Imagine waking up to find your fiancé using your daughter’s wheelchair for yard work! That’s exactly what happened to a woman who discovered her fiancé and his son using her daughter’s wheelchair to move bags of grass cuttings. The daughter, Hazel, has a rare condition called tethered cord syndrome and relies on her wheelchair for mobility. Let’s dive into this story and see what led to this shocking moment.
Meet the Family

The Fiancé and His Son

Living Together

Yard Work Day

The Shocking Discovery

Confronting Eddie

Mark’s Confession ️

Furious Reaction

Calling Him Out

Mark’s Response

Apology Expected?

Wheelchair Misuse Sparks Outrage
In a shocking turn of events, a woman found her fiancé, Mark, and his son, Eddie, using her daughter’s wheelchair to move bags of grass cuttings during yard work. Hazel, the daughter, relies on the wheelchair due to her rare condition, tethered cord syndrome. The woman confronted Mark, who admitted to using the wheelchair, thinking it wouldn’t be a big deal since Hazel was still asleep. Furious, she called him out for his disrespectful actions. Mark later claimed she overreacted and demanded an apology. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
Fiancé uses daughter’s wheelchair for yard work, commenter advises to dump.

Using a wheelchair as a wheelbarrow? Definitely NTA.

Fiancé’s use of daughter’s wheelchair for yard work criticized. NTA.

Using a wheelchair for yard work is beyond disrespectful

Fiancé uses daughter’s wheelchair for yard work, OP is NTA

Using a wheelchair as a wheelbarrow? Definitely not okay

Fiancé uses daughter’s wheelchair for yard work, commenters call him out

Fiancé uses daughter’s wheelchair for yard work, gaslights OP. NTA.

Fiancé uses daughter’s wheelchair for yard work? NTA commenters react

Fiancé uses daughter’s wheelchair as wheelbarrow. Commenter calls out disrespect.

Daughter’s wheelchair is not a tool for yard work

Fiancé uses daughter’s wheelchair for yard work, commenters outraged. ♂️

Fiancé uses daughter’s wheelchair for yard work, comment suggests calm discussion.

NTA commenter calls out ableism with strong language

Sassy response to fiancé’s ableism in yard work

Daughter’s wheelchair is her independence, NTA for being upset

Using a disabled child’s wheelchair for yard work? Not okay.

Outrageous! Using a child’s wheelchair for yard work? NTA

Fiancé uses daughter’s wheelchair for yard work NTA commenter calls him an idiot

Using a wheelchair for yard work? Is it practical?

Furious commenter calls out fiancé for using daughter’s wheelchair for yard work.

Daughter’s wheelchair used for yard work without permission

Fiancé uses daughter’s wheelchair for yard work, ESH, no permission asked

Fiancé uses daughter’s wheelchair for yard work, commenter calls NTA.

Yelling in front of children is not an appropriate reaction. ESH.

Using a wheelchair as a wheelbarrow? ESH, but talk it out

Using someone’s mobility aid without permission is not okay.

Using a wheelchair for yard work? NTA draws the line

Fiancé’s poor judgement: Using daughter’s wheelchair for yard work

Fiancé uses daughter’s wheelchair for yard work, commenter advises against marriage

Fiancé uses daughter’s wheelchair for yard work, commenter calls him out

Man uses daughter’s wheelchair for yard work. Commenter calls him out.

Treat people’s aids as part of their body. Attend disability awareness.

Respect for personal boundaries and medical equipment is crucial. NTA.

Fiancé uses daughter’s wheelchair for yard work – disrespectful or not?

Wheelchair is a mobility device, not a yard tool. NTA.

Mark’s behavior towards Hazel is unacceptable and disrespectful. NTA.

Fiancé uses daughter’s wheelchair for yard work, commenter supports.

Fiancé misused daughter’s wheelchair for yard work. Commenter advises breaking off engagement.

Fiancé uses daughter’s wheelchair for yard work. NTA calls out ableism.
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Fiancé uses daughter’s wheelchair for yard work, gaslights partner. NTA.

Fiancé used daughter’s wheelchair for yard work, commenter advises leaving him

Daughter’s wheelchair not a shared family resource. NTA.

Fiancé uses daughter’s wheelchair for yard work. Commenter is fuming.

Fiancé uses daughter’s wheelchair for yard work. Commenter defends daughter’s rights.

Using a wheelchair for yard work – NTA or YTA?

Using a wheelchair as yard equipment is disrespectful and dangerous.

Using someone else’s wheelchair for yard work? Not cool.

Wheelchairs are expensive, NTA for using it for yard work
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Red flags in relationship, reconsider before it’s too late

Husband uses daughter’s wheelchair for yard work – NTA calls him out

Furious commenter accuses fiancé of damaging daughter’s wheelchair.

Fiancé uses daughter’s wheelchair for yard work, commenter advises standing up

Fiancé in hot water for using daughter’s wheelchair for yard work

User finds humor in situation but advises against marrying fiancé.

Wheelchair is not a yard equipment. NTA for yelling.

Confusion over fiancé’s thought process using daughter’s wheelchair for yard work

Setting boundaries with fiancé after using daughter’s wheelchair for yard work.

User shares personal experience of loss of independence without mobility device.

Daughter’s wheelchair is not up for negotiation. NTA

Humorous comment on man using wheelchair for yard work.

Fiancé uses daughter’s wheelchair for yard work, deemed NTA. Red flag.

Fiancé uses daughter’s wheelchair for yard work, commenters outraged

Stealing a wheelchair for yard work? Definitely not okay. #NTA

Parent of child with disabilities empathizes with OP’s frustration.

Stand your ground and reevaluate the relationship.

Wheelchair is not just an item, it’s a lifeline.

Fiancé uses daughter’s wheelchair for yard work. Commenter calls out disrespectful behavior and suggests rethinking marriage.

Using a wheelchair for yard work? Definitely not okay!

Defending the NTA, condemning the disrespectful behavior

NTA and prenup advice for fiancé who used daughter’s wheelchair
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Dump him! Using a wheelchair for yard work is unacceptable.

Fiancé uses daughter’s wheelchair for yard work. Unacceptable behavior. NTA.
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Support for NTA comment on misuse of daughter’s wheelchair

Respect personal boundaries! Using a wheelchair for yard work? NTA

Using someone’s wheelchair for yard work is invasive and wrong. #NTA
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Using a wheelchair for yard work? NTA, but there’s a better way

Father criticized for using daughter’s wheelchair for yard work

Fiancé uses daughter’s wheelchair for yard work, comment suggests ending relationship

Demanding a public apology for ableist behavior. NTA.

Fiancé used daughter’s wheelchair for yard work, OP stood up for daughter
