Imagine being in a relationship for just 8 months, and your partner asks you to donate part of your liver to them. That’s exactly what happened to a woman whose boyfriend has a history of binge drinking and liver issues. While he’s been sober for years, his health problems persist, and he recently found out he might need a liver transplant. But when he asked his girlfriend to consider donating, her response left him fuming.
Boyfriend’s Health Issues
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More Health Problems
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The Unexpected Request
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Relationship Status ♀️
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His Reaction
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My Sacrifice Limits
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Proposal Joke?
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Liver Transplant Not a Big Deal?
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His Claim ️
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Angry Exit
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To Donate or Not to Donate? ♀️
After learning he might need a liver transplant, a woman’s boyfriend jokingly (but with a hint of hope) asked her to consider donating part of her liver to him. She was shocked and refused, explaining that she would only make such a personal sacrifice for a parent, sibling, or spouse. He tried to brush it off as a joke, but she felt he was serious. He even joked about proposing to get her liver, but she shut that down too. This led to a heated argument, with him storming out in anger. Was she wrong for being honest about not wanting to donate her liver? Let’s see what the internet has to say about this situation…
NTA. Commenter advises girlfriend to run from irresponsible boyfriend.

Your liver, your rules! NTA and no one’s entitled to it!

Donating organs is a selfless act, not an obligation.

Donating liver is a major deal, and it’s your choice. NTA

Liver donation is a major surgery and a personal choice.

Boyfriend not the a**hole for wanting donation, but pressuring is wrong

Liver donation debate sparks NTA response in comment section.

Partner of 8 months demands organ donation? NTA, run!

Red flag! Boyfriend’s anger issues and manipulation tactics exposed.

Setting boundaries in relationships is important for both parties

Relationship advice: 8 months not enough to know ‘the one’

User questions man’s request for organ donation from girlfriend

Donating liver is not minor, NTA for not risking it.

NTA- Red flags everywhere. Don’t risk your life for him

Surgeon warns of the risks of a subtotal hepatectomy surgery.

NTA. Guilt-tripping after 8 months and poor health management.

Donating a liver is serious surgery. NTA for refusing.

NTA, beware of red flags and manipulation tactics in relationship.

Curious about the timeline of events leading to AITA?

NTA with a sarcastic take on the boyfriend’s lifestyle choices

Don’t pressure loved ones into organ donation. NTA.

Refusing to donate liver to boyfriend, but insensitive about it

Don’t date someone who demands livers

NTA. New relationship, big ask, and not taking care of himself.

Liver donation is a big deal, not to be taken lightly
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Reconsider the relationship if you’re unsure.

Boyfriend’s health crisis puts girlfriend in tough spot. NTA.

NTA, your body your choice. Delicate approach could have been better

Boyfriend with medical history wants girlfriend’s liver. NTA.

Living liver donation is serious. Hope he cleans up act
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Donating liver to spouse? NTA says commenter, sparking debate.

Donating organs is a personal decision. NTA for refusing.

No a-hole here, but partial transplant not possible for adult male.

Donating an organ is risky and reduces lifespan. NTA.

Donating organs is a personal decision, NTA.

Don’t owe him your organs or a future. NTA.

NTA. Men say women are clingy. Will he dump her?

NTA – Your body, your choice! Keep your liver, dump the bf!

Boyfriend’s odd question about liver donation backfires. NTA wins.

NTA commenter suggests rethinking relationship with dishonest and immature boyfriend.

Girlfriend refuses to donate liver, calls out boyfriend’s manipulation. NTA

Concerned commenter urges OP to seek help for red flags

Choose radiance over draining relationships

Donating an organ for someone you’re not serious with? NTA.
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People often promise to donate but rarely follow through. ♂️

Giving an organ requires no strings attached, even for acquaintances

Standing up for oneself, NTA in liver donation drama.

NTA. Sounds like he’s not worth the liver donation ♀️

Red flags in a relationship. NTA.

NTA: Don’t give him a part of your liver after 8 months!

A lighthearted request for a kidney donation turns awkward.

Donating a liver is a big deal. NTA for refusing.

NTA. Red flags and gaslighting. Run away from this situation.

Body autonomy reigns, even for boyfriends. ♀️
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Honesty is key. Don’t ask for too much too soon

NTA, prioritize your own well-being and reconsider the relationship

NTA. Keep the liver, lose the boyfriend. Run.

Being guilt-tripped into organ donation is a huge red flag

New relationship + potential health complications = NTA for not donating

Girlfriend questioned for considering donating liver to alcoholic boyfriend

Dump him! Poor hygiene and tantrums are red flags

Don’t be an organ farm! NTA comment ends relationship.

Body autonomy is important. Donating organs should be voluntary. ♀️

Red flag in relationship, NTA, and run!

Don’t let anyone pressure you into organ donation. #NTA

Liver transplant from cadaver is common, NTA for refusing

Donating a liver is brutal and not obligatory. NTA.

Dating deal-breaker: refusing to donate a liver? NTA wins.
