation, but no solid decisions yet

Invasion of privacy! Kicking out a nosy roommate

Creepy roommate caught wearing my clothes, time to kick him out!
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NTA – Time to move out or make Taylor move out?

Shaming a roommate for wearing your used clothes? Not cool!
