Meet our heroine, a hardworking grocery clerk and pizza delivery girl, juggling two jobs to support her boyfriend, Alex, while he supposedly pursues an online degree. Eight years of love and shared dreams, all hanging by a thread when a shocking revelation turns their world upside down. As the drama unfolds, our heroine is left questioning everything she thought she knew about Alex and their relationship. Let’s delve into this tale of love, deception, and the harsh realities of adulting.
The Perfect Setup?
A New Chapter Begins
The Hardworking Girlfriend
The Shocking Revelation
The House Husband’s ‘Job’
The Final Straw
The Aftermath ️
A Relationship in Limbo
The Fallout
The Silent Treatment
A Love Story Interrupted: Is She the Villain or the Victim?
In the midst of a global pandemic, our hardworking heroine and her boyfriend, Alex, found themselves sharing a roof. She believed in their shared dreams and supported him financially, while he supposedly pursued an online degree. But when Alex confessed he had dropped out and had no plans to find a job, she felt betrayed and asked him to leave. Now, she’s caught in a whirlwind of criticism from friends and family, all siding with Alex. Is she being unreasonable, or has she been taken for granted? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation… ️♀️
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NTA: Boyfriend intentionally sabotaged education and relationship, happy to leave.
“Definitely NTA. He lied to you about something that directly relates to your future together, and kept it from you so that he could skate by while you do everything for him. I’d be pissed, just as you *rightfully* are. Parents can be pissed all they want, but it’s *not* their relationship. It’s yours. Think about what your future together would look like with this kind of behavior. If he slacks off this much, what will he do in the future, especially if something were to happen to you, such that he’d have to bear everything on his own? You’re doing the right thing.”
NTA. Boyfriend’s laziness and deception have destroyed OP’s trust.
“Trash took itself out” – a satisfying end to a liar’s game
“NTA: Your boyfriend lied about pursuing his degree. “
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Unbalanced roles: NTA confronts breadwinner spouse’s lack of communication
Trust and communication are key in a healthy relationship
NTA for feeling betrayed. Time to have a serious talk.
You’re NTA! Stand your ground and keep that toxic person out!
Scammed and lied to: a rocky relationship on the edge
Find better friends, you’re doing nothing wrong
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Dump him! He’s a user, not a lover.
NTA – Trust issues, laziness, and a potential future of dependency
NTA: Partner lied about school, needs to contribute financially.
You deserve better! Don’t let him take advantage of you.
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NTA! He was taking advantage of you all day?!
Break up with him if he won’t get a job
Don’t enable their behavior! You deserve better
Mixed opinions on OP’s behavior and entitlement to their home
NTA: Essential employee vs. handout-taking boyfriend
NTA. Living with someone who doesn’t contribute? Time to reassess.
NTA. He’s been lying to you, totally selfish and shady.
NTA! Dude’s been lying and mooching off you. Time to move on!
Betrayed by lies: Can trust be rebuilt?
Friends and family taking his side? That’s not fair!
NTA. Lying partner? Kick him out!
NTA. Lying for months about dropping out? Free room and board?
Lack of communication and planning causing relationship tension. ️
You deserve better! Don’t let him back in!
NTA: Exposing a lying mooch
Something’s fishy. Lying boyfriend, unsupportive fam & friends. Breakup-worthy? NTA.
Frustrated with lazy partner, seeking advice for better options.
NTA That’s some Andy Dwyer sh*t
NTA, he took advantage of your support and betrayed your trust
NTA. Partner’s laziness and disrespect is a huge red flag.
Dump the liar! You deserve someone who fights for you
Financially exploited by lying boyfriend Need proof of job!
Suspicion grows as secrets remain hidden in the shadows.
Partner not contributing to household chores and job search. NTA.
Set him free. You’re not the a**hole.
Empowering women: NTA. Smart and strong like you
A lesson in relationships: Will he learn from his mistake?
NTA. Time to set boundaries and have an honest conversation.
OP deserves an equal partner, not a freeloader
NTA. He’s a liar. Dude needs to go get a job.
Stay strong and stand your ground! You’re not the a**hole! ✊
Dump the trash ️ and find someone who values you
NTA: He lied and stole from you while you supported him.
NTA: You deserve better! Dump the lazy sponge!
Time to toss that fish back into the dating sea!
NTA. Don’t take him back. You deserve better.
Don’t like it? Then support him yourself! ♀️
ESH – Immature tantrum vs. lying. Set up time to talk
NTA, girl! Cut your losses and focus on yourself
♂️ Not the a-hole. He deceived you while you worked hard.
Discovering your partner’s secret life: a heartbreaking betrayal.
NTA. He used you and doesn’t value your partnership.
NTA for being upset about partner’s lying and lack of responsibility
NTA. Lying is a huge issue. You have every right to be mad and not support him anymore.
Lying and betraying trust: Is he really the a**hole?
NTA: No job, no diploma, no love. A rocky relationship.
NTA – Relationship on the rocks due to financial issues
Unemployed partner admits it, but OP is not the a**hole.
NTA – He lied and took advantage of your goodwill
NTA: Lying partner takes advantage, sparks justified fury!
NTA: Taking charge, demanding equality, and setting boundaries.
NTA, honesty is key in any relationship
Silence speaks volumes. NTA got what they wanted
NTA. Your partner lied for months and doesn’t care?
NTA: Lazy partner lies about job. Trust issues unravel relationship.
