Woman Sells Expensive Gift to End Boyfriend’s Constant Guilt-Tripping

Imagine receiving an expensive gift from your partner, only to have it used as a bargaining tool for months on end. That’s exactly what happened to a 25-year-old woman who was gifted a high-end computer by her boyfriend for Christmas. As she pursued her Master’s degree, he watched her scrimp and save to afford her education. Despite her gratitude for the gift, the boyfriend’s constant reminders that she ‘owed’ him for it became unbearable. So, she decided to sell the computer, buy a cheaper one, and give him back most of the money. But was this the right move? Let’s dive into this dramatic tale.

The Generous Christmas Gift

An Unexpected Surprise

A Bargaining Tool Emerges

“You Owe Me”

Enough is Enough

The Ultimatum

A Big Argument Erupts

Taking Action

The Aftermath

A Bold Move to End the Drama

Tired of her boyfriend’s constant guilt-tripping, this woman took matters into her own hands and sold the expensive computer he gifted her. She bought a more affordable laptop and returned most of the money to him, hoping to put an end to the ongoing conflict. While her boyfriend was furious, she felt it was the only way to resolve the situation. What do you think? Was her decision justified? Let’s see what the internet has to say about this dramatic turn of events.

NTA but the laptop is the least of your problems with this guy.

Commenter warns of red flags in older manipulative boyfriend’s behavior

Boyfriend guilt-tripping over gift = major red flag

NTA. Red flags early on may lead to abuse later on.

Age gap, manipulation, and sarcasm. NTA and good luck OP

Dumping the manipulative boyfriend was the better option

Age gap and guilt-tripping: a toxic combination

NTA. Ex-boyfriend guilt-trips over $350 purse, sends harassing messages.

Gift with strings is a leash. NTA.

Calculating gift or heartfelt gesture? NTA takes action.

NTA – Getting rid of the controlling ‘gift’

Age gap, controlling behavior, and money issues in relationships

Red flag alert! Keep an eye out for other signs

Savage comment burns boyfriend and praises computer

Gift turned bargaining chip; red flags for power dynamics. NTA.

Expensive gift turned into a noose/leash. NTA.

Age gap, financial control, and guilt-tripping – red flags everywhere

Gift or Guilt-trip? NTA stands up for herself

Age gap and red flags in toxic relationship

Financially controlling boyfriend? NTA should lose him

NTA. Commenter and reply agree: Boyfriend is an abusive jerk

Gift turned guilt-trip? NTA sells to end manipulation.

Don’t let guilt-tripping ruin your relationship. Run

Setting boundaries is key. NTA for selling the gift

Recognize the red flags and run while you can

Dating an older man with controlling behavior. NTA.

Gifts should not be used as a bargaining chip

Boyfriend guilt-trips girlfriend into giving him money for her education

Age difference raises concerns of manipulation. Commenters question relationship.

Red flags ignored, computer sold to end abusive control

Boyfriend guilt-tripping over gift? NTA, he definitely is. Yikes!

Ending guilt-trips with a sold gift #NTA

Breaking free from guilt-tripping: NTA wins the game

Dump him and keep the computer, NTA

Girlfriend sells gift to end guilt-tripping. NTA wins!

Dump the guilt-tripper and the gift

Expensive gifts with strings attached aren’t worth sh*t

Commenter initially judges, but advises therapy and declares NTA.

Boyfriend’s guilt-tripping backfires as girlfriend sells expensive gift

Expensive gift used for guilt-tripping, a red flag

Savage and hilarious reply to guilt-tripping boyfriend

Gift turned weapon? Not the a**hole according to commenter.

Returning the gift exposed his manipulative behavior

Empowering response to manipulative boyfriend, taking back control

Escape while you still have the chance

Gift not a loan, NTA. Boyfriend’s behavior may be abusive

NTA for selling the gift to end guilt-tripping

Sell the guilt-tripper, keep the cash NTA

Power dynamic abuse: the real reason behind the anger

Gift or chain? Commenter sparks debate on relationship dynamics.

Commenter sees red flags in woman’s relationship

Commenter warns of potential danger and manipulation tactics. NTA

Ouch! That’s a savage reply

Standing up for yourself against controlling behavior

Boyfriend’s gift was a manipulative tool, not a gift. NTA

Returning a gift to end guilt-tripping behavior NTA

Red flags in the relationship, seek therapy and stay objective

Dump the predator boyfriend who guilt-trips you about money

Dump the controlling prick before real abuse starts

Savage response to a guilt-tripping boyfriend

NTA for selling gift to end guilt-tripping

Recognizing manipulation and standing up for oneself.

Dump the guilt-tripper . NTA for selling the gift.

Woman sells expensive gift to end guilt-tripping boyfriend

Boyfriend’s financial guilt-trips spark concern in comment section