Imagine being born on Christmas Day and having to choose between celebrating your birthday or Christmas every year. That’s the reality for one woman (21f), who has finally had enough of her parents’ bizarre rule. Instead of enjoying the best of both worlds, she was forced to pick one or the other, making her childhood holidays a living nightmare.
Christmas Day Birthday Dilemma

A Tale of Two Celebrations

The ‘Greedy’ Accusation

The Unfair Choice

Ruined Holidays

Family’s Twisted Narrative

Childhood Hell

Zoom Call Showdown

Enough is Enough!

Money Wasn’t the Issue

Family’s Reaction

Christmas Guilt

Overwhelming Support

Best Birthday/Christmas Ever

Gratitude and Love ❤️

The Unbearable Choice: Birthday or Christmas?
This woman’s parents made her choose between celebrating her birthday or Christmas every year, leading to a childhood filled with isolation and disappointment. Even as an adult, her family still expects her to make the choice, causing her to finally snap and call them out for their cruel behavior. With the support of the internet, she’s now enjoying her first real birthday/Christmas celebration, complete with a Nintendo Switch and a KFC lunch! Let’s see what the internet thinks of this outrageous situation…
NTA. Parents being cheap and cruel. Celebrate with found family

NTA. Family sucks. Limited contact. Distance helps. Busy life.

Parents force Christmas or birthday choice on child.

Birthday vs Christmas: NTA, parents are a**holes. Happy birthday!

NTA. Almost cartoonishly evil. Happy birthday AND merry Christmas!

“NTA: Apologize for being born on Christmas. Hilarious response! “

NTA: Happy Birthday and Merry Christmas! You deserve both

NTA: Celebrating two birthdays, like the Queen, with special gifts

NTA. Celebrate her birthday separately and ditch the Christmas theme.

“NTA! It’s not your fault you were born on Christmas! “

NTA. Parents exclude you from Christmas, but Happy Birthday!

Parents’ bizarre choice: Birthday or Christmas? NTA, celebrate both!

NTA: Manipulative family forces Christmas baby to choose between celebrations.
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Celebrate your birthday mid-year or have a ‘yes day’!

NTA. Parents guilt-trip you for wanting birthday celebration. Siblings favored?

Parents treated commenter poorly, NTA. Happy Birthday and Merry Xmas!

NTA: Parents put effort into making child’s life *worse*?

Resenting parents for Christmas birthdays?

Family fails to acknowledge birthday, commenter not the a**hole

NTA suggests turning the tables to teach them a lesson!

NTA! Parents prioritize money over your birthday and Christmas

Heartbreaking choice for Christmas baby. NTA empathizes.

Choosing between Christmas and birthdays? No thanks, NTA!

Heartbreaking injustice! NTA’s struggle with unfair birthday-Christmas dilemma
