Imagine being the oldest of five siblings, constantly picking up the slack for a mom who’s far from perfect. Now, picture your life finally gaining some normalcy, only to have it ripped away by a shocking pregnancy announcement. That’s the situation our 18-year-old protagonist finds himself in, and his explosive reaction has us all questioning who’s really in the wrong here.
A Chaotic Family Life

Mom’s Struggles

Manic Episodes

The Cycle of Motherhood

Stepping Up as the Oldest Sibling

A Glimpse of Normalcy ️

New Beginnings

The Shocking Announcement

Anger Unleashed

A Selfish Decision?

Sacrificing His Future

Back to Square One

Tears and Accusations

Ruminating on His Reaction

Was His Reaction Justified?
Our teen protagonist has spent his life picking up the pieces of his mom’s chaotic behavior, sacrificing his own happiness in the process. Now, faced with the prospect of another sibling and the responsibility that comes with it, he can’t help but lash out in anger and frustration. Did he overreact, or is his anger justified? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this emotional rollercoaster.
Teen struggles with mom’s pregnancy announcement, advised to prioritize education

Encouraging comment to prioritize education and call CPS if necessary. ✅

Encouraging comment to a teen to escape toxic family situation

Encouraging comment to not give up on university and consider CPS

Choose your own path, don’t become a parental figure. ♂️

Encouraging advice for a UK teen dealing with family issues ✌

Encouraging comment to leave toxic situation and report neglect

Support for OP’s decision to not forgive neglectful mother.

Tough love advice for a struggling teen caregiver

Encouraging comment to move out and report neglect with CPS

NTA commenter advocates for child welfare in explosive family situation
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Focus on your future, not your mom’s baby. NTA

Don’t sacrifice your future for your mother’s toxic behavior

NTA. Commenter calls out mother’s incompetence and neglectful parenting.
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NTA for having valid feelings about mom’s pregnancy, options discussed.

Empathetic advice to a struggling teen.

Serious accusation of neglect and abuse towards mother.

Focus on uni, not sibling. Apologize, but set boundaries.

Choosing self-care over abusive family dynamics

Be supportive but prioritize your independence and well-being

Encouraging comment to seek help and education for bipolar disorder.

A plea for independence amidst a surprise pregnancy announcement

Prioritizing your mental health is important. NTA.

Clear and concise response to mom’s pregnancy announcement. #NTA

Don’t feel guilty, it’s not your responsibility. Live your life

Encouraging comment advises leaving toxic situation for better mental health

Concerned commenter suggests calling CPS due to mother’s behavior.

Encouraging reply to a difficult situation with practical advice

Supporting a child of an addict, seek therapy

Teen struggles with leaving newborn sibling, advised to contact CPS. NTA.

Compassionate comment advises to leave toxic situation and help kids ❤
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Mother supports teen’s reaction to pregnancy announcement. NTA

Encouraging comment urges OP to prioritize education for future custody.

Encouragement to move out and prioritize self-care.

Encouraging response to a tough situation.

Encouragement to go to a faraway university

NTA suggests calling CPS on abusive mother.

Sibling feels responsible for newborn but needs to prioritize own life. NTA
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Encouraging reply to a stressed teen, advising to prioritize self-care

Surviving a big family: move out and be independent

Clear and concise NTA comment with emphasis and humor

Encouraging comment to prioritize self-care and protect siblings. ❤

Choosing between siblings and university, NTA seeks advice and resources.

Encouraging reply to a teen’s pregnancy announcement dilemma

NTA suggests legal action to protect siblings from neglectful mother.
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Encouragement to prioritize own life and report mother’s behavior

Oldest sibling offers advice and support to overwhelmed OP

Serious concern for children’s welfare, where are the fathers?

Encouraging comment urges teen to prioritize education and self-care

Encouraging comment for a teen dealing with family issues

Concerned comment suggests calling CPS on overbearing mother.
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Encouraging success while setting boundaries with family

NTA. Parentification is abuse, your reaction was understandable

Urgent call for action to protect neglected children

Encouraging response to a difficult family situation

Encouraging independence and questioning motives.

NTA. Call CPS and seek support from other family members.
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Encouraging response to a difficult family situation.
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Engaging NGOs and extended family can help with custody issues.
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Choosing to take on the burden of a parent. NTA

NTA. Suggests intervention and threat to remove kids from mom’s custody.

Advice for a young adult with a neglectful mother.

Encouraging comment suggests taking legal action if necessary

Empowering response to toxic parenting. Live your life!

Encouraging response to a tough family situation.

Recovering addict shares how CPS intervention helped her turn her life around

Encouraging response to a neglected teen’s situation

Encouraging reply to a teen’s dilemma about going to UNI

Encouraging response to a difficult family situation. ❤

Encouraging comment to leave toxic situation and report mother to CPS
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Teen rightfully upset about being burdened with mom’s pregnancy. NTA
