Meet our 32-year-old protagonist, married to Frank, a 52-year-old father of two daughters from a previous marriage: Alice, 11, and Brenda, 13. The blended family co-parents amicably, sharing responsibilities and ensuring the best for the kids. But when Brenda’s baking hobby begins to consume significant amounts of flour and butter, and Alice’s online gaming habit demands constant in-game purchases, a financial dilemma arises. Frank decides to increase the girls’ allowance but insists they cover their hobby expenses. This decision, however, doesn’t go down well with everyone…
Meet the Family

Brenda’s Baking Passion

Alice’s Gaming Habit

New Allowance Rules

Kids’ Reaction to the New Rule

Ex-Wife’s Confrontation

Defending the Decision ️

Candy’s Stance ♀️

Clarifications and Justifications

The Budget for Baking

The Big Question ❓

A Recipe for Controversy: Who Should Pay for Kids’ Hobbies?
In a bid to teach their kids the value of money, our protagonist and her husband Frank decide to increase their daughters’ allowance but insist they cover their own hobby expenses. Brenda, the budding baker, now has to budget for her flour and butter, while Alice, the gamer girl, must fund her own in-game purchases. But this fiscal lesson doesn’t sit well with everyone. Brenda expresses dissatisfaction, and the girls’ biological mother, Candy, confronts the couple, demanding they support Brenda’s baking. The couple stands firm, arguing it’s a supportive approach and a valuable lesson in financial responsibility. But the question remains: Are they being fair or just plain mean? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
YTA for wasting food, but NTA for making her pay for ingredients.

NTA. Frank increased their allowance and taught them money management

Debate over kids paying for hobbies, but wasting food?
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NTA: Teaching a life lesson and finding a compromise

YTA for letting your stepdaughter waste food as a hobby ♀️

NTA: Teaching a valuable lesson through tough love.

NTA. Candy doesn’t get to dictate the rules. Especially when she isn’t allowing it in her own home.

NTA. Stipulation reasonable. Wasteful to throw away Brenda’s baking.
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Cooking classes for the stepmom to reduce food waste!

NTA! Brenda’s young age makes it perfect for learning about budgets

NTA. Kids shouldn’t lose allowance, need to learn responsibility

Teaching value of food vs. dollar: YTA or NAH?

NTA at all. Teaching financial responsibility through hobbies

YTA for wasting food.

NTA: Stepmom’s allowance solution sparks debate on parental responsibility

YTA for wasting resources. She needs to take classes.

Setting fair rules for all kids. NTA

NTA: Food waste is a concern, but art is priceless!
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“NTA, teach kids value of money. But is it really baking? “
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NTA: Parents paying for family meals, not wasted food

Mom’s strictness on wasting food sparks heated debate.

Expensive butter sparks debate on wasting money on hobbies.

Stepmom’s selfishness sparks debate on fair distribution of food

Stepparent’s wasteful behavior sparks debate on personal responsibility.

Teaching kids responsibility and the value of money!

NTA. Stepmom teaches responsibility and budgeting. Quality improves.

Encouraging kids to improve their hobbies without wasting food.
