Best Friend’s Girlfriend Throws a Curveball: Jealousy or Justified?

Meet our storyteller, a 21-year-old woman who’s found herself in a bit of a pickle. She’s best friends with a guy, let’s call him ‘W’. They’ve been tight since freshman year, and she’s always been a supportive friend to him and his partners. But here’s the twist: she’s a lesbian, and his new girlfriend, ‘S’, is not so thrilled about their closeness. The drama unfolds when ‘S’ asks her to distance herself from ‘W’. ‍♀️

Meet the Trio: Our Storyteller, W, and S

The Plot Thickens: S Enters the Scene

First Impressions: Not All Sunshine and Rainbows

The Unexpected Message: Back Off!

The Ultimatum: Distance or Disrespect?

The Dilemma: To Respond or Not to Respond?

Seeking Advice: A Message to W

W’s Response: Unaware and Upset

A Twist in the Tale: S Deletes Her Messages

A Friendship on the Line: Jealousy, Misunderstandings, and Unanswered Questions ‍♀️

Caught in a whirlwind of emotions and misunderstandings, our storyteller is left questioning her actions. Despite her attempts to clarify her intentions, ‘S’ remains unyielding, leaving her to wonder: Is she in the wrong? Should she distance herself from ‘W’, one of her closest friends? The plot thickens when ‘W’ expresses his unawareness of ‘S”s feelings and assures our storyteller that she’s done nothing wrong. But with ‘S’ deleting her messages, the tale takes an unexpected turn. Let’s dive into the internet’s reactions to this intriguing story…

“NTA, she’s disrespectful and controlling. Relationship without trust is 0. “

NTA. Let W know what she said and he’ll decide

Best friend’s girlfriend is controlling and jealous, causing tension.

NTA. Stand your ground and don’t let her push you around.

NTA: Friend’s gf overstepped boundaries, warn friend about her actions.

NTA. GF’s jealousy might be rooted in lack of attention.

Insecure ex still causing drama? Time to spill the tea!

NTA, warn your friend about his controlling girlfriend. Hugs matter

“NTA, toxic girlfriend. Discuss with friend. Jealousy of gay person? “

NTA! Open communication is key in any relationship

Possessive, manipulative GF vs. happy BF. Screenshots for future reference?

NTA – Best friend’s girlfriend is projecting insecurities onto you

Toxic girlfriend? Warn your friend about her jealousy!

Navigating a landmine: How to confront your friend and his gf?

NTA: Her demand is out of line. Trust your friend.

NTA. Respect boundaries and ask for consent when hugging.

Navigating boundaries with your best friend’s jealous girlfriend

NTA with incredible hugging skills, but adapt to comfort levels!

Curious for an update! NTA

NTA. Don’t let her curveball ruin your friendship!

NTA. Need a hug? Virtual hugs coming your way!

NTA. Expose the possessive GF to your friend

Insecure girlfriend causing tension in long-term friendship.

NTA. Friend’s toxic girlfriend causing problems. Warn your friend!

The never-ending drama continues with Update 4!

Betrayed by a close friend’s girlfriend, lost a brotherly bond.

NTA – Love knows no bounds!

Misunderstood invite leads to hilarious screenshot exchange and unexpected consequences

NTA: Insecure girlfriend causing drama, talk to your friend ASAP!

NTA. Set boundaries and communicate openly to avoid toxicity.

Expose the DMs and let W deal with the fallout. NTA

NTA – Stand your ground and be careful with this situation

Jealous girlfriend targets friend for being closer to boyfriend. NTA.

NTA, boy should run from jealous, controlling, manipulating girlfriend

NTA. Possessive vibes from ‘know your role’ comment. Serious chat needed.

Not the a**hole, but what’s the backstory?

Mysterious update? What could it be?

NTA, close friendship with opposite sex causing jealousy in relationship

NTA. Girlfriend’s behavior is unacceptable. W deserves to know.

NTA. Show the message to W and address the gf issue

NTA. Controlling girlfriend tries to isolate friend group. Huge red flag.

NTA. Expose her manipulation and protect your friend.

Setting boundaries and demanding respect in a toxic relationship.

Friend’s girlfriend has trust issues. NTA for setting boundaries.

NTA: OP’s best friend’s girlfriend is unnecessarily aggressive and insecure

NTA. Have an open conversation with your friend about boundaries.

Not the a**hole. Tell us more about this juicy drama!

Dodging a bullet! NTA for leaving the ball in his court

Stand your ground and let W handle the situation.

NTA op. Show W screenshots to expose S’s true colors!

NTA: Communicate with your friend about his girlfriend’s jealousy

NTA: Girlfriend’s superiority complex is causing tension. Unacceptable behavior.

GF’s insecurity and jealousy issues: red flags and intimidation tactics.

NTA’s jealous girlfriend demands no contact. Talk to W.

Engaging response to jealousy in friendships, promoting understanding

NTA. Controlling and predatory behavior from his girlfriend. Warn him!

NTA. W’s insecurity may ruin her relationship with S. Let it play out.

NTA, but warn your friend about his insecure girlfriend

Expose the truth! Your friend deserves to know the betrayal.

NTA exposes girlfriend’s unhinged behavior, secure in relationships

NTA. Stand up for yourself and end the drama!

Stand your ground! Don’t let her control your friendship.

Is your friend’s girlfriend jealous of your friendship?

Expose the truth: NTA, show him those messages!

NTA. Girlfriend causing drama after only 2 months? Red flag!

NTA: Best friend’s girlfriend is controlling and disrespectful. Show him!

A harmless hug sparks jealousy. NTA, tell your friend!

“Show your friend the messages and let him decide.” NTA

NTA. Girlfriend trying to control friend’s life after only 2 months

NTA. W deserves to know about his gf’s behavior

NTA, but spill the tea to your friend ASAP!

NTA. Insecure girlfriend causing drama. Talk to W about it.

NTA. Show the texts to W, he deserves to know

Insecure girlfriend causing drama? Share messages, let friend handle it!

Friend’s husband crosses boundaries, red flag! You’re NTA

NTA: New girl’s insecurities caused unnecessary drama. She should’ve backed off.

“NTA. It’s your friendship, not her business. She crossed boundaries.”

NTA – OP did right by telling W.

“NTA. Can’t wait for the update! “

NTA for being a great friend despite girlfriend’s jealousy