Meet our two characters: the Party Princess and the Struggling Soldier. Born twelve years apart, these siblings grew up in starkly different circumstances. The eldest, the Party Princess, was the apple of her parents’ eye, indulged in all the pleasures of life. The younger, the Struggling Soldier, was left to fend for himself amidst a family crisis. As adults, their paths diverged even further. One chose to party, while the other chose to persevere. Now, the Party Princess is asking her brother for financial help. But should the Struggling Soldier step in to save the day?
The Party Princess’ Life of Luxury

The Struggling Soldier’s Battle Begins ⚔️ ️

The Struggling Soldier’s Fight for Survival ️♂️

The Struggling Soldier’s Triumph ️

The Party Princess’ Perpetual Party

The Party Princess’ Provocation ♀️

The Struggling Soldier’s Standoff ️

The Struggling Soldier’s Dilemma

The Struggling Soldier’s Stand: Family or Finances?
The Struggling Soldier has fought his way from a troubled childhood to a successful adulthood, while his sister, the Party Princess, has spent her life in a whirlwind of fun and frivolity. Now, she’s asking him for financial help, but he’s hesitant. After all, he’s worked hard for his success, while she’s shrugged off his struggles. Now, he’s left pondering: should he prioritize family or his hard-earned finances? And who’s really in the wrong here? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this sibling standoff…
NTA prioritizes family, epic burn response from comment replies

NTA. She made her bed, now she parties in it.

NTA: Sister’s lack of support is infuriating. You deserve better.

NTA: Encourage her to support foster children through volunteering or housing

Family isn’t always about blood. NTA for setting boundaries.

Don’t be an ATM for irresponsible family members
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Sibling enabled by parents, commenter refuses to enable. Overcame obstacles.

Sibling rivalry: entitlement, laziness, and squandered opportunities

Sibling neglects OP, now wants money. NTA for refusing.

Family loyalty should be consistent, not just when it’s convenient.

Cutting off family? Not the a**hole!

Time for her to grow up!

Cutting off a freeloading sibling. Good move!

Sibling downplays OP’s struggles, ignore her and save money.

NTA: Don’t let her into your properties, she may squat. Encourage her to adult.

Cut off contact with your user sister for a happier life!

It’s never too late to have a happy childhood!

NTA, but sort out your will and dump the load.

Cutting ties with toxic sibling for better mental health

Family loyalty questioned: Should freebies be expected?

Putting yourself first doesn’t make you an a**hole. Family matters.

Family first? NTA questions sibling’s lack of support.

Family ties severed, no regrets.

Independent woman, she can handle her own housing

NTA: Sister invalidates your struggles and leeches off you
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Stand up for yourself! You don’t owe her a thing!

She doesn’t deserve anything. Not the a**hole.

Not the a**hole. Tell us more about the situation!

Parents should handle her now and forever. You’re not wrong.

No family bond, no respect. NTA for standing up!

Sibling rivalry at its finest. One freeloader, one party animal.

Sibling rivalry: one struggles, one parties. Who’s the mooch?

Sister’s fantasy world: Ignore her and block her.

No obligation to care about someone who never cared about you ♀️

Choose your own family and prioritize your own happiness

Putting yourself first and moving on. You’re NTA!

You owe her nothing. Be free!

NTA. Don’t give in to her demands. Offer support instead.

Sibling rivalry: No help then, no help now.

Surviving childhood and thriving: NTA for moving forward successfully

Sibling struggles: NTA, live your life and find peace

Sibling rivalry: Indulged brat expects more, time for reality check!

NTA: Harsh truth about entitlement.
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Sibling rivalry: One struggles, one parties

Sibling rivalry: Foster care, success, and a debt unpaid.

Not the a**hole. She’s not really family
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NTA, but consider her upbringing and set firm boundaries.

Cautionary tale: Think twice before letting family move in.
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“NTA. Family first when it suits her? Cut ties! “

“Family first” means doing what they want.

NTA – Don’t let her burden you. Protect yourself legally.

Putting family first? Nah, not according to this commenter!

Put yourself first and prioritize self-care.
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Military sacrifice for education dismissed.

Blood doesn’t make family. Sometimes, you just have to cut ties.

NTA: Overcoming adversity and standing up for yourself.
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NTA. You’ve worked hard for what you have

Setting boundaries with family: NTA for not letting sister freeload

NTA: Family drama and sibling rivalry, stay strong and say no!

Sibling rivalry: One struggles while the other parties!

NTA: Family only matters to her now because you’re successful

Independent adult: NTA, she can work and support herself.

Family support matters. Where was she when you needed it?

Sibling support: Did she step up? NTA

You’re not responsible for rescuing her. Own your success!

NTA: Sister can’t abandon you then expect lifelong support

Genetics don’t define family ❤️ NTA

Sibling enjoys freedom, now it’s time for responsibility.

Is she really family? Share your thoughts!

Don’t let her lack of planning ruin your hard work!
