In a world where love knows no bounds, one unconventional family found themselves in a whirlwind of drama and conflict. Meet our leading trio – ‘Adam’, ‘Ben’, and our unnamed protagonist, who share not only a surname but also two adorable kids. They’ve been together for seven years, and despite not being able to legally marry, they’ve decided to celebrate their love with a commitment ceremony. But when they shared their plans with their family, things took a dramatic turn.
The Unconventional Trio
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A Change of Heart ❤️
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A Surprise Venue Booking!
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Sister’s Skepticism
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Breaking the News
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A Shocking Proposal!
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Standing Their Ground
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The Engagement Debate
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A Heartfelt Moment
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Sister’s Dismissive Comment
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Parents’ Unsupportive Stance
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Uninviting the Unsupportive
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Family’s Pleas Ignored
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A Family Torn Apart by Love and Commitment
In a shocking turn of events, our protagonist’s decision to uninvite their family from their commitment ceremony has led to an all-out family feud. The trio’s decision to celebrate their love was met with skepticism and outright dismissal, particularly from their sister, Zoe, who even asked them to give up their venue for her own wedding. Despite the pleas and angry messages, our protagonist stands firm in their decision, leaving us wondering – was this drastic measure justified, or a step too far? Let’s see how the internet weighs in on this emotionally charged situation…
“NTA, extend an olive branch but set clear boundaries. “

Audacity of family, consequences for actions. NTA.

“How dare you uninvite them from your ceremony after they tried to invalidate your life choices? The audacity! (Sarcasm). In all seriousness, they don’t get to try to strongarm you into giving over your venue, trash talk the way you live your life, and expect that you’d be completely okay with entertaining them on what is supposed to be one of the most special days of your life. NTA” – Engaging and unapologetic response to family drama!
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NTA. Entitled families can’t dictate who deserves a venue.
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NTA. Stand your ground and don’t let them ruin your day!

NTA. Non-traditional relationships face scrutiny and CPS visits.

NTA, but watch out for sneaky wedding hijinks!

NTA. Don’t let them belittle your commitment ceremony!

Celebrate your love, exclude toxic family. Sister’s entitled behavior sucks!

“NTA! They’re disrespecting your relationship and your special day. “

NTA. Stand your ground and celebrate your commitment ceremony!

Reconsidering invites and venues? Uninviting was a kick in the a**!

NTA shuts down entitled couple’s request to hijack their venue!
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Personal freedom vs family acceptance in a poly relationship

NTA. Venue drama ignites family feud!

Venue drama turns into desperate plea for an invitation!

Parenting is a daily commitment, not a status symbol! ❤️

NTA, your family disrespected your relationship and commitment. Uninvite them!

NTA. Celebrate your love and ignore outdated opinions!

Protect your special day from entitled family members

Supportive comment: Choose those who love and respect you!

Sibling rivalry over party venue. NTA wins!

Engaging comment about a previous commitment ceremony and well wishes.

Sibling rivalry sparks drama over wedding venue.

Supportive comment defends relationship against devaluing family members.

NTA – Family tries to diminish your commitment ceremony. Stand firm!

Don’t let them guilt you into putting up with their bullshit.

Commitment ceremony is important to OP, family being judgmental. NTA!

Sister’s venue drama! NTA, but reconsider inviting them?

Stand up for your love and don’t let tradition divide!

NTA: Respect the ceremony or face long term blowback!

NTA stands up to bigoted parents and sister!

NTA: Family feud erupts over love triangle’s commitment ceremony!

NTA wonders why people want to attend meaningless events.

Supportive comment: Stand up for your happiness and well-being!

Lovely commitment ceremony plans! Hope it’s everything you hope for!

NTA calls out dickbags and suggests courthouse wedding for Zoe!

Wedding drama! NTA stands up to rude family members.

Uninvited from a commitment ceremony? Not a big deal, right?

NTA! Family feud over commitment ceremony. Love wins!

Family feud erupts over commitment ceremony venue. NTA, but hurtful.

NTA: Why invite them if they think your ceremony is worthless?
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NTA. Family should support your relationships. Don’t let them ruin it!

Protect your special day from venue thieves with a password!

Absolutely NTA. The cheeky comment that started a family feud!

Stand your ground! Celebrate love without toxic family members.

NTA: Family feud erupts over commitment ceremony, venue dispute sparks

Supportive comment from a poly person, offering a listening ear

Reconciliation without inviting disrespectful family to your commitment ceremony

OP’s family wants venue, OP uninvites them from ‘wedding’

Sister’s wedding venue hunt needs improvement!

Poly love triangle faces family feud, but OP stands strong!

Planning a wedding and a legit future is engaged.

“NTA – Demanding a venue was ridiculous, but invite them to see your commitment.”

You deserve love and support! Enjoy your special day!

Validating poly relationships and condemning family’s ignorant behavior.

Family feud erupts over commitment ceremony vs. wedding invitation confusion!

NTA! Disrespectful family wants venue for themselves? Outrageous!

NTA. Spotting favorites? Love triangle sparks family feud!
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NTA feels disrespected in a love triangle
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NTA warns against giving her the venue!

NTA. Your commitment ceremony is a celebration of love

OP’s family is supportive, but parents and sister are bigoted. NTA

Decide if they deserve a chance at your commitment ceremony!

Celebrate your commitment without judgmental family. You deserve happiness!

Supportive comment defends poly relationships and criticizes family’s judgment.

NTA: Family feud over venue, stand your ground and protect yourself!

NTA. Celebrate your love, forget the haters.

Congrats on your commitment ceremony! Screw those who don’t support!

NTA. Stand your ground and celebrate your love!

Celebrate however you want, people love free food and gathering!

Supportive comment for polyamorous person facing family disapproval.

Block toxic family, focus on partners and kids. Prune family tree

Secure your reservation! Protect it from meddling family members.

Supportive comment about throuple’s commitment ceremony

Celebrate your love, block the haters!

Supportive officiant celebrates love and calls out lack of understanding.

Polyamory challenges understanding, but love comes first. NTA

Zoe is causing drama in this love triangle!
