Man Refuses to Let Girlfriend’s Daughter Move Back In

Imagine inheriting a beautiful home in a wealthy county with a fantastic school system and safety net. Life seems perfect, right? But what if your girlfriend’s daughter, who lives with you, despises you and acts out in destructive ways? This is the situation one man found himself in, and he decided enough was enough. He put his foot down and refused to let the daughter move back in after she was sent to live with her grandparents. But now, the daughter wants to return, and the man is torn. Is he being too harsh? Let’s dive into the story.

Living the Good Life

The Girlfriend and Her Daughter ‍

The Daughter’s Disdain

The Gossip Mill ️

Destructive Behavior

Drawing the Line

A Temporary Solution?

Moving to Grandparents’ House

The Bullying Problem

A Change of Heart?

Standing His Ground

Is He Being Too Harsh?

This man found himself in a difficult situation when his girlfriend’s daughter began acting out and causing chaos in their home. After sending her to live with her grandparents, she now wants to return due to severe bullying at her new school. Despite the daughter’s struggles, the man refuses to let her move back in, valuing his newfound peace and quiet. But is he being too harsh? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…

NTA for not wanting to house girlfriend’s daughter. Girlfriend is the AH for choosing you over her own child.

NTA for prioritizing pet’s safety, but strict boundaries and counseling recommended.

Understand that GF’s daughter is part of the package

NTA, but GF prioritizing millionaire bf over daughter makes her AH

ESH in a complex situation where everyone needs to communicate better ‍♂️

NTA. You have a right to peace and quiet

Man defends decision to not let girlfriend’s daughter move back in

Commenter predicts breakup due to girlfriend’s temporary stay, replies share similar experiences.

NTA stands up for himself and almost presses charges

Girlfriend’s daughter acting out, but adults need to communicate better ‍♂️

Defending himself as a landlord and boyfriend. ‍♂️

Stepparent deals with bratty child, not obligated to tolerate damage

Commenter points out failure of adults in child’s life

NTA. Setting boundaries with respect is key.

NTA, but relationship incompatibility due to differing priorities

NTA suggests kicking out girlfriend and her daughter

Commenter suggests girlfriend would be a bad parent if daughter isn’t allowed back ‍♀️

A destructive kid, a prioritizing mom, and a clueless partner. ‍♂️

Love her or leave her: a tough but fair choice ❤️

Choosing partner over child is awful, but NTA for dog’s safety

Commenter calls out girlfriend for being a bad mother. NTA

A compassionate plea for the girlfriend’s daughter’s return home ❤️

Setting boundaries with partner’s child, NTA according to parents’ wishes

NTA for setting rules in your own house. GF’s responsibility.

Taking back control

Commenter calls out everyone’s flaws in a troubled family situation ‍♀️

NTA but girlfriend is. Don’t be with someone who neglects child

Co-parenting situation with ex, unclear role of girlfriend in parenting

NTA! The girl needs to learn accountability. Good advice for OP.

ESH. Girlfriend prioritizing relationship over child’s well-being

NTA for refusing to let girlfriend’s daughter move back in.

NTA. The girlfriend is the only a**hole here. ‍♀️

NTA. Commenter suggests paying for Christian school for girlfriend’s daughter.

Harsh judgment on girlfriend’s parenting skills.

Commenter calls out misplaced priorities in chaotic situation

Curious comment gets a playful wink in response

Setting boundaries for safety, NTA for not letting daughter return

ESH in a complicated situation. Girlfriend needs to step up parenting.

A dog’s hypothetical fate leads to a breakup and charges.

NTA, tough situation with a petulant brat and a dangerous act

NTA comment calls out GF’s bad parenting and ulterior motives

Package deal or not? YTA for not letting daughter move in

Three-way a-hole showdown

NTA offers advice on parenting girlfriend’s troubled daughter

Commenter questions girlfriend’s parenting and discipline, receives explanation and actions.

Navigating authority with three people is tough

NTA: Tough love is necessary for a healthy relationship

Mom chooses boyfriend over daughter ‍♀️

NTA man refuses to let girlfriend’s daughter move back in

Defending his decision to not let girlfriend’s daughter move back in.

Commenter calls out man and girlfriend for mistreating daughter

Stepdaughter wants to move back in, but OP has conditions

NTA. Commenter criticizes GF’s parenting and SJW behavior.

NTA. No obligation to care for someone else’s child. Clear lack of discipline.

Dealing with disrespect and destruction in a blended family

Commenter calls out arrogance and laziness of boyfriend, everyone sucks.

Commenter accuses woman of using boyfriend for degree

Teaching consequences: NTA risks losing girlfriend over discipline.

NTA, but GF’s daughter needs strict rules and consequences

NTA stands firm against girlfriend’s bad parenting