Bridesmaid’s Wedding Date Dilemma: Is She Right to Stand Her Ground?

Picture this: you’ve been happily married for six years, and now your best friend is planning her own wedding. You’ve been supportive and helpful throughout the entire process, with just one simple request – any date, but your wedding anniversary. Sounds reasonable, right? Well, not to this bride-to-be! Read on to find out how this friendship is being put to the test over a wedding date.

The Wedding Planning Begins

A Simple Request

The Plot Thickens…

Assurances and Laughter

Bridesmaids Dress Shopping ️

The Forbidden Date

The Shocking Suggestion

Taking a Stand ✋

The Only Restriction

Other Options Available ️

More Dates, More Choices

A History of Attention-Seeking?

Past Incidents

Wedding Day Drama

Birthday Hijinks

Friendship on the Line: Will the Wedding Date Destroy It?

So, our protagonist is faced with quite the predicament: her best friend, who has a history of attention-seeking behavior, wants to share her wedding anniversary date. Despite having numerous other dates available, the bride-to-be seems determined to choose the one date that’s off-limits. Our protagonist has made it clear that she won’t attend the wedding or remain friends if the date isn’t changed. Is she right to stand her ground? Or is this just another example of wedding planning bringing out the worst in people? Let’s see what the internet has to say about this dramatic situation…

Bridesmaid accused of intentionally picking same wedding date as friend. NTA.

Suggests a clever way to avoid bridesmaid’s wedding without conflict

Bridesmaid stands her ground, friend being cagey

Friendship on the line over wedding date clash

Bridesmaid won’t attend friend’s wedding on her own anniversary. NTA.

Politely setting boundaries for wedding date conflict.

Bridesmaid sets boundary, stands her ground and is NTA

Bridesmaid stands her ground, commenters side with her.

Toxic wedding drama leads to end of friendship.

Why can’t the bride be happy for her friend’s anniversary?

User questions the importance of wedding dates and friend’s behavior.

Bridesmaid’s date taken, commenter calls bride the a**hole.

Don’t throw away a friendship over a wedding date conflict. NTA

Bridesmaid stands her ground on wedding date, comment calls out sus behavior.

Communicate better with your best friend, but stand your ground.

Bridesmaid won’t attend wedding, but is she justified?

Friend’s wedding date dilemma, NTA for standing ground

ESH. Priorities misplaced. Exhausting wackadoos. ‍♀️

Self-centeredness ruins bridesmaid’s wedding, commenters agree. ‍♀️

Bridesmaid’s date request denied – NTA or ESH?

Bridesmaid’s suspicious behavior makes her friend skip her wedding

Choosing a wedding date over a friendship? NTA, stand firm!

Choosing anniversary date for wedding? NTA, bad friend

Friend chooses wedding date, drama ensues. YTA or NTA?

Wedding date drama: Commenter finds situation bizarre. No a-holes here.

Bridesmaid accused of being petty for standing her ground

Mother planned wedding on my anniversary, NTA for standing ground

Bridesmaid’s wedding date dilemma: bride’s friend is NTA

Let go of the date and celebrate the love!

Naming her kid after yours? NTA for standing ground.

Bridesmaid’s comment sparks debate: YTA or NAH?

Engaging in a friendly debate: Is it worth the fight?

Wedding date disagreement: NTA, but consider the friendship’s importance

Friend may be jealous and sabotaging, something to consider.

Friend breaks promise, NTA for standing ground on wedding date

NTA. Harsh, but true wake-up call about toxic friend.

Bridesmaid drama: Did she intentionally ruin her friend’s wedding?

Friend ignores wedding date request, now guilt-trips. NTA.

Choosing anniversary over wedding date, NTA. Valid reasons given.

Middle school ovulation twins? Friend wants anniversary twin. NTA.

Setting boundaries with manipulative friend over wedding date. NTA

Bridesmaid defends her decision to miss friend’s wedding for anniversary

Bridesmaid sets reasonable conditions for attending wedding. NTA

Friend prioritizes wedding over bridesmaid’s anniversary. NTA stands ground.

Bestie wants to share wedding date, something’s wrong with her. NTA

Book your trip and live your life happily

Bridesmaid’s date conflict sparks justified NTA judgment.

Wedding date clash drama – Bridesmaid stands her ground. NTA

Bridesmaid repeatedly asked for date, only refused anniversary. NTA.

When friendships become toxic

Mixed opinions on bridesmaid’s wedding date dilemma

A cautionary tale about a friend who always one-ups others

Don’t engage with immature behavior. NTA.

Anniversary date clash: A trivial issue or a valid concern? Who cares!

Let it go! ESH needs to grow up

Standing your ground on a wedding date: NTA

Wedding anniversary conflict could have been avoided with communication

Stand your ground, NTA! You warned her and have a right.

Bridesmaid stands her ground against bridezilla’s selfishness. NTA

Chill out, it’s just a wedding date. Be a good friend

Bridesmaid’s wedding date clashes with anniversary trip. NTA stands ground.

Ex-husband’s creepy obsession with wedding dates and mimicking behavior

Bridesmaid stands her ground against bridezilla, gets accused of AH. NTA.

Bridesmaid’s deliberate wedding date choice causes hurt feelings

Choosing the wedding date out of spite? NTA or ESH?

Psychological phenomenon may have caused friend’s wedding date fixation

Stand your ground on your anniversary! NTA

Friend wants wedding on anniversary, NTA stands ground

Friend purposely picked same date as wedding anniversary, NTA.

Confusion over wedding date clash with friend’s anniversary

Bridesmaid’s ultimatum to skip wedding over date disagreement.

Bridesmaid’s bizarre behavior: NTA stands her ground

Suggests a friend date as an alternative to the wedding date.

Support for bridesmaid dealing with manipulative friend.

Wedding date conflict: Bridesmaid stands her ground. NTAH.

Prioritizing marriage leads to a successful and happy family ❤️

Bridesmaid accused of upstaging bride, commenters side with bride.

Bridesmaid told she’s ‘beyond YTA’ for wedding date demands

Choosing a wedding date over a significant milestone – NTA

Friend purposely choosing wedding date to upset you? NTA.

Wedding date drama sparks confusion and weirdness among guests

Missed anniversary or wedding party? YTA comment sparks debate.

Weddings make great anniversary parties, YTA for being selfish.

Couple celebrates shared anniversary with friends who got married same day