Imagine this: You’re out for dinner with your friends, catching up and enjoying a delicious meal. Suddenly, one of your friend’s child, who happens to be autistic, starts helping himself to everyone’s food…including yours. What would you do? Would you let it slide or would you stand your ground? This is the dilemma faced by a 30-year-old woman, who we’ll call ‘Food Defender’, when she found herself in this exact situation. Let’s dive into her story…
A Long-Awaited Reunion ️

An Unexpected Guest

A Shocking Discovery

A Stand for Salad

A Mother’s Defense ️

The Second Course

The Argument Escalates

A Stand for Boundaries

A Divided Table ️

A Final Confrontation

A Mother’s Fury ️

The Aftermath

A Dinner Dilemma: Who’s in the Right? ♀️
In the aftermath of this tense dinner, our ‘Food Defender’ is left questioning her actions. Was she too harsh on Jim, or did she do the right thing by standing her ground? The opinions seem divided, with some siding with her and others accusing her of being the antagonist. The emotional fallout from this incident has left a bitter taste in everyone’s mouth, and it’s clear that this meal is one they won’t forget anytime soon. Now, let’s see what the internet has to say about this spicy situation… ️
NTA. Parents infantalize autistic child, hindering his development and independence

NTA calls out parents using autism as an excuse for bad behavior

“NTA. ASD isn’t an excuse. Teach boundaries. Jim’s mom failing.”

NTA, ASD level 1 doesn’t excuse grabbing food.

NTA stands up against boundary violations, sparking a heated debate.

NTA. Having a disability should NEVER be an excuse.

NTA: Parents neglecting child’s eating habits, causing gross situation

NTA: Friend’s son needs to learn boundaries. Safety concerns arise.

NTA: Setting boundaries for children with ASD is essential

“NTA. Unhygienic eating habit sparks debate on discipline and boundaries.”

NTA: Mom neglects son’s unusual eating habit

NTA. Teaching food ownership is important. ️
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Joey’s food rules spark debate. Not the a**hole.
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Standing up for hygiene and manners in a challenging situation

NTA. Parents using autism as an excuse for bad parenting.

Movie reference sparks discussion on parenting and child development. NTA.

Outrageous! NTA for standing up against unhygienic eating habits

Husband’s support makes you NTA in boundary battle with Anna

NTA. Autistic child’s eating habit raises questions about dining etiquette.

Delusional enabler? The drama unfolds in this dinner dispute ️

NTA: Anna tries to teach manners to an autistic child

NTA: Standing up against rude behavior from an autistic child

Unsanitary eating habit sparks debate over personal boundaries

NTA. Anna’s approach to her autistic child’s eating habits.

NTA: Setting boundaries with an autistic child’s eating habits

NTA. Teaching boundaries and manners is essential for children

Gross eating habit sparks debate about hygiene and COVID concerns

Comparing teaching Helen Keller to an autistic child. NTA.

NTA. Parenting and teaching boundaries is crucial for children’s development.

“NTA. Firm, not unkind. Jim handled it better than adults. “

Anna: Entitled bully or misunderstood?

Anna’s parenting criticized, concerns raised about Jim’s future

Woman defends her actions against autistic child’s eating habit

Sibling reflects on teaching manners to autistic brother.

♀️ NTA: Friend’s kid grabbing food with hands = dealbreaker. Terrible parenting.

Dog knows not to take food from plates. NTA.

Autistic person explains importance of teaching boundaries to children

Setting boundaries with an autistic child: NTA teaches important lesson

“NTA. Teaching boundaries is crucial, even for neurodiverse children. “

Standing up for personal boundaries when dining with neurodivergent individuals.

Commenter warns of potential consequences for child’s food behavior

NTA: Husband agrees, son needs boundaries. Mom not helping

NTA for standing up for yourself and setting boundaries

Autistic child’s eating habits: NTA, learning social clues is crucial

Parent criticized for not addressing child’s unusual eating habit

Supportive comment encourages setting boundaries for child with autism
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NTA, you stood your ground against an unusual eating habit

Defending your food territory like a boss! ️

NTA: Autistic person calls out inappropriate behavior, advocates for teaching.

Curious if everyone here is ‘neurodivergent’

Friend’s child grabbing food off plates: NTA for setting boundaries

NTA: Anna’s parenting skills are under scrutiny
