Picture this: you’re happily married and living your best life, when suddenly your estranged homophobic sister and parents show up at your doorstep. They want you to take in your pregnant sister and pay for everything, without even a hint of an apology for their past behavior. What would you do? Read on to find out how one woman handled this unexpected and emotionally charged situation.
The Troubled Relationship
Parents Taking Sides
Cutting Ties ✂️
Uninvited Guests
The Unexpected Request
No Apologies
Standing Her Ground
Family vs. Family
The Confrontation
The Aftermath
The Bigger Person?
Parents’ Retirement Fund
Wife’s Suggestion
No Sympathy
Update and Baby Registry
A Heart-Wrenching Decision
In a whirlwind of emotions, our protagonist stands her ground, refusing to let her pregnant homophobic sister move in. Family members bombard her with messages, urging her to help and be the bigger person, but she remains firm in her decision. With her parents’ retirement fund on the line, will she reconsider and offer financial support? Her wife suggests they could give some money, but the question remains: is it worth it to help someone who has caused so much pain? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this heart-wrenching situation…
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NTA defends against pregnant homophobic sister’s hypocritical request for help.
NTA – Refusing to harm yourself to help others. The audacity
NTA with a big house, but no room for homophobic family
Don’t take her in unless they acknowledge their damage.
NTA. Parents taught hate, shouldn’t be rewarded. They need to pay.
Commenter defends OP and enjoys karma as hypocrite sister is pregnant and unmarried
Clear-cut case of not being the a**hole
NTA. Don’t help the pregnant, homophobic sister. Enjoy your life
NTA. Sister wants to use you for her own gain. Not your responsibility.
Don’t let creepy ghosts scratch at your door #NTA
Block their numbers and enjoy the peace and quiet.
Commenter advises standing up to family bullies and setting boundaries.
NTA stands up to toxic sister and parents, gets accused of being AH.
Don’t take her in, she will turn your home into a nightmare
Stand your ground and don’t give in to family pressure.
No apology, no change. Will OP forgive her homophobic sister?
Enjoy your big house and let karma do its job
Commenter dismisses homophobia, gets called out for privilege.
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Don’t sacrifice your mental health for toxic family relationships. NTA
You’re not obligated to support her homophobic behavior or child.
Choose your family wisely. NTA for not helping sister.
Stand your ground and prioritize your mental health. #NTA
Lesbian couple won’t let pregnant homophobic sister freeload. NTA.
NTA commenter stands up for self-care and boundaries
Generation X and beyond play the world’s tiniest violin NTA
No obligation to help. They only contacted you for favors.
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Believing the unbelievable
NTA, but OP could donate to a shelter to indirectly help.
Redditors call out fake post, award silver for effort
Taking in pregnant homophobic sister means chaos. NTA.
NTA: Family contract void. Toxic sister not good for family
Thriving is the best revenge
Sister’s pregnancy is not your responsibility. NTA
NTA, sister’s abusive behavior is not your responsibility.
Parents’ actions have consequences. NTA for standing up.
Taking responsibility for your actions
Block out the negativity, NTA!
NTA. Homophobic sister’s family has retirement fund but won’t apologize.
Savage suggestion for dealing with entitled sister and her victims
NTA shuts down entitled sister, weeds out fake supporters.
Protect your retirement fund and family, don’t enable homophobia. NTA
NTA. Savage response to unsupportive and homophobic family.
Supportive comment encourages OP to prioritize their own well-being ❤️
Grandchildren are a result of how you raised your children , not how you treat your sister
Parents learn tough love after funding homophobic daughter’s hate.
Sibling rivalry and pregnancy – NTA prevails
NTA- You owe nothing to your homophobic family
Don’t let your homophobic sister guilt you into financial support.
Cutting off toxic family members, NTA for not helping sister.
Toxic family dynamic, NTA suggests valuing mental health over parents’ approval.
No sympathy for abusive parents, protect yourself and move on. ❤️
NTA for standing up for yourself and your principles. Who will help the pregnant sister now?
Sweet person not at fault for homophobic sister’s pregnancy
OP not the a**hole for not taking in abusive sister. Family sucks.
NTA, sister’s homophobia not welcome. Responsibility for own choices.
You’re NTA for not wanting to help your homophobic sister
