Imagine living with a life-threatening allergy, and the person you love can’t seem to give up the very thing that could harm you. That’s the reality for one woman who recently moved in with her peanut-loving boyfriend. Despite her severe allergy, he continues to indulge in his favorite peanut butter sandwiches, causing her throat to itch and lips to swell after kissing. Can she convince him to put her safety first, or is it too much to ask?
The Peanut Butter Boyfriend

Allergic Reactions

Previous Partners vs. Peanut Butter

Fear of Asking

The PB&J Confrontation

Utensils and Shared Spaces

The Uncomfortable Conversation ️

Anger and Yelling

Sweat and Itchiness

Unresolved Feelings

A Change of Heart ❤️

Promises Made

A Wake-Up Call

The Shocking Update

Will Love Conquer the Peanut Butter? ❤️
After numerous allergic reactions and a vacation where her boyfriend’s family made an effort to keep her safe, our protagonist finally confronted him about his peanut butter habits. The conversation turned heated, but eventually, he promised to keep peanuts out of his system when she’s around. However, a shocking update reveals that he had been cheating on her for the past six months. Now, she’s left to reassess her self-worth and boundaries. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this peanut butter love story gone wrong…
Break up with him now, he doesn’t take your allergy seriously

Boyfriends were cautious, but this guy valued PB over life

Trust issues arise in peanut allergy relationship ❌

Partner’s love for peanuts jeopardizes relationship. NTA.

Partner’s love for peanut butter may be a control act. NTA.

Partner prioritizes food over relationship. NTA, but communicate openly.

Partner’s lack of trustworthiness and allergy concerns raise red flags.

Partner disregards severe allergy, shows lack of care and empathy.
![Image credit: [deleted] | [deleted]](https://static.diply.com/e7fa59d2-7a57-495d-b763-c705058a6a20.png)
Partner won’t give up PB&J for allergic SO. NTA.

When love endangers life, is it worth staying?

Red flags in a relationship over peanut butter sandwiches.

Partner’s egg allergy: NTA. He loves her more than eggs ❤

Partner prioritizes peanuts over health, commenter is NTA. ♀️

Partner is manipulative and lacks respect, NTA for leaving.

Partner’s unwillingness to stop eating peanuts is a deal-breaker.

NTA’s partner’s nonchalant attitude towards life-threatening allergy is concerning.

Partner’s inconsiderate behavior towards allergy is a red flag

Labeling food and being cautious is key in relationships with allergies

Love shouldn’t be a choice between peanuts and safety ❤

NTA for prioritizing safety over PB&J love. Reconsider relationship?

Love triumphs over peanuts. NTA prioritizes husband’s safety

Partner’s disregard for health: NTAH, time to move on

Partner’s lack of hygiene is a dealbreaker. You deserve better.

Allergic woman suggests calling 911 on boyfriend for attempted murder

Love or PB&J? Allergic OP prioritized second. NTA confirmed.

Partner won’t give up peanuts, risking my life. NTA.

Love vs. PB&J: Can a couple survive clashing allergies?

Man ignores girlfriend’s peanut allergy for PB&J, pouts when stopped

Self-love is key, don’t tolerate near-death experiences for love.

Partner gave up garlic for me, dump him for not avoiding peanuts? ♀️

Risking your life for love? ESH in this peanut debacle.

Love or PB&J? Don’t let allergies ruin your relationship

Love shouldn’t come at the cost of your life.

Partner refuses to stop eating peanuts, scared to ask, leave him

Allergy can be serious, even in intimate moments ♂️

NTA. Boyfriend values peanuts over partner’s life. Leave relationship.

Boyfriend throws fit over allergy. Not relationship material.

Love is stubbornness, appreciation, and sacrifice.

Partner won’t give up peanut butter, consider moving on
![Image credit: [deleted] | [deleted]](https://static.diply.com/66402520-bdc2-4cd1-9038-fd627ad07c33.png)
Love or PB&J? A tough choice for some

Dump him! Your life is at risk, not worth it.

Living without peanuts for family is a small sacrifice.

Hygiene concerns lead to NTA judgement on relationship trustworthiness.

Love for peanuts vs love for partner with peanut allergy ❤️

Partner prioritizes snack over OP’s life; abusive behavior. NTA.

Respectful boyfriend takes shellfish allergy seriously

Put your health first and move on

Love should be stronger than a PB&J sandwich. ❤️

10 throat-swelling kisses and he doesn’t care? Dump him.

Partner prioritizes self over allergic safety, heed the red flag

Partner’s disregard for health is a red flag
![Image credit: [deleted] | [deleted]](https://static.diply.com/7a99d070-8f1e-4cff-bd50-ed59c3ab320e.png)
Standing up for your health and safety is important. #NTA

Love conquers all, even the love for dill pickles.

Partner’s disregard for peanut allergy? NTA, kick him out.

Dump him immediately. NTA

Break up with him ASAP! He’s risking your life.

Consideration for loved ones with allergies is important

Love can’t beat anaphylaxis. Carry an epi-pen, not peanuts.

Dump him! You deserve someone who cares about your safety. ❤️

Don’t ignore the red flags. NTA for setting boundaries, but YTA to yourself for staying.

Partner values peanut butter more than allergic girlfriend.

Dating someone with a severe peanut allergy? Take it seriously!

Partner prioritizes PB&J over safety, leave for own health

Partner risking my health for peanut butter: AITA for asking?

Allergy alert! Partner prioritizes PB&J over safety. NTA, run!

Dump him! Love should be stronger than a sandwich

Prioritizing likes over health concern? Girl, run! #NTA

Allergic husband leads to careful shrimp sneaking and peanut avoidance.

Spouse’s disregard for peanut allergy: leave or educate?

Believe people when they show you who they are.

Dump his a**. He values a sandwich more than your life.
![Image credit: [deleted] | [deleted]](https://static.diply.com/ac108011-afb7-4492-8adb-20dcc1fdecfe.png)
Crush’s peanut allergy kills the romance

Tragic peanut allergy incident highlights need for food transparency

A heartwarming story of a caring classmate. ❤

Consider therapy to understand why he endangers you repeatedly.
![Image credit: [deleted] | [deleted]](https://static.diply.com/da32af41-bdb6-40d9-ae23-3d2d0180140d.png)
Partner values sandwich over my safety? NTA for asking.

Find someone who cares about you more than a snack

Mom remembers allergy, boyfriend doesn’t. Break up. NTA

Love is blind, but 10 allergic reactions is a red flag

NTA for valuing your safety over a PB&J sandwich

Self-hating behavior: staying with a peanut lover who won’t change. ESH

Allergy vs. Love: Choosing PB&J over partner’s health?

Dating someone with a peanut allergy? Respect their needs

Partner unwilling to make small sacrifice for allergy. NTA.

Almond butter love triumphs over peanut butter in this relationship

Peanut butter obsession causes relationship trouble

Love vs. PB&J: Partner’s cavalier attitude could be deadly.
