Picture this: You’re in a happy relationship, planning to move in with your significant other, and then one of their friends tries to ‘test’ your loyalty by making advances towards you. That’s exactly what happened to our protagonist, who’s now questioning his girlfriend’s trust in her friend. Is he overreacting, or is there more to this story than meets the eye? Let’s dive into the drama and find out!
☕ Love Brewed in a Coffee Shop ☕
Compatibility on Point
♀️ Olivia’s Girl Gang ♀️
Gamer Girl Harper
Moving In Together
Sharing the News with Friends
Downtown Drinks
Bar Hopping
❤️ Just Harper and I ❤️
Calling an Uber
Drunk Harper’s Attempt
The Unwanted Kiss
Apologies and Handsy Behavior
Snapping at Harper
Tracking the Uber
Calling Olivia
Olivia’s Tears and Harper’s Test
The Test Reveal
Harper’s Message
️♀️ Harper’s Cheater Check ️♀️
Calling Out Harper’s BS
❤️ Olivia’s Trust in Harper ❤️
♂️ Am I Overreacting? ♂️
No More Harper?
️♀️ Loyalty Test Gone Wrong? ️♀️
Our protagonist has been dating Olivia for a year and they’ve decided to move in together. One night, he goes out for drinks with Olivia’s friends, including Harper, who ends up getting drunk and making advances towards him. He rejects her and tells Olivia, only to find out the next day that Harper claims it was all a ‘test’ to make sure he wouldn’t cheat before Olivia moved in with him. Olivia believes her friend’s story, but our protagonist is convinced Harper’s just covering her tracks. ️♂️ So, is this a case of a well-intentioned but misguided loyalty test, or is Harper hiding her true intentions? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
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