Picture this: You’re hanging out with a friend, enjoying a casual game of Mario Kart. Suddenly, your friend’s child announces he’s done with his bathroom business and needs help wiping. Your friend, instead of rising to the occasion, turns to you and asks if you could do the honors. What would you do? This is the exact predicament our ‘Unwilling Wiper’ found herself in. Let’s dive into this drama-filled encounter.
A Casual Hangout Takes a Turn
Jacob’s Call of Nature
The Unexpected Request
The Unwilling Wiper’s Response ♀️
The Aftermath
The Blame Game Begins
The Early Exit
A Twist in the Tale
The Unwilling Wiper Reflects
A Glimpse into Jacob’s Life
A Sexist Past?
The Wipe Debate: A Messy Conundrum ♀️
In a series of events that could only be described as ‘crappy’, our ‘Unwilling Wiper’ found herself at the center of a heated debate. Her friend’s request to clean up his son after a bathroom break led to an explosive fallout. The friend, already grappling with job loss and depression, felt betrayed by her refusal. Meanwhile, our heroine stood her ground, asserting that she’s ‘not his wife’ and thus, not obliged to clean up his son. The incident has left her pondering over the boundaries of friendship and the responsibilities that come with it. Let’s see how the internet has reacted to this messy situation.
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Gender bias in parenting responsibilities sparks heated debate. NTA obviously
“NTA. But your friend is. He had no right to even ask that from you. And how would the child feel with a ‘stranger’ coming in and wiping their butt.”
NTA. It’s not your responsibility to wipe a butthole in training
NTA. Teach the kid to wipe, don’t be an entitled asshat
NTA. Parent expects others to wipe kid’s butt? ♂️
NTA! Gender roles, blame game, and major AHs
Hilarious comment and relatable replies about wiping a child’s anus
“NTA. Not even close.” You’re absolutely right about the sexism and enabling.
NTA. Let kids learn independence.
Parents should handle their kid’s hygiene, not the school. ♂️
NTA. Sexist bullshit! Everyone should wipe their own child’s behind.
Parent refuses to clean child, sparks outrage among commenters
NTA, it’s his responsibility. Lazy parents? Kids struggle with cleanliness.
“Oh, *hell* no. Not your child, not your problem, daddy needed to step TF up. Nobody cares if daddy got “shit on his shirt” … and it wasn’t because of *you*. NTA”
NTA. Parenting your own child > being a friend.
You’re NTA here, his responsibility. Wife’s an a**hole too.
Dad expects OP to wipe kid’s a** in front of him?
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A ridiculous suggestion leads to a hilariously weird accusation
NTA: Friend needs practice wiping or teach kid independence ♂️
NTA! Lazy, entitled, and sexist – this guy needs help!
NTA. Kid’s bathroom habits causing controversy at school.
“Karma Sucks but Necessary” – When Sh*t Hits the Fan
NTA. Independence is key! Kids need to learn self-care skills
NTA, hilarious encounter with a clueless ‘friend’
NTA – Teach the kid to clean themselves!
NTA: No responsibility for cleaning up someone else’s child’s mess
NTA: Parents should share the responsibility of cleaning their child’s butt
NTA. Kid should know how to wipe at 5/6.
NTA: Friend’s AH wife berates you for not babysitting. Stand your ground!
NTA! ♂️ You’re not obligated to help a kid wipe their a**.
You’re not a mind reader. Helping a depressed friend?
NTA – Taking care of your own child’s poop is your responsibility
NTA. Don’t clean someone else’s kid’s butt. Not your problem
Parents should teach kids to wipe, not do it for them
Parents debate wiping their son, teachers won’t. NTA.
NTA: Parenting debate ignites! Should someone else wipe your kid’s ass?
NTA: Vagina ≠ Childcare. Glad he left! Drop the husband-wife dynamic.
Kid should clean himself. Original post, refreshing change of pace!
NTA. Jacob needs to talk to his wife about this
Some people just can’t handle a long visit. NTA!
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Supportive commenter defends friend against judgmental spouse during difficult time. ✊
Standing up for yourself in a sticky situation
NTA. Dad should handle his own kid. Kid should wipe himself
Poor kid, NTA. Poop shame is no joke.
No excuse for wiping kid’s anus if dad is present. NTA
NTA. Not your kid, not your problem!
Parents expecting others to watch their kids?
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NTA. Parenting duties can’t be delegated to unrelated child-free person.
Parent celebrates child’s independence in bathroom, sparks debate.
A surprising request for butt wiping assistance sparks confusion and humor
Parents wiping their 5-year-old’s butt? That’s just… weird.
Is your friend a misogynist? Let’s discuss!
Gender roles and boundaries: When friends cross the line ♀️
Entitled friend expects OP to clean up after his kid NTA
Expecting a stranger to wipe a kid’s butt: Unsettling levels
What on earth?! Absolutely NTA.
Don’t be friends with this guy! Horrible parenting
Shit on him, but he’s not the a**hole. NTA
NTA: Friend asks for help wiping kid’s butt
Parent’s humorous comment about wiping their own kids’ butts
Toilet training troubles and poop-phobic nisogyny
