Imagine having a home you take pride in, only to see it turned into a warzone every time a certain relative visits. Sounds like a nightmare, right? Well, that’s exactly what one couple is experiencing. Their nephew, a six-year-old bundle of chaos, is single-handedly wreaking havoc during family gatherings. From scooping icing off uncut cakes to intentionally pouring drinks on kitchen counters and even destroying a 40″ TV, this little tyke is leaving a trail of destruction in his wake. And the worst part? His mom, their sister-in-law, does nothing to stop the carnage.
Meet the Chaos Creator!

A Birthday Bash… Literally!

The Sneaky Cover-Up

A Birthday Gift of Destruction

Apologies without Actions

The Breaking Point

The Final Stand

The Big Question

The Damage Done

The Medical Mystery

The Unsettling Observation

No More Mr. Nice Uncle: Time to Draw the Line?
After enduring countless family gatherings turned demolition derbies, our beleaguered homeowner has had enough. He’s ready to declare his home a no-go zone for his destructive nephew. But will this bold move cause a family feud? And what about the sister-in-law, who seems more inclined to hide the damage than address her son’s behavior? It’s a sticky situation, fraught with conflict and emotional turmoil. Let’s dive into the internet’s take on this domestic dilemma…
NTA: No more invites, let actions speak louder than words!

NTA – Dealing with an unruly child and unsupportive partner

NTA. Set boundaries with SIL and propose a deposit system

NTA. Politely suggest sister hosts next year to avoid damages.
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NTA, but talk to your wife first for a compromise.

NTA, but try a constructive family discussion for better outcomes!

NTA – SIL’s neglectful parenting causing household havoc. Compromise needed.
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NTA. Don’t call him names. SIL needs to take action.

NTA. Demand SIL pays for TV or no entry. Wife enabler?

Setting boundaries with a troublesome child at family events.

A broken TV for Christmas? That’s some next-level parenting!

Parenting nightmare! NTA struggles with a challenging child.

Stand your ground! No obligation to host unruly children. NTA!

SIL needs to pay for the TV! NTA for setting boundaries.

NTA – SIL needs to take responsibility for her child’s behavior
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NTA, teach the kid better. SIL sucks. Compromise with outdoors?

NTA: Boundaries and tough love for unruly family members.
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NTA: Set boundaries with SIL and protect your home

Frustrated commenter calls out entitled parenting, predicts future trouble.

NTA. Family chaos and poop smearing?

NTA pays kids to wreak havoc at ex’s house
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NTA. Clever solution to prevent damage from mischievous cousin!

NTA, is this your nephew?

NTA: When the invite list gets a little too expensive!

Navigating a tricky slope of household havoc. Good luck!

SIL’s unruly son wrecks havoc, OP wants her to take responsibility!

Setting boundaries: Aunt and uncle discipline vs. parental intervention.

Prime Day to the rescue! Send her a pointed link!
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Concerned about child’s well-being, questioning possible autism, supporting OP

“Banned a kid and his dad for wreaking havoc in my home! “

“YWNBTA and to be honest, your SIL should be banned as well. Maybe after they start hosting and get all their sh*t ruined and destroyed they’ll figure out why you had to do it.”

NTA – A peaceful comment section, no warzone here! ️

Is your SIL’s new kid just as much of a nightmare?

NTA, your wife needs to address her family about the demon child

Hold SIL accountable, set boundaries, address nephew’s issues before it’s too late!

SIL’s lack of boundaries creates household chaos.

Setting boundaries with a troubled family member. Seek professional help.

NTA: SIL’s TV destruction calls for a house ban

Don’t ban nephew! SIL can post deposit. NTA!

Mom and kid both six, no a-hole here.

SIL’s lack of boundaries creates household chaos. 0/5 Assholes.

Unwelcome guests breaking stuff? Time to lay down the law!
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NTA at ALL. Kid sounds like a menace, like my dog

Parenting problems: Bad kids and absent discipline

OP suggests banning SIL and mother, predicts consequences at school.

Parenting regrets: NTA’s anger will come back to haunt her!
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SIL and nephew are being immature. Time to grow up!
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Demanding a deposit for future visits? That’s one way to protect your home!

Stand your ground against a destructive kid and unsupportive SIL!

NTA, but talk to sister about TV and kid’s behavior.

Ban the mother too! Inadequate parenting leads to future problems.

NTA: Time to ban SIL too?

Dad MIA, Mom Takes All the Heat.

SIL’s lack of supervision causes chaos at someone else’s home!

SIL’s unruly child turns home into a warzone! NTA, SIL is!

NTA: Get the money or the TV, don’t let them back!
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NTA demands SIL to pay for TV or be banned
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NTA: Future basement dweller? Make her pay for TV!

Hold the fort! NTA demands justice and a ban!

NTA. Setting boundaries with SIL without causing family drama.

Mom’s influence on child’s behavior leads to justified ban.

No repairs, no hosting. SIL and her son are out! NTA

NTA: Stick her with the bills!

NTA: Revenge is sweet, but who will entertain the devil spawn?

Concerned about a spoiled child’s behavior? Get him evaluated!
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Send her a bill, make her pay, and take back control! NTA

NTA: Horrendous parenting causing household havoc and enabling behavior

Open communication with SIL about unruly child yields no results

NTA: Set boundaries and communicate openly to avoid misunderstandings.

Polite email: ask for TV replacement cost. Hold accountable for son’s actions.

NTA: Make her pay for the TV!

NTA wants to ban mother and hellspawn, and send a bill!

Kids can’t stand him either? NTA, his behavior’s only escalating!
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Demanding justice for a broken TV! NTA, go for it!

NTA: Nephew’s havoc leads to tough decision. Wake-up call needed!

NTA. Send her a bill for the damage and make her step up
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