Imagine being a father who’s been pushed away by his own children, only for them to return when the tide turns. This is the story of a man who faced the heart-wrenching decision of welcoming his estranged daughters back into his life after they had chosen their stepfather over him. But when the stepfather abandons them, they knock on their biological father’s door again. Read on to find out how this emotional saga unfolds.
The Unwanted Goodbye

The Slow Fade

The Impossible Situation

The Financial Support

The New Family

The Growing Distance

The Name Change

The No-Contact Rule

The Unannounced Visit

The New Life

The Unexpected Return

The Final Decision ⚖️

A Father’s Dilemma: To Welcome or Not to Welcome?
After years of emotional turmoil and distance, this father finds himself at a crossroads. His daughters, who chose a life without him, are now knocking on his door after their stepfather abandoned them. The timing seems suspiciously convenient. He’s left wondering if he should let them back into his life after they’d so willingly cut him out. Is he in the wrong for refusing their return? Or is he justified in his decision? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this heart-wrenching situation…
NTA, hurt but open to hearing them out. Possible abuse concerns?

YTA for leaving out context. Commenters suspect parental alienation.

“YTA. Traded family for job. Now daughters reaching out.”
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“YTA. You abandoned your family. Now you’re being petty and vindictive.”

Absent father accused of prioritizing new family over daughters.

YTA for being absent and now acting like a petulant child
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Father explains reasons for separation and regrets not being there

Regretting cutting off your nose? YTA, give your kids a chance!

Heartbroken father accused of being an a**hole for leaving kids

Curiosity killed the cat, but it’s time to ask why

NTA: Tried to keep in contact, but they called the police.

NAH: Kids don’t owe parents, but denying contact seems bitter

Absent father, stepdad drama, and questionable motives. Drama overload!

NTA, sacrifices made for ex-wife, now reconnecting with daughters.

“YTA. Your daughters are making efforts to rebuild a relationship.”

Daughters reconnect after stepdad leaves, but OP feels left out.
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Heartbreaking: Father regrets actions as daughters cut him out.

Engaging comment: NTA. Find out why they cut contact
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Something fishy is going on with the stepdad’s sudden exit.

“NTA. Adulthood is harsh but those 18 yr olds made their decision. You don’t owe any of them anything. “

Divorce is complicated, but maybe your daughters are better off.

Daughters return after stepdad’s exit, but is it too late?

Hurtful past, cold present. YTA’s actions leave lasting scars.

Father’s heartache: Kids left, but he tried to be involved.

Neglected father refuses to repair relationship with estranged daughters.

Neglected daughters confront father about prioritizing his new family.

“YTA, you didn’t make enough effort to be there for them. “

Consider the stepfather’s true intentions before cutting them off forever.

NTA for moving on after daughters cut contact.

Commenter calls OP YTA for leaving sick wife and kids

“YTA. Abandoned family, now unwilling to patch things up. “

Heartbroken father hopes for reconciliation with estranged daughters.

Heartbroken father defends himself against unfair accusations, explains his actions.

YTA. Grow up

Commenter accuses father of being stubborn and regretful.

NTA! The father’s heartache finally gets some relief.

YTA. Reconnect with your kids and make amends.

LDR in a marriage? Weekend trips could’ve saved it!
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“YTA. Chose job over family. Now playing victim. “
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“YTA. Neglecting your kids won’t earn you any parenting awards!”

Heartwarming: Father’s daughters return, stepdad’s exit brings reconciliation.

“Left” kids, wife for sick mother. Daughters took stepdad’s name.

Commenter calls out OP for leaving out important details.

“NTA. Daughters return after stepdad’s exit, but be cautious. “

Father left when kids were young, now withholding money.
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Father’s heartache turns to relief as daughters return. #NTA

Regret missing the chance to rebuild with your daughters.
