Babysitter’s Dilemma: Should She Tell Mom About Dad’s Secret Visit?

Imagine being a babysitter for the first time for a sweet 11-year-old boy, only to find yourself caught in the middle of a messy divorce drama. That’s exactly what happened to one young woman, who now faces a moral dilemma: should she tell the mom that her soon-to-be-ex-husband made a secret visit while she was gone? ‍♀️ Read on to find out what happened and decide for yourself.

First Night Babysitting

Divorce News

Unexpected Footsteps

Dad’s Surprise Appearance

Secrets and Warnings

Divorce Drama

Caught in the Middle

To Tell or Not to Tell? ‍♀️

Fear of Consequences

Decision Time ⏰

Update: Texting the Mom

Gratitude and Relief

Doing the Right Thing ✅

Caught in a Divorce Crossfire: Babysitter’s Choice

After much thought and consideration, our brave babysitter decided to inform the mom about her husband’s secret visit. The mom appreciated the honesty and thanked her for letting her know. While it’s never easy to be caught in the middle of someone else’s drama, it’s important to stand up for what’s right. Now, let’s dive into some of the top reactions from the internet to this intense situation…

Safeguard the child and tell the mom everything

Tell the mom everything, she deserves to know.

Babysitter’s responsibility to inform mother about dad’s secret visit

Babysitter suspects dad’s secret visit, should she tell mom? NTA.

Sneaky dad’s visit raises concerns, ask for clarification tactfully

Babysitter caught dad secretly watching mom. NTA to tell mom.

Protecting the family is top priority . NTA should speak up.

Dad’s secret visit raises red flags. NTA for telling mom.

Crime show fan urges babysitter to tell mom about dad’s visit

Babysitter urged to inform mom about dad’s suspicious secret visit. NTA.

Babysitter asserts her rights and tells mom about dad’s secret visit

Babysitter is right to err on the side of caution

Child caught in messy divorce, babysitter handles it like pro

Babysitter’s responsibility: Should she tell mom about dad’s visit?

Nanny defends babysitter’s right to tell mom about dad’s visit

Babysitter overhears dad’s secret visit, NTA for telling mom

Babysitter caught dad’s secret visit, seeks advice on how to proceed.

Speak up and protect the child , but distance yourself from danger .

Always communicate with parents if someone unexpected turns up

Babysitter’s dilemma: should she tell mom about dad’s secret visit?

Babysitter debates telling mom about dad’s visit

Babysitter caught dad’s secret visit. YWNBTA for telling mom

Babysitter takes action and exposes dad’s shady behavior

Don’t keep secrets for adults, it’s abusive behavior

Babysitter discovers dad’s secret visit, seeks advice on telling mom.

Babysitter debates telling mom about dad’s secret visit

Commenter advises to stay out of messy situation.

Babysitter tells mom about dad’s secret visit. NTA wins

Red flag alert! When secrets are involved, be cautious

Protecting the kids should be top priority.

Supportive commenter applauds babysitter for speaking up

Protect the child, tell the mom!

Babysitter not at fault for reporting dad’s secret visit

Babysitter seeks advice, promises update on dad’s secret visit.

Mom wants to know! NTA comment sparks agreement.

Curiosity sparks suspicion in NTA’s comment.

You did the right thing!

Suggests a sneaky approach to bring up dad, NTAs

Babysitter worried about dad’s secret visit. NTA to tell?

Honesty is the best policy, even when it involves secrets

Babysitter suggests watching kid at her house due to dad’s behavior

Babysitter witnesses dad’s secret visit, advises to tell mom ASAP

Be honest with the mom and stay safe!

Honesty is the best policy . NTA should tell mom.

Breaking the silence: the dangers of keeping secrets from children

Protecting the child comes first. NTA, tell the mother immediately!

Babysitter feels uncomfortable after dad’s secret visit. NTA advises reporting.

Commenter praises OP for standing up against manipulative dad.

Honesty is the best policy when babysitting.

Supportive commenter hopes for update on babysitter’s dilemma.

Speaking up against secrecy and abuse language. #NTA

Babysitter exposes dad’s secret visit. His excuse? Medicine.

Supportive comment receives no replies.

Safety first! NTA advises to tell mom about dad’s visit

Babysitter praised for handling a delicate situation with grace

NTA, good job telling the mom. Safety first

Always trust your instincts and prioritize child safety.

NTA babysitter discovers dad’s secret visit, raises safety concerns

Curiosity strikes! What did the dad do?

Consider telling a trusted friend for support

Babysitter and mom both at fault, locks need changing ASAP

Babysitter debates telling mom about dad’s secret visit. NTA.

NTA commenter highlights potential harm to child, advocates for custody change

Ex shares chilling story of secret visit, babysitter NTA for telling

Curiosity piqued: What was dad doing there? NTA.

Honest communication is key in co-parenting. Good job!

Honesty is the best policy . NTA did the right thing.

Divorce trauma: NTA, tell the mom ASAP

Standing up for the child: a**hole dad gets called out

Babysitter should tell mom about dad’s abusive behavior

Trust your instincts, the mom needs to know