Prom night: a time of glamour, excitement, and unforgettable memories. But what happens when it turns into a web of deception, awkwardness, and moral dilemmas? Meet our 18-year-old protagonist, caught in a whirlwind of high school drama that’s more complicated than an algebra equation. Let’s dive into his story…
The Players in the Drama

Unreciprocated Feelings

The Prom Predicament

The Date Dilemma

The Dance Deception

Uncomfortable Revelations

The Web of Lies

Parents’ Perspectives

The Accusation

The Dilemma: To Dance or Not to Dance?

Taking Action

Prom Night Alternatives

Prom Night: A Dance of Deception or a Rite of Passage?
Caught in a whirlwind of high school drama, our 18-year-old protagonist is facing a prom night dilemma that’s more confusing than a Shakespearean play. With a friend who has unreciprocated feelings, a prom date who can’t attend due to new rules, and a dance deception that’s left him feeling uncomfortable, he’s left wondering – should he dance or not? Let’s see what the world thinks of this situation…
NTA. Worst prom ever! No dancing, manipulated into uncomfortable situation

NTA, skip prom for actual fun. Talk to B sincerely.
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NTA. Stand up to the stalker and have a romantic night

Resisting the dance: Privacy violation at prom – NTA

Stupid prom rules and creepy classmates make for a wild night

Skipping prom for quality time with K

NTA: Rejecting a prom date dilemma, how to handle it?

NTA. Prom drama and deception leads to a ruined night

Choose your own social adventure: NTA for skipping prom!

NTA. B’s manipulative behavior calls for a replacement dance partner.

Navigating teenage love: Miscommunication, heartbreak, and lingering hope

NTA. Prom: overhyped, anxiety-inducing, and full of manipulation. Just say no

Outrage over unfair prom decision. No way, that’s not right!

NTA, but beware of emotional manipulation and stalking

NTA: Deceptive relationships are creepy and make you a bad person

Honesty is key. Don’t let someone else ruin your prom

NTA, prom drama and Covid modifications. Unwanted advances, talk it out

Avoiding a Creepy Dance Partner: NTA, you’re in the clear

“NTA This is a lot of manipulation going on. Is B okay? I mean, does she have attachment issues? Men get mad at women all the time for ‘leading them on,’ when a girl just happens to look in their direction. Just because a woman smiles at you doesn’t mean she wants you to propose marriage. But this is almost the reverse of that. This situation feels like a weirdly switched version. If you two happen to go to prom together and then do the slow-dance together, it’ll turn into a thing where you led *her* on, even though you didn’t mean to do that at all. It’s like she’s trying to spot check all these romantic plot-devices so that you’ll suddenly realize that B was the girl you loved all along. Going to prom? CHECK! It’s a huge deal for a lot of people, and being ‘assigned’ a partner doesn’t necessarily take away from the seriousness of it. Dancing a romantic slow dance? CHECK! Aren’t dance secquences a plot device in pretty much every Jane Austen novel? And other novels? You are close, you move around each other, you stare into each other’s eyes. If she forces all of these romantic scenes on you, you will *have* to start to like her. And then it will be worse than before. It’s not your place to protect her from getting your heart broken when the person she is chasing after is not interested. She is trying to shoot her shot in the weirdest way possible, by manipulating the situation in her favor. Also, You like someone else. B likely knows this, and is not respecting your relationship.”
“I want to be kind to her but you’re absolutely right. It does seem like she’s trying to do a sitcom or movie tropes thing. Issue is I’ve already rejected her multiple times”
“She’ll also have pictures to back up her fantasy. OP needs to stay TF away if he doesn’t want to be plastered over social media as her ‘date’. B needs help, and not from OP.”
A pointless prom? Find out why this commenter thinks so!

OP should seek help from a school counselor or administrator

NTA. Prom isn’t a requirement. Take her on a romantic date

Reject her firmly and set boundaries to avoid further drama

Standing up for yourself and saying no!
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Assigned dance partners? Not okay! Let’s talk to the school

Dad wants you to go to prom with someone you dislike?

NTA, be honest with B about your feelings to avoid drama

Avoid the drama and hang out with your friend instead!

“NTA. Prom drama and dangerous behavior. Seek help from authorities. “
