Picture this: you’re home alone when a stranger shows up at your door, claiming to be your roommate’s girlfriend. She says she needs to get something from his room, but you’ve never met her before. What would you do? One guy found himself in this exact situation and decided not to let her in, sparking a debate on whether he was being overly cautious or just plain rude. Let’s dive into the story and see what happened.
The Unexpected Visitor

The Request

The Proof?

The Phone Hunt ️♂️

The Call That Never Came

The Denied Entry

The Desperate Attempt

The Final Verdict

The Aftermath

The Roommate’s Reaction

The Dilemma

Cautious or Rude: The Great Debate
So, our protagonist found himself in a tricky situation when his roommate’s girlfriend showed up at their apartment, and he had never met her before. Despite her attempts to prove her identity, he refused to let her in, sparking a debate on whether he was being cautious or just plain rude. His roommate later confirmed that it was indeed his girlfriend, but was it really wrong for him to prioritize safety over trust? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
Roommate’s caution went too far, but better safe than sorry.
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“YTA. Made it harder than needed. Plenty of work arounds. “

YTA for not finding your phone and making this easy
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YTA denies girlfriend entry, awkward living situation.

“YTA. Did you think she was sneaking in to steal? “

Respecting boundaries: Roommate’s room off-limits, but communication is key.

YTA: Unreasonable and rigid, denying something simple.

Miscommunication with roommate’s girlfriend leads to denied entry

INFO: Roommate’s girlfriend denied entry. Was he right or wrong?

Roommate’s girlfriend denied entry: genuine concern or overreaction?

YTA for denying her entry, she tried reasonable resources

YTA for not helping her find her phone.

Roommate’s GF denied entry: NTA. Roommate’s fault, but OP could’ve tried harder ♀️

Overboard on security: YTA. Apologize to the girlfriend.

Being cautious with visitors, but losing track of phone

Safety first or overreacting? Roommate’s girlfriend denied entry

YTA. You know you messed up.
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Is he cautious or just paranoid?

Roommate’s girlfriend denied entry: YTA and lonely, bro
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YTA: Roommate’s girlfriend tries hard to prove herself, but you don’t reciprocate

Good call! Communication is key for everyone’s convenience.

YTA: Overreacted and made living with you difficult. ♂️

Being cautious is important, but some people went overboard!
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Roommate suspicious of girlfriend, comment calls them out for being unfair.

NTA — Protecting yourself and your home is always important

Being cautious paid off! Avoided potential theft from vengeful ex.

NTA – Roommate’s girlfriend tried to enter at 2am, sketchy situation
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