Man Ranks His Girlfriend vs. Brother’s GF: Who Deserves the Family Ring?

Imagine finding out that your high school sweetheart cheated on you with your own brother! That’s what happened to our protagonist, who emotionally disowned his brother and moved on with his life. Years later, he found love with Tasha (29f), and their relationship has been going strong. When he decided to propose to Tasha, he asked his mom for her grandmother’s ring, but his brother’s girlfriend, Kelly, objected. This led him to create a list comparing Tasha and Kelly, sparking a family feud.

The High School Heartbreak

Family Ties Severed

Reconciliation and New Love❤️

Opposites Attract

The Perfect Balance⚖️

A Ring Request

Kelly’s Objection

First Come, First Served

Kelly’s List of Reasons

Fighting Back with a List✍️

Kelly’s Reaction

Clarification on the List

Brother’s Stance

Ring Drama Ignites Family Feud

When our protagonist asked for his mom’s grandmother’s ring to propose to his girlfriend Tasha, he didn’t expect his brother’s girlfriend, Kelly, to object. Kelly, who cheated on him with his brother in high school, claimed she deserved the ring and even listed reasons why Tasha wasn’t a good fit. In retaliation, he made a list of reasons why Tasha was better than Kelly and sent it to her privately. Now, Kelly’s friends and family are berating him, and he’s left wondering if he’s in the wrong. ✍️ Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…

NTA gets support for calling ex an entitled a**hole

NTA. Commenter sees Kelly as jealous and petty. Replies agree.

OP defended his decision to propose to his girlfriend with family ring. Commenters agree that Kelly, his brother’s girlfriend, is bitter because she made poor choices and is not seen as part of the family.

NTA commenter points out Kelly’s distorted view of ‘family’

NTA, but both women are TA for cheating. Kelly is entitled

NTA. Ex assumes she’ll always be family. Ring isn’t for that.

Engaged and petty, but NTA. Congrats on finding happiness!

Commenter sympathizes with OP and disapproves of cheaters.

Commenter thinks Mike and Kelly got off too lightly.

A blunt reply sparks agreement in controversial relationship ranking.

Commenter calls out OP’s petty behavior towards ex-girlfriend.

“Family ring isn’t a prize for whoever f*cks most family members.”

Commenter calls out immaturity, defends boyfriend’s privacy.

Petty but satisfying: Commenter suggests sending a gift to remind them.

NTA – Short and sweet agreement with no drama.

Commenter thinks OP is not the a**hole in this situation.

Commenter calls out couple as evil, hopes for karma. NTA!

The missing list adds to the mystery

ESH judgment debated, but consensus on Kelly being the a**hole.

NTA defends his decision to marry Tasha despite girlfriend’s objections

Commenter finds OP’s actions amusing due to disliked individuals involved

Let it go: advice on dealing with hurtful opinions

Commenter warns about potential consequences of brother’s girlfriend’s infidelity

Commenter justifies OP’s petty but funny revenge on girlfriend.

Commenter supports OP but finds his list-making excessive.

NTA comment shuts down cheating-ex and brother’s entitlement

Kelly’s behavior criticized, accused of being self-centered.

Supportive comment hopes OP gets family ring over brother’s GF

Claim the family ring, NTA. Engagements fall through all the time.

Commenter congratulates OP and calls out GF’s behavior.

NTA comment suggests proposing soon to keep surprise from family

NTA commenter advises distancing from brother’s awful wife.

Commenter calls out immature behavior and emotional instability.

Commenter calls out OP for immature behavior and escalation. ‍♂️

Commenter defends OP’s judgement of girlfriend, family tolerates her.

NTA defends family ring, hopes for long happy marriage

Commenter calls out OP’s pettiness and disrespect towards current partner.

NTA shuts down girlfriend’s ring obsession

Commenter defends OP’s response to family member’s insults.

NTA. Commenter supports OP and advises to block Kelly’s family/friends.

Commenter agrees with OP and calls out Kelly’s entitlement

Commenter calls out OP for being TA and suggests a better response.

Redditor calls out OP for being a justified a**hole.

Commenter supports OP’s decision and throws shade at brother’s girlfriend

Opposites attract and make a great couple

Kelly’s dedication to keeping it in the family is concerning

Curious Redditors want to see the girlfriend ranking list!

Commenter justifies OP’s actions and shares their own petty thoughts.

Wedding invite drama with potential family ring recipient and guests

NTA hilariously shuts down brother’s GF with mic drop

ESH. Commenter raises valid points on the situation’s impact on Tasha.

Engagement ring drama – ESH and a cautionary tale

Avoiding family drama: a wise move

Curiosity piqued: What’s on the list?

Curiosity piqued: Redditors want to see the ranking list

Commenter thinks OP is not the a**hole in the situation.

NTA: Commenter supports OP’s decision to propose to girlfriend despite drama.

Defending girlfriend makes OP NTA, ignore Kelly’s interference

Commenter questions OP’s actions and leans towards ESH judgement.

Justified pettiness ‍♀️ NTA. Hope Tasha says yes

Drama alert! Commenter accuses OP of hooking up with BF’s brother

Protect the family ring from the grasping little minx

Petty drama, but can’t help but love the satisfying ending